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  • Why the Empty Nest Parenting Stage Feels Like Grief (and How to Rediscover Yourself and Start Finding Purpose)
    2025/08/26

    College drop-off brought a wave of emotion you weren’t fully prepared for. Now the house is quiet, the routines are gone, and you're left sitting in a new kind of stillness. The silence isn’t just around you, it’s inside, too.

    If you’re like many empty nest moms, you’re feeling the weight of a major shift. The old parenting roles you knew so well don’t seem to fit anymore, and the new ones? Still unclear. You were their manager, their problem-solver, their steady hand. Now you're learning how to show up differently in a parenting stage where love has to stretch, not lead.

    In this conversation, I open up about the raw truth of empty nest syndrome, the loss no one prepares you for and how I fumbled through that grief despite decades as a life coach. From letting go of control to reshaping the parenting dynamics with my adult kids, I share what it looked like to be cracked open by transition and still find something sacred on the other side.

    We talk about the invisible shift in parenting a young adult, the pain of distance, and the surprising relief that came with loosening my grip. I walk through four communication rules that helped me reconnect and the humbling lesson of learning to simply listen instead of fix.

    Here’s what we explored:

    • Why parenting roles and identity often feel fused and how to begin separating the two
    • The emotional toll of empty nest syndrome, letting go of control, and honoring grief without rushing healing
    • 4 communication rules that support connection without overstepping
    • How trusting the process can lead to growth in your relationship with your young adult and help you rediscover yourself
    • Why this new parenting stage might be the invitation you’ve been waiting for to find purpose again

    If you're standing in the doorway of a dorm room, or just starting to ask “now what?”, this episode is for you.

    Here’s to finding purpose, even in the quiet.

    Allison


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    Connect with me:

    Website: https://www.lifecoachallisongoldberg.com

    Email: navigatingthelaunch@gmail.com



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    11 分
  • When Silence Becomes the Norm: How Family Estrangement Shapes Your Self-Worth in Your Parenting Journey
    2025/08/19

    Have your adult children pulled away, not just emotionally, but completely? Do holidays pass without a single call or message? Are you living in the silence of family estrangement and wondering how things ended up here?


    You might be one of the estranged parents quietly carrying the weight of silence, questioning how something so natural, like parenting, could lead to such a painful distance. What once felt like care and involvement may now look like codependent parenting, tangled in fear, guilt, and a deep longing to stay connected.


    In this conversation, Lori Albright opens up about her real-life journey through parenting mistakes, silence from her adult children, and the hard truth of letting go as a parent. She shares how joining support groups for parents and working through the 12 steps for codependency helped her shift from heartbreak to hope.


    We talk about the grief that doesn’t come with a funeral, the kind of grief rooted in empty nest grief and the ache of family estrangement. Lori reflects on her decision to break long-standing generational patterns and how therapy for estranged parents gave her language, perspective, and the strength to keep showing up.


    You’ll hear how the pressure of perfection and overgiving led to patterns of codependent parenting, and how redefining boundaries became a step toward emotional healing. Lori’s journey reminds us that no matter the silence, there's still room to heal, reflect, and begin again.


    We also unpack why motherhood and identity often feel fused and what it takes to untangle them in the aftermath of estrangement and disconnection.


    Here’s what we explored:

    • Why motherhood and identity often feel fused and how to untangle the two
    • The role of reflection and humility in emotional healing
    • When silence becomes the signal to begin again
    • How to honor boundaries while holding space for future connection
    • What it really means to be brave after breaking generational cycles


    If you’ve ever felt invisible inside your own story, this episode is for you. It’s not a how-to manual. It’s a hand on your shoulder, saying “You’re not alone and there’s still purpose for you here.”


    Here’s to healing forward,

    Allison


    Want to be a guest on the show? Apply to share your story.


    Connect with me:

    Website: https://www.lifecoachallisongoldberg.com

    Email: navigatingthelaunch@gmail.com

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    27 分
  • Empty Nest Loneliness and Relationship Struggles: 5 Steps to Heal Emotional Disconnection and Rediscover Yourself
    2025/08/12

    In this episode, I share my own experience with empty nest loneliness, how it impacted my relationship, and the small but powerful steps I took to reconnect with myself and rebuild my self identity. We talk about how shame can keep us stuck, why pretending everything is fine only deepens the disconnection, and the moment I decided to face the truth out loud.


