In this episode, Dr. Tamara Fackrell and Jake share the “secret sauce” behind their strongest seasons of connection: a simple, repeatable marital retreat. Borrowing the best parts of business off-sites, they walk through how getting away for 1–2 nights creates space to dream, reconnect, and work on your relationship—not just in it.

You’ll learn their 10–2 method (ten affirmations to two growth items) that keeps feedback gentle and loving, why the 5:1 positivity ratio matters, and their FREE framework that makes retreats Fun, Romantic, Exciting, and Effective. They also unpack how to build a shared vision (purpose, mission, values/pillars), set meaningful goals (think bucket lists and OKRs), review wins from the last quarter, and weave in lots of play and sexual intimacy—because joy fuels change.

What you’ll take away

• A step-by-step retreat rhythm you can copy this weekend
• The 10–2 conversation that keeps hard topics safe
• How to craft family pillars (your culture) and a motivating mission
• Practical cadence ideas (birthdays, anniversary, plus one more each year)

Resources mentioned: free worksheets and tools at mindfulmarriage.love.
Make it a date: plan your first (or next) retreat and taste the secret sauce for yourselves.

In this episode, we take on what feels impossible—how to solve the unsolvable problems in your marriage. You’ll learn how bridge building can turn conflict into connection and transform a relationship that’s good into one that’s truly great. Discover the mindset and tools that helped our own marriage rise from good to great, and how they can do the same for you.

Join Dr. Tamara Fackrell, a seasoned attorney with over 25 years of experience, as she dives deep into the eight common causes of divorce. Some of the causes might surprise you! Dr. Fackrell breaks down these key factors and provides insightful advice on how to avoid them. Whether you're newly married, in a long-term marriage, or navigating a challenging phase, understanding these causes is the first step toward building a healthier, more resilient marriage. Tune in for tips, expert legal perspectives, and strategies to strengthen your relationship and protect it from the pitfalls that lead to divorce.

In this episode, we dive into four powerful and healthy ways to solve problems. So often, miscommunication happens not because of the issue itself, but because we’re using the wrong method to work through it. Sometimes the solution is as simple as knowing whether to “solve” or to “share.”

Dr. Fackrell also introduces a practical technique designed she has developed to help emotion-driven people connect more effectively with logic-driven people. If you’ve ever felt misunderstood—or struggled to bridge that gap—this episode is for you. It’s a must-listen for anyone who wants better communication and stronger relationships.

Communication can either strengthen a marriage or slowly pull it apart. In this episode, we unpack the six common communication styles. We'll explain how each style shows up in everyday conversations, what strengths and challenges they bring, and how couples can bridge the gap when they communicate differently. You'll come away with practical insights on recognizing your own patterns, better understanding your spouse, and creating healthier, more effective dialogue in your relationship.

In our very first episode, Dr. Tamara Fackrell, J.D., Ph.D and her husband Jake Fackrell M.B.A. dive into the core practices that make marriages strong, healthy, and lasting. Drawing on over two decades of experience working with over 4,000 divorcing couples, we explore what helps relationships to thrive. Blending real-life stories, practical tools, and researched backed insights, we'll walk through simple habits that can make the difference between drifting apart and growing together.

Whether you're newly married, years into your relationship, or preparing for marriage, this episode will give you clear foundation for building a resilient, loving partnership.