Ever found yourself silently tallying up who's done more? More parenting, more chores, more giving?

Or feeling a flash of resentment when your partner heads out for drinks and you're still knee deep in the chaos? You're not alone. When life gets full and stress kicks in, it's easy for couples to slip into the me versus you mentality, competing for time, energy and space. And before you know it, you're not working together anymore. You're just surviving side by side.

But there's a better way... when you shift into a team first mindset, everything gets lighter. You argue less, support each other more, and start making decisions that give you both more time, more peace, and more energy to actually start enjoying each other again.

In today's episode, we're sharing four simple mindset shifts that move your relationship from me to we.

Let's dive in.

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Ever had that moment where you agreed to something, maybe with work, friends or family, and then realised it was going to cost you in time, energy or connection with your partner? That sinking feeling of, oh, I probably should have checked in first or this is going to throw off our weekend, it happens to all of us. But when it starts happening regularly, your relationship can end up feeling like it's always coming second.

That's where boundaries come in. They're not about being rigid or shutting people out. They're about protecting what matters most, your connection.

Boundaries are how you say to the world, our relationship comes first. In today's episode, we're unpacking what healthy boundaries actually look like, why they matter, and how to set them as a team. Because when your relationship has boundaries, it feels protected, stronger and more united.

Let's dive in.

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Do you ever feel like there's just no time to properly connect with your partner? Between work, school, drop offs, appointments and basically keeping life running, connection often slips to the bottom of the list or gets saved for later. A later which, let's be honest, rarely comes.

But here's the thing, staying connected does take time. It just doesn't mean magically conjuring up hours you don't have. It's about using the time you do have, but with more intention. In today's episode, we're sharing a simple but powerful rule based on the research from the Gottman Institute that helps busy couples reconnect through five simple touch points.

These moments aren't about grand gestures, they're about building a habit of connection that fits into your life. Let's dive in.

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