Episode Summary

When life flips upside down—through divorce, grief, or any major life change—worship is often the last thing on your mind. But in today’s conversation, Tom and guest Paul Berard explore why worship might just need to be your first response.

Recorded from Tom’s new home base in Portugal, this episode is filled with personal stories, hard truths, and biblical reminders about how to lift our eyes upward—even when life feels like it's falling apart. They discuss what worship looks like in the trenches, how to find God in the silence, and why masculinity should never be a barrier to expressing real, emotional faith.

What You’ll Hear

• Why worship is a vital part of Phase 2 in the Starting Over | Life 2.0 journey
• How to reframe worship as an act of healing, not just a ritual
• Personal stories of worship in times of loss and uncertainty
• The power of posture and music in emotional and spiritual breakthrough
• Why God honors raw, honest, unfiltered worship over polished perfection

Why You Should Listen

If you’re in a season where life feels unpredictable, and the idea of worship seems far off—or even impossible—this episode will meet you right where you are. Tom and Paul don’t offer clichés; they share real stories and honest insight about how worship has carried them through the hardest seasons of life. You’ll walk away reminded that worship isn’t about having the right words or the perfect setting. It’s about showing up—with all your pain, questions, and hope—and letting God meet you there.

Why This Episode Matters

This episode sets the foundation for understanding worship as a spiritual lifeline during a rebuild. It’s part of Phase 2 in Tom’s six-phase framework for starting over—a key step that often gets overlooked when people focus only on fixing external circumstances. Worship invites God into the healing process, helping listeners not just survive but truly rebuild from the inside out.

If today’s episode encouraged you, take the next step by visiting www.newlifewithgodpodcast.com. There, you’ll find additional resources and tools to help you navigate life’s challenges and rebuild with faith and purpose.

Share this episode with someone who may need a reminder that they’re not alone. Let’s inspire hope and show that with God’s grace, even the most broken seasons can lead to a beautiful new beginning.

If you'd like a copy of Tom's book "Starting Over: Life 2.0 With God', visit www.thestartingoverbook.com.

Do you want to know God and receive Jesus as Savior into your life for healing and salvation? Put your trust in Him with a simple prayer of faith HERE.

Episode Summary:

In this heartfelt follow-up episode, Tom and Paul dive deeper into the real meaning of prayer during life’s transitional seasons. Going beyond the basics of how or when to pray, they explore what it means to develop a sincere, intimate relationship with God through prayer.

Whether you're navigating change, feeling spiritually dry, or seeking to grow closer to God, this episode offers grounded, relatable encouragement to help you move beyond a surface-level prayer life. From using the Psalms as a model to interceding for others and realigning your desires with God’s promises, this conversation will inspire you to embrace prayer as both a relationship and a rhythm.

What You’ll Hear:

• How to develop a daily rhythm of prayer that goes beyond crisis mode

• Why praying for others shifts your heart and invites healing

• How to use God’s promises and scripture as the foundation of your prayers

• The difference between boundaries and walls in your spiritual life

• How brokenness and humility lead to deeper intimacy with God

Why You Should Listen:

If you've ever wondered why your prayers feel stuck, shallow, or repetitive, this episode will help you reset your perspective and rediscover the power of relational prayer. It’s not about fancy words or long hours—it’s about real connection with God, honesty, and growth.

Why This Episode Matters:

This episode reframes prayer as a lifestyle of alignment with God’s heart, especially during transitions. It’s a practical and biblical guide for how to grow spiritually through tough seasons by deepening your daily walk with God.

If today’s episode encouraged you, take the next step by visiting www.newlifewithgodpodcast.com. There, you’ll find additional resources and tools to help you navigate life’s challenges and rebuild with faith and purpose.

Share this episode with someone who may need a reminder that they’re not alone. Let’s inspire hope and show that with God’s grace, even the most broken seasons can lead to a beautiful new beginning.

If you'd like a copy of Tom's book "Starting Over: Life 2.0 With God', visit www.thestartingoverbook.com.

Do you want to know God and receive Jesus as Savior into your life for healing and salvation? Put your trust in Him with a simple prayer of faith HERE.

