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"Just one more. Then I'm done. I promise. This is the last one."

You've heard it. Maybe you've even believed it — because part of you needed to.

Of all the lies people in active addiction tell, "just one more" is the one that works because it doesn't deny the problem. It claims the problem is almost over. And that's exactly what makes it so hard to stop agreeing to.

In this episode, interventionist Matt — 20+ years in the field, 23 years in recovery — breaks down why "just one more" is one of the most effective tools addiction has against families. He names the three versions you're most likely to hear (event-based, quantity-based, and the most painful one: the conditional — "just let me do this last time and then I'll go to treatment"), explains why holding someone to the promise almost never works, and gives you a single, concrete response to use the next time you hear it.

This is episode five of The Lies We Tell — the series covering the most common things people in active addiction say to keep the whole system running.

If you've been standing next to someone else's finish line for years, this episode is for you.

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