What if you’re not just heartbroken… you’re exhausted from trying to understand what happened?

After a Christian relationship ends-especially one you believed God was leading-you may find yourself constantly replaying conversations, questioning your decisions, analyzing what God was doing, and searching for an explanation.

In this restful episode of Kingdom Spouse Disappointment, we talk about the difference between processing disappointment and endlessly replaying it. You’ll be reminded that you don’t have to solve every unanswered question before you can begin healing.

If you’ve been asking, “Why did this happen?” “What did I miss?” “Did I do something wrong?” or “What was God doing?”-this episode invites you to breathe, release the need to know everything, and find peace in God’s presence even when you don't have all the answers.

If you’re healing from Christian relationship disappointment, heartbreak, spiritual disappointment, or confusion about God’s plans, this episode is a gentle reminder: you can rest without having every answer.

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If today's episode resonated with you, I'd love to stay connected.

Visit www.lorikayemyles.com to explore my free devotional, and other free resources created to encourage you on your healing journey.

And if you're ready to go deeper, you'll find information about my book and other resources designed to support your journey toward healing and hope.

Remember...you don't have to walk through this alone.

Have you ever been angry with God?

In this episode of Kingdom Spouse Disappointment, we tackle one of the most difficult and often unspoken topics in the Christian faith: anger toward God ...especially after heartbreak or after relationship disappointment.

Together, we'll explore whether it's sinful to be angry with God, how to recognize hidden anger that may be affecting your relationship with Him, and what Scripture teaches about bringing your honest emotions to a loving Father.

We will also go over the H.E.A.L. Framework - a practical, biblical approach to processing anger and beginning your healing journey

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🌿 Continue your healing journey

If today's episode resonated with you, I'd love to stay connected.

Visit lorikayemyles.com to explore my free devotional, and other free resources created to encourage you on your healing journey.

Do you feel like your prayers are hitting the ceiling, especially in a season of heartbreak or relationship disappointment? Do you feel like you desperately need an answer but it feels as if God is on "airplane mode"?

Then this episode is for you.

This episode explores the difference between God’s silence and His absence, especially after heartbreak or when a promised 'kingdom spouse' didn’t materialize.

My name is Lori, and today we will explore Job’s story as well as four practical ways God still speaks even if it appears He is silent.

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Have you ever wanted to pray... but didn't know what to say to God?

After a relationship you believed God revealed or promised ends - or didn't even begin, the heartbreak often goes far beyond losing the relationship. It can leave you questioning whether you can trust God, hear His voice, or even feel safe bringing Him your honest emotions.

In this episode of Kingdom Spouse Disappointment, Lori explores the difficult reality of what happens when God feels distant after spiritual and relationship disappointment. She talks about why fear can replace trust, why honesty in prayer is not a lack of faith, and how Scripture makes room for lament.

If you've ever wondered:

• Why does God feel so far away?

• Is it okay to tell God I'm hurt?

• How do I pray when I don't know what to believe anymore?

...this episode is for you.

Through the Psalms, we'll see that God welcomes honest prayers even when they're filled with lament and uncertainty.

If your heart has been quietly asking, "God, I thought this was You," I pray this conversation reminds you that your questions don't disqualify you from His presence.

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Have you ever wondered, "Was I crazy for believing God?" If you've experienced disappointment in relationships, heartbreak, or you're struggling to trust God after a breakup, this episode is for you. In this episode of Kingdom Spouse Disappointment, we'll talk about the fear, confusion, shame, and self-doubt that can follow when you believed God revealed your future spouse...but the relationship ended or never even happened. You'll be reminded that trusting God doesn't make you foolish, your questions don't disqualify your faith, and you're not alone in your healing journey.

🌿 Continue your healing journey with my FREE devotional and more faith-filled resources at www.lorikayemyles.com

What happens when you truly believe God showed you your future spouse... and the relationship still falls apart?

In this episode, I'm sharing the painful aftermath of heartbreak, the confusion that followed, and the hard questions I brought to God when everything I thought made sense suddenly didn't.

If you've ever replayed the dreams, signs, scriptures, or confirmations and asked yourself, Did I hear God wrong? - this episode is for you.

This is a tender conversation for anyone navigating heartbreak, loss, disappointment, and the struggle to rebuild trust in God.

Your grief is real. Your questions are real. But your story is not over.