Summary:

In this episode of Starting Over | Life 2.0 with God, we dig into the very first step of healing after a major life change: prayer. If you've ever felt like you're stuck, overwhelmed, or unsure of where to go next, prayer isn’t just a last resort—it’s the beginning of rebuilding from the inside out.

I’m joined again by Paul Berard, and we talk candidly about what prayer really is (and isn’t), how to move past spiritual roadblocks, and how prayer isn’t about saying the right words—it’s about opening your heart to God. This episode sets the stage for the six-phase framework from my book Starting Over, and today, we explore how prayer becomes the foundation for real, lasting transformation.

• Why prayer is the first internal step in starting over

• The difference between a formulaic prayer and an honest conversation with God

• What to do when the answer to your prayer is “wait” (and why that’s the hardest one)

• How posture and consistency in prayer help deepen your faith walk

• The connection between prayer, emotional healing, and practical next steps in life

If you’re in the thick of uncertainty—whether from a loss, failure, or big transition—this episode will remind you that you don’t have to walk through it alone. We unpack what prayer looks like when life has knocked you down, and how you can use it as a starting point to rebuild your life with purpose. Even if you feel spiritually distant or unsure how to begin, this conversation will help you take that first step in a very real and honest way.

We all need a reset button sometimes, and prayer is often where clarity and comfort begin. This episode strips away the complications, traditions, and pressure we sometimes put on prayer and invites listeners into a space of real connection with God.

Whether you’re new to faith or returning after a hard season, this is a foundational conversation that will guide you into phase one of starting over—with God at the center.

If today’s episode encouraged you, take the next step by visiting www.newlifewithgodpodcast.com. There, you’ll find additional resources and tools to help you navigate life’s challenges and rebuild with faith and purpose.

Share this episode with someone who may need a reminder that they’re not alone. Let’s inspire hope and show that with God’s grace, even the most broken seasons can lead to a beautiful new beginning.

If you'd like a copy of Tom's book "Starting Over: Life 2.0 With God', visit www.thestartingoverbook.com.

Do you want to know God and receive Jesus as Savior into your life for healing and salvation? Put your trust in Him with a simple prayer of faith HERE.

Summary

In this episode of Life 2.0 with God, we’re talking honestly about what it means to move forward after a divorce. This life transition can shake your identity, your family life, and your faith. But it’s not the end of your story.

We’ll explore what it looks like to rebuild with God’s help—rediscovering who you are, choosing hope again, and learning to co-parent in a healthy, faith-filled way.

5 Key Takeaways from This Episode

• You Are More Than Your Marriage -Your identity is not tied to your past relationship. Rediscover your God-given passions and purpose.

• There’s Still Hope for Love - You can love again—but it starts with healing, obedience, and trusting God’s timing and standards.

• Co-Parenting Requires Grace and Wisdom - Your children need your stability more than your perfection. Be present, not perfect.

• Mindset Matters- Your age doesn’t disqualify you. If you’re still here, God still has a plan. Ask Him for strength and wisdom.

• Obedience Leads to Blessing - Following God’s truth—especially in relationships—lays a strong foundation for your future.

Why You Should Listen

If you’re walking through a divorce or rebuilding life after one, this episode gives you practical wisdom, spiritual encouragement, and a reminder that God’s not done with your story.

Why This Episode Matters

Divorce often brings shame, isolation, and confusion. But with the right mindset and biblical truth, you can navigate this new chapter with confidence, clarity, and hope rooted in Christ.

If today’s episode encouraged you, take the next step by visiting www.newlifewithgodpodcast.com. There, you’ll find additional resources and tools to help you navigate life’s challenges and rebuild with faith and purpose.

Share this episode with someone who may need a reminder that they’re not alone. Let’s inspire hope and show that with God’s grace, even the most broken seasons can lead to a beautiful new beginning.

If you'd like a copy of Tom's book "Starting Over: Life 2.0 With God', visit www.thestartingoverbook.com.

Do you want to know God and receive Jesus as Savior into your life for healing and salvation? Put your trust in Him with a simple prayer of faith HERE.

Healing After a Major Betrayal: How to Forgive, Protect Your Heart, and Rebuild with Grace

Summary:

Betrayal cuts deep—especially when it comes from someone you trusted. In this heartfelt episode, Tom shares from personal experience what it means to walk the long road of healing after a major betrayal. Whether you’ve been hurt by a friend, a spouse, a family member, or a business partner, the weight of that pain can feel overwhelming. But you don’t have to carry it forever.

