In this guest episode of Mastering Menopause, I sit down with Alicia, better known as AliciaXL on Instagram, TikTok, and Facebook. I found her through a clip shared by Brad Jensen, and I have been binging her content ever since. She is hilarious, brutally honest, and documenting her weight loss journey in a way that is refreshingly real.

We talk about why she chose full transparency, how accountability keeps her on track.

Alicia shares what it’s really like to lose weight when it isn’t pretty or perfect, how she handles low days, how she stays consistent when motivation is gone, and why tiny wins matter more than big, unsustainable overhauls.

We also get into practical nutrition and tracking. Alicia explains why tracking isn’t obsessive, it’s awareness, and why most people wildly underestimate portions and calories.

We talk protein goals, simple meal building, and how she makes “real life” cooking work without overcomplicating it. Plus, she shares her favorite tips, her most unhinged food combos, and the mindset shift she’s most proud of, learning how to stop hating herself and start talking to herself like someone worth fighting for.

If you’ve ever felt stuck, overwhelmed, or tired of trying to do this perfectly, you’re going to love this conversation.

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/aliciaaxl/

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In today’s episode of Mastering Menopause, I’m breaking down the real results from the 14-day Rapid Fat Loss phase my clients and I just completed — and why this approach works so well for women in menopause when it’s done correctly.

We kicked this round off on January 5, right after the holidays. With inflammation high, stress elevated, and diet breaks already built in, I knew the timing was perfect for a strong fat loss response. And the results did not disappoint.

Across this group, women lost anywhere from 4 to 9.4 pounds in just 14 days, dropped up to 4.2 percent body fat, and lost 5 to 8 inches, primarily from the waist. Even my leaner clients saw meaningful changes — and I personally dropped 6.2 pounds myself.

In this episode, I explain why rapid fat loss is not something my clients do all the time, how it fits into my 90-day FIT AF framework, and why building metabolism first is non-negotiable if you want fast fat loss without rebound.

I also walk you through:

• Why the first week always shows the biggest drop
• What’s really happening when the scale stalls in week two
• How strategic calorie increases can restart fat loss
• Why hunger stays low after the initial transition
• How sleep, energy, and workouts often improve during this phase
• Exactly how we reintroduce calories without regaining the weight

This episode is for women in menopause who feel stuck, frustrated by slow progress, or scared that faster weight loss will “just come back.” When rapid fat loss is structured, protein-forward, and time-bound, it can be one of the most effective tools for creating momentum and long-term success.

I also share details about my upcoming free 5-day Menopot Meltdown challenge starting January 26, designed to help you build the foundation you need before attempting any fat loss phase.

Lose 3-5 lbs in 5 days, kick those cravings, increase your energy, and shrink that belly!

We start Monday 1/26. Registration ends Saturday at 6pm ET. Live kick off call with a shopping list, recipes and all the details Sunday 11 am EST.

https://www.menopotmeltdown.com

If you’re ready to stop spinning your wheels and start seeing real results, this episode will show you what’s possible.

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Things are never going to calm down, and if you're waiting for the perfect moment to prioritize yourself, you're going to be waiting forever.

In this episode, I'm tackling the #1 pattern I see keeping women over 50 stuck: putting everyone else's needs ahead of their own. If you've ever told yourself "I'll start once things settle down" or "I just don't have time right now," this episode is your wake-up call.

You'll learn:

• Why the "I don't have time" excuse is keeping you burnt out, inflamed, and exhausted
• The real reason you struggle to make yourself a priority (hint: it's not about time)
• The airplane oxygen mask principle—and why your family needs you to put yourself first
• Simple, practical strategies to create non-negotiable self-care habits without overhauling your entire life
• How to set boundaries and delegate tasks (even when things won't be "perfect")
• Why your future self—three months, six months, or next summer—is counting on you to start NOW

This isn't about being selfish. It's about being sustainable. Your hormones demand it. Your metabolism demands it. Your future health demands it.

Bottom line: Midlife doesn't slow down, but you can choose to show up for yourself anyway. I'm sharing my word for 2026 (discernment) and challenging you to stop treating your needs as optional.

Ready to make 2026 the year you finally put yourself first? Listen now.

Thank you so much for listening, please share with a friend and subscribe so you don't miss an episode!

If you want to see how we can help you on your journey, book a quick 10-15 minute call so we can chat about your goals!
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Free No BS Menopause Secrets Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/kathykatalyst/?ref=share

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Do you have a question that you would like answered on the show? Please ask your question here:
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