    I open up about the role therapy played in helping me unravel years of overgiving, how honest conversations brought my husband and I closer, and why reaching out to old friends became a lifeline. You’ll hear how I shifted from feeling invisible to creating meaningful connections in both my marriage and everyday life.


    Here’s what we unpacked:

    • Why empty nest life can trigger unexpected signs of loneliness
    • How to recognize emotional distance in relationships before it grows
    • Practical ways to rediscover yourself after years of prioritizing everyone else
    • The first step to relationship renewal in a long-term marriage
    • Why naming your feelings is the starting point for coping with change
    • How to take one small, intentional step toward connection every day
    • Ways to rebuild a deeper emotional connection with your partner
    • The importance of seeking community and not waiting for someone else to “rescue” you


    If you’re in the season of redefining who you are after the kids have left, this conversation offers grounded support, honest reflection, and actionable steps to help you feel seen again — in your marriage, in your relationships, and most importantly, in yourself.


    Here’s to finding your way back to you, one honest step at a time.

    Allison


    Want to be a guest on the show? Apply to share your story.


    Connect with me:

    Website: https://www.lifecoachallisongoldberg.com

    Email: navigatingthelaunch@gmail.com

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    11 分
  • Is Your Son Leaving for College? 3 Proven Ways to Stay Close, Set Boundaries, and Support Him Through the Transition
    2025/08/05

    In this episode, I sit down with my soon-to-be son-in-law Adam to talk about what it really felt like to leave home and head to college. He looked ready on the outside but inside, he was figuring out how to stay grounded while everything around him was changing.


    If you’ve been looking for parenting advice that’s honest and rooted in real experience with talking to teens, this episode is for you. We talk about real examples, awkward moments, and the quiet things boys often don’t express.


    Here’s what we unpacked:

    • How to offer steady emotional support during your son’s college journey
    • Practical parenting tips for guiding teens through big decisions
    • The importance of family communication when your child pulls away
    • How to approach talking to teens who don’t share much
    • Why healthy setting boundaries helps both parents and kids feel safe
    • Real ways to support the transition to adulthood without micromanaging
    • How to stay connected while navigating change as you parent adult children
    • What sons often feel but rarely say when leaving home
    • How to navigate early life transitions with empathy and confidence
    • Simple tips for long-distance parenting that actually work
    • What every parent needs to hear about understanding teenagers


    Whether you’re weeks away from college drop-off or already a year into the launch, this episode is filled with honest reflections and real tools to help you show up with love, presence, and calm confidence.


    Here’s to trusting their journey while staying rooted in love,

    Allison


    Want to be a guest on the show? Apply to share your story.

    Connect with me: Website: https://www.lifecoachallisongoldberg.com

    Email: navigatingthelaunch@gmail.com

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    20 分
  • Who Supports The Single Mom When the House Goes Quiet? The Truth About Empty Nester Life, Rebuilding Self-worth and Finding Community Support

    2025/07/29

    Do you ever feel like no one warned you how hard it would be once the kids left home? Have you found yourself wondering what’s left for you now? Are you exhausted trying to hold it together as a single mom while everything around you feels like it’s unraveling?


    In this episode, Kelly shares what it’s really like to rebuild self-worth after heartbreak, raise kids alone, and face life after divorce with no guidebook. We talk about how ignoring relationship red flags led to more pain, and how the real work starts when we choose to stop abandoning ourselves.


    Kelly opens up about dealing with emotional burnout, the power of journaling for healing, and how fitness and self-awareness helped her through intense lows. You’ll also hear why choosing yourself is not selfish, how community support changed everything.


    Here’s what we unpacked:

    • Why being an empty nester can feel more like grief than freedom
    • How to spot early relationship red flags and trust your gut
    • How to rebuild self-worth when everything feels like it’s falling apart
    • What setting boundaries looks like when you’re used to overgiving
    • How journaling for healing or voice notes can release stored emotions
    • Ways to prevent or recognize signs of emotional burnout
    • Why fitness can be a reliable outlet for emotional healing
    • How starting or joining a small group for community support can help you feel seen


    If you’re in the thick of redefining who you are after the kids have left, this episode offers grounded support, relatable truths, and real steps to help you move forward with clarity, strength, and a deeper sense of self.


