Is your marriage working or are you both on autopilot.

In this 3L’s episode, Eman and Mimi get honest about seasons where marriage feels flat. No spark. No big arguments. Just house admin, kids, and memes.

They talk about: • Staying “for the kids” vs choosing each other on purpose • Why you must build shared dreams for life after the kids leave • Dating the version of your partner they are now, not who they were at 19 • How side hustles and working together shift respect and attraction • Why some couples fear leaving more than they value growth • Little changes that bring back connection without a huge overhaul

They also read a dilemma from a listener: together since 19, married at 25, now 37 and feeling like flatmates. No intimacy, no arguments, no depth. She suggests therapy, he says “we’re not broken.” Eman and Mimi share straight, practical steps for the partner who feels the distance first.

If you want a marriage that still has laughter, touch and shared vision when the kids move out, this one speaks to you.

THE 3L’S PODCAST The 3L’s Podcast is hosted by Eman and Mimi, married nearly 15 years with four children. They talk life, love and legacy with humour, honesty and faith, so you feel seen and leave with things you can try in your own relationship.