What do you do when God transforms you — and nobody believes it?

Pastor Jim Domen lived as a gay man for five years. Then Jesus changed everything. The problem? The church doubted it, skeptics called it a lie, and the state of California tried to pass a law making it illegal to even tell his story.

It turns out Jim's favorite movie isn't just a movie. It's a mirror. Captain America: The First Avenger is the story of a man who gets transformed — and then gets sidelined. Made into a dancing monkey instead of a warrior. And what happens when he finally steps off the bench and into the fight he was made for.

This is one of the most honest conversations we've had on the show. Jim doesn't clean it up. Neither do we.

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Find Jim's books — Breaking Sin's Grasp, Not a Mistake, and the Button Kids Series — at jimdomen.com.

Spotify put the original episode in jail for showing the clips from Star Wars: A New Hope. So unfortunately, this episode has no clips--however, if you'd like to engage in the full episode, visit https://youtu.be/nRP8201-qgk to view the episode in its entirety on the YouTube channel.

Every man arrives at the moment where he has to answer the question: Am I really who I think I am?

Luke Skywalker faces that moment 30,000 feet above the Death Star — guidance computer off, Obi-Wan's voice in his head, Vader on his tail. No proof. Just faith.

Author, documentary filmmaker, and men's coach Eric Rogell joins Paul to break down Star Wars: A New Hope through the lens of origin stories, fear vs. courage, and what it actually takes for a lion raised by lambs to become who he's meant to be. Eric's story — raised by a single mom, kept safe from everything, angry about it for years — mirrors Luke's more than he realized. And probably yours too.

In this episode: why stories are the software of the soul, the difference between a culture of fear and a culture of courage, why the villain is just the hero of the other side, and the moment Luke stopped being a farm boy and became who he was always meant to be.

Find Eric's book Lions Raised as Lambs at lionsraisedaslambs.com.

Find out what your favorite stories say about you at unlockyourstory.org.

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You're not stuck. You're in the first act.

The Men at the Movies Star Wars episode is in Spotify jail — music licensing, no bond available. So while we wait, here's what you didn't see.

Paul sits outside with a cigar and shares two raw pre-show conversations: one with Sam Ainslie about how MATM got started, and one with Eric about superheroes, the hero's journey, and what the stories you keep coming back to are actually trying to tell you about who you are.

Also in this episode — MATM is officially moving to a monthly cadence, and something new is being built. Not a personality quiz. Not a framework that puts you in a box. Identity archaeology — excavating who you already are through the stories that have always spoken to you. Go to unlockyourstory.org and find out what your stories mean.

The full Star Wars: A New Hope episode drops as soon as Spotify springs it. This is just the warmup.

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What if you finally found the ones who made you — and the answer tried to kill you?

Prometheus is one of the most theologically loaded sci-fi films ever made, and most people missed it. In this episode, Paul sits down with visual artist and filmmaker Michael Errigo to dig into the questions buried at the heart of the film: Where do we come from? What do we owe our Creator? And what happens when the thing you build turns on you?

They cover the myth of Prometheus, the opening scene that reframes the entire movie, David the robot who wanted to be human so badly he became a monster, and Shaw — the one character who kept believing even when every answer made things worse.

This is a conversation about creation, cost, and the question every man is already carrying.

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Field of Dreams isn't a baseball movie. It's about a man pursued by a loving Father, haunted by his past, and invited into restoration he didn't think was possible.

Sam Ainslie has been on the Wild at Heart board for twenty years. He came to this conversation reluctantly. He left with something he didn't expect.

In this episode we explore what it looks like when God won't stop coming after his sons — through failure, resistance, and a voice that doesn't explain itself. It just invites.

Topics include:

• The relentless pursuit of a loving Father
• Why successful men still lack peace
• Accepting the mythic — there's more going on than you can see
• Why the final word on your most painful relationship might not be final

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Everyone wants to be a champion. No one wants to get punched in the mouth.

In this episode of Men at the Movies, we explore Cinderella Man through the real life story of Leo Clark. On the verge of playing professional basketball, Leo’s dream ended with one injury. What followed were even heavier blows: the death of his father, homelessness, and more than 60 straight rejections looking for work.

But what if the fight is not punishment? What if it is preparation?

We talk about resilience, humility, rejection, asking for help, and discovering that the battle you survived may be shaping you for something bigger than yourself. This conversation is for Christian men navigating failure, loss, identity, and purpose, and for small group leaders looking to spark meaningful discussion.

If you’ve ever wondered why God allows the punches, this episode is for you.

Watch Leo's Wild at Heart: The Series episode here.

Download the study guide here.

At some point, most men bury the boy they used to be—not because they wanted to, but because life demanded it. In Disney's The Kid, 40-year-old Russ Duritz is forced to confront his 8-year-old self, the boy he thought was long gone. Pablo Ceron lived this story when a marriage crisis forced him to face the younger self he'd tried to forget.

In this episode, Pablo shares his journey from a mission-focused sergeant whose control was costing him everything, to discovering that transformation isn't about fixing what's broken—it's about integrating the parts you thought you had to leave behind.

In This Episode:

• Why we bury parts of ourselves to survive
• The difference between elimination and integration
• How wounded younger selves show up in our present
• What it means to bring love instead of contempt to our story
• The power of union with Christ in healing

Featured Movie: The Kid (2000)

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Mark Evans was the black sheep—trapped in a Welsh village that didn't understand his dreams, pushed into an art world that didn't want what he created. He knows what it's like to be dead and hear the voice of love calling across space and time. His story threads through The Matrix and Far and Away—two films about men who refuse to stay trapped, who risk everything for the impossible, and who discover that grace is free but it will cost you everything.

This is part of our ongoing series with the men featured in Wild at Heart: The Series. If you haven't watched Mark's story yet, check it out on the Wild at Heart YouTube channel. Then join us as we unpack the two films that mirror his journey—and why men who step out of the boat can never go back.

🎬 THE FILMS: Far and Away (1992) & The Matrix (1999)

Joseph pursues free land in Oklahoma. Neo discovers the truth behind the Matrix. Both men don't fit where they are. Both push toward something impossible. Both discover that freedom demands everything—including death.

💬 KEY THEMES:

- Freedom costs everything

- To decide is to let something die

- Death before resurrection

- The beloved's voice calls you back to life

- Living divided lives vs. integration

- The 8.3% who step out of the boat

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We're in the middle of a series talking with the men who were part of Wild at Heart: The Series. Every man carries wounds—some buried deep, some tearing through the surface. This docuseries is an invitation to step into the stories of men who have faced their deepest wounds and found that God was there all along.

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