    Here’s to honoring your growth while learning to choose yourself,

    Allison


    Want to be a guest on the show? Apply to share your story.


    Connect with me:

    Website: https://www.lifecoachallisongoldberg.com

    Email: navigatingthelaunch@gmail.com

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    29 分
  • When Motherhood and Life Transitions Got You Spinning: How to Keep the Mother Daughter Relationship Strong After They Leave with Emotional Parenting tools with Bernadette Catalana
    2025/07/22

    What happens when your kids grow up but still need you in new ways? What do you do when you're trying to help without taking over?


    This week I sat down with Bernadette Catalana, attorney, author, and mom of two grown daughters, for a real conversation about the ongoing motherhood journey. Together, we explore the hard parts of parenting adult children, how the mother daughter relationship changes over time, and what it takes to stay close without crossing the line.


    We didn’t just talk about the emotional stuff, we got into the practical tools too!


    Here’s what we unpacked:

    • Practice emotional parenting when the problems get bigger and more personal
    • Use family communication to stay connected, even when they pull away
    • Show your kids how to live by leading by example, not lectures
    • Stay steady through life transitions like breakups, illness, and independence
    • Build a strong mom and daughter bond through trust, not control
    • Use intentional parenting when you're not in charge of their day-to-day life
    • Respectfully set boundaries that protect both you and them
    • Navigate the real challenges of career and motherhood at different life stages
    • Reframe "balance" into sustainable work life harmony
    • Offer meaningful motherhood advice without stepping on your child's growth

    Whether you're deep into raising daughters or just starting to experience the shift in your role, this episode gives you practical, honest tools for parenting through change and staying present through it all.


    Listen in and find out how to stay close, stay steady, and keep showing up, even when everything keeps changing.


    Here’s to leading with presence, not control.


    Allison


    Want to be a guest on the show? Apply to share your story.


    Connect with me:

    Website: https://www.lifecoachallisongoldberg.com

    Email: navigatingthelaunch@gmail.com

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    29 分
  • My Husband’s Side of the Story
    2025/07/15

    Ever wonder what your partner is really thinking about the kids leaving home? What if you could get inside his head and hear the unspoken fears, the surprising joys, and the honest truth about what this new chapter means for your marriage? Well, today in a special episode, I’m sitting down with my husband, Joel, for a raw and honest conversation about his experience as an empty nester.


    We’re pulling back the curtain on what it’s like from a husband's perspective, the loneliness he felt, the concerns he had for me, and how our relationship has transformed since the kids left the nest. This episode is for anyone dealing with the quiet house, changing identities, and the amazing chance to rediscover love with your partner.

    "When you have that time, I think there can be a loneliness, a sadness, a boredom, whatever that comes along with just what do I do with my day, what's my purpose?"


    In this episode, I share:

    👉 A husband’s perspective on the empty nest

    👉 The initial loneliness and adjustment period

    👉 Fears about the marriage post-kids

    👉 How fatherhood changes after children leave

    👉 Recommitting to the marriage and partnership

    👉 Moving houses to start a new chapter

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    Find out more about me here, or shoot me an email navigatingthelaunch@gmail.com


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    38 分
  • Navigating the Emotional Shift: Mental Wellness After Launch
    2025/07/08

    Are you standing in your quiet kitchen, feeling a void that even work can't fill? There's nothing wrong with you, and there are proactive ways to feel like yourself again. Today, I’m exploring a topic often left unspoken: the profound emotional shift that happens when our homes become quiet after our kids launch.


    Many of us imagine an empty nest filled with relaxation and new hobbies, but the reality for so many is a sense of grief, loneliness, or a feeling of being completely lost. I want you to know that feeling this way is completely normal – you're not broken; you're just adjusting. Let’s explore proactive ways to navigate these feelings, from the power of therapy and life coaching to creating a personal "wellness space" in your home. It's about remembering that you matter, your joy matters, and this quiet period is actually the beginning of a new chapter in your life.


    In this episode, I discuss:

    👉 Coping with the empty nest quiet

    👉 Why grief and loneliness are normal

    👉 Therapy versus life coaching benefits

    👉 Affordable mental wellness resources

    👉 Creating your home wellness sanctuary

    👉 Rebuilding your social connections


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    Find out more about me here, or shoot me an email navigatingthelaunch@gmail.com


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    14 分