This conversation unpacks the practical and spiritual steps toward emotional freedom, the importance of guarding your heart during recovery, and how to rebuild your life without bitterness taking root. If you’re struggling with how to forgive or how to move forward, this episode is for you.

5 Bullet Points Highlighting Key Points:

• Why forgiveness is more about your freedom than the other person’s behavior.
• The difference between healthy boundaries and isolation after betrayal.
• How to protect your peace while you're still in the healing process.
• Why bitterness can’t be your foundation—and what to build on instead.
• Biblical truths and personal practices to start over with clarity and hope.

Why You Should Listen:

If you’ve ever had the wind knocked out of you by betrayal, this episode offers a path forward. It’s not about pretending everything’s okay—it’s about taking real, honest steps toward healing, with God’s help. You’ll walk away encouraged, equipped, and reminded that even if your trust was broken, your story isn’t over.

Why This Episode Matters:

Betrayal can feel like the end—but it doesn’t have to be. This episode reminds listeners that God sees, God heals, and God still has a purpose for your life. It's a message of resilience, faith, and practical wisdom for anyone trying to pick up the pieces and begin again.

If today’s episode encouraged you, take the next step by visiting www.newlifewithgodpodcast.com. There, you’ll find additional resources and tools to help you navigate life’s challenges and rebuild with faith and purpose.

Share this episode with someone who may need a reminder that they’re not alone. Let’s inspire hope and show that with God’s grace, even the most broken seasons can lead to a beautiful new beginning.

If you'd like a copy of Tom's book "Starting Over: Life 2.0 With God', visit www.thestartingoverbook.com.

Do you want to know God and receive Jesus as Savior into your life for healing and salvation? Put your trust in Him with a simple prayer of faith HERE.

Summary

In today’s episode of Starting Over | Life 2.0 With God, Tom and guest Paul Berard unpack the very real struggle of managing anxiety during major life transitions.

Whether it’s a sudden loss, an unexpected move, becoming an empty nester, or walking through grief—these moments shake our routines and rattle our sense of control. But as Paul and Tom share from their own experiences, there are ways to slow down the chaos, reframe your mindset, and invite God into the stress instead of trying to carry it alone.

This is a real-life conversation about faith, fear, and finding steady ground when everything around you is shifting.

What You’ll Learn

• The difference between planned and unplanned transitions—and why the unplanned ones hit harder
• Why naming your anxiety is a key first step to managing it
• The importance of slowing down, breathing, and making “next-step” decisions—not solving everything all at once
• How exercise, small routines, and physical movement can reset your emotional health
• Why speaking truth to fear changes everything, especially with Scripture and support

Why You Should Listen

If you're feeling overwhelmed, uncertain, or just emotionally exhausted by the changes in your life, you're not alone—and you don’t have to navigate it on your own. This episode isn’t about giving you quick fixes. It’s about giving you real encouragement, grounded advice, and reminding you that God walks with you in the middle of the mess. Even when you don’t know what’s next, He does.

Why This Episode Matters

Transitions aren’t just logistical—they’re emotional and spiritual too. Left unmanaged, anxiety can paralyze us and steal the hope God wants to restore. But when we pause, breathe, and invite Him into the moment, everything starts to shift.

This conversation matters because so many people silently struggle through life changes thinking they have to “hold it all together.” But the truth is: healing starts when you admit you don’t have to. God’s not surprised by your situation—and He’s not disappointed in where you are. He’s with you, and He’s already working on what’s ahead.

If today’s episode encouraged you, take the next step by visiting www.newlifewithgodpodcast.com. There, you’ll find additional resources and tools to help you navigate life’s challenges and rebuild with faith and purpose.

Share this episode with someone who may need a reminder that they’re not alone. Let’s inspire hope and show that with God’s grace, even the most broken seasons can lead to a beautiful new beginning.

If you'd like a copy of Tom's book "Starting Over: Life 2.0 With God', visit www.thestartingoverbook.com.

Do you want to know God and receive Jesus as Savior? His death paid the price for your sins. Put your trust in Him with a simple prayer of faith HERE.

