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Bethany and Andy Needham host a live “Slightly Off Script” marriage show with Harbor Church, with guests Kaleigh and Josh, who share how Harbor Church was planted in Hyannis after sensing God’s call to reach their own backyard and why they focus on strengthening marriages. They answer audience questions about staying committed when love feels absent by “borrowing” God’s love and practicing gratitude, and about handling conflict when you think you’re right by avoiding wins at your spouse’s expense, seeking wisdom, and asking questions that lead toward truth. They discuss building a “safe harbor” through reaffirming commitment, honesty, grace for messy conversations, and peacemaking rather than peacekeeping. They address supporting a spouse who isn’t okay—especially depression—by cultivating an environment for healing without trying to “fix” them, encouraging personal responsibility and outside help, and helping with practical support. They close with guidance on kids’ activities using seasons, rhythms, and rest, plus lighthearted banter about lifting stats and scheduling intimacy.

00:00 Welcome Off Script

00:53 Wild Weekend Vibes

01:46 Harbor Church Origin

03:41 Why Marriages Matter

06:01 Audience Qs Begin

06:29 Staying Committed

10:18 When You Know Youre Right

17:09 Creating Safe Harbor

23:46 Peacekeeping vs Peacemaking

24:51 Stop Deflecting Conflict

25:07 Grace Over Being Right

26:24 Winning Side Arguments

27:18 Supporting a Struggling Spouse

28:11 Cultivate Not Fix

30:48 Love Without Conditions

33:14 Growth Language and Progress

34:24 Personal Responsibility and Help

37:50 Practical Support Questions

39:49 Kids, Sports, and Family Rhythms

41:52 Model Rest Not Performance

42:38 Fun Q&A and Wrap Up