Summary

In this episode of Starting Over | Life 2.0 With God, Tom sits down with Paul Berard to talk about something that quietly affects so many of us—what to do when life has knocked the wind out of your dreams. After going through major disappointments, failures, or betrayals, dreaming again can feel risky. Even foolish. But what if that dream still matters? What if God’s not done with it—or with you?

This heartfelt conversation explores how to reclaim hope, rebuild your mindset, and protect those dreams from the voices (inside and outside your head) trying to shut them down. It’s honest, personal, and packed with encouragement for anyone trying to move forward after a major setback.

What You’ll Learn

• Why dreaming again after failure takes real courage
• How to tell the difference between a dream and a God-given vision
• The power of mindset and how it shapes your future
• How to guard your heart and protect your dreams from negative influences
• What to do when other people’s opinions threaten to derail your progress

Why You Should Listen

If you’ve ever thought, “It’s too late for me,” or “I don’t even know how to start over,” this episode is for you. Tom and Paul don’t shy away from the hard stuff—they’ve both walked through it. But what you’ll hear is not just their story—it’s a reminder of your story still being written. If you're in a place where you want to believe again, to dream again, to try again, this conversation might be just what your heart needs.

Why This Episode Matters

Life has a way of dimming the dreams we once held tightly. But God is the one who brings beauty from ashes. When we dare to dream again, even with shaky hands, we’re stepping into the story God still wants to tell through us.

This episode matters because too many people are stuck in regret, self-doubt, or fear—and they need to be reminded that it’s not too late. That there is still more ahead. That dreaming again might just be the most faithful thing you can do right now.

If today’s episode encouraged you, take the next step by visiting www.newlifewithgodpodcast.com. There, you’ll find additional resources and tools to help you navigate life’s challenges and rebuild with faith and purpose.

Share this episode with someone who may need a reminder that they’re not alone. Let’s inspire hope and show that with God’s grace, even the most broken seasons can lead to a beautiful new beginning.

If you'd like a copy of Tom's book "Starting Over: Life 2.0 With God', visit www.thestartingoverbook.com.

Do you want to know God and receive Jesus as Savior? His death paid the price for your sins. Put your trust in Him with a simple prayer of faith HERE.

Summary

In today’s episode of Starting Over | Life 2.0 With God, we’re getting real about something many people struggle with but don’t always talk about—loneliness after a breakup or divorce.

Tom opens up about his own experience with the silence that follows a relationship ending, how it hit harder than expected, and what helped him move through it.

This episode isn’t just about the pain—it’s about healing, rebuilding your identity, and finding God in the quiet moments. Whether you're in that space right now or supporting someone who is, this conversation offers hope, encouragement, and practical ways to keep going.

What You’ll Learn

• Why loneliness can feel so heavy after a relationship ends

• How to stop replaying the past and start moving forward

• Ways to build new connections and community

• The difference between being alone and being in solitude

• How to let God meet you in the quiet when life feels empty

Why You Should Listen

If you’re feeling like your world just fell apart—or even if it happened a while ago and you're still struggling—this episode is for you. You’ll hear honest talk about what it’s like to start over, why it’s okay to grieve what could’ve been, and how faith can help you rebuild from the inside out. It’s a reminder that you’re not the only one feeling this way, and that healing is possible—one step at a time.

Why This Episode Matters

After a breakup or divorce, it’s easy to feel like you’re the only one going through it. But you’re not. This episode helps break that isolation by offering stories, scripture, and encouragement from someone who’s been there. If you’re in a season of starting over, this is a gentle nudge to keep going, trust God, and believe that something better is still ahead—even if you can’t see it yet.

If today’s episode encouraged you, take the next step by visiting www.newlifewithgodpodcast.com. There, you’ll find additional resources and tools to help you navigate life’s challenges and rebuild with faith and purpose.

Share this episode with someone who may need a reminder that they’re not alone. Let’s inspire hope and show that with God’s grace, even the most broken seasons can lead to a beautiful new beginning.

If you'd like a copy of Tom's book "Starting Over: Life 2.0 With God', visit www.thestartingoverbook.com.

Do you want to know God and receive Jesus as Savior? His death paid the price for your sins. Put your trust in Him with a simple prayer of faith HERE.