What if burnout isn't a sign you're doing too much — but a sign you've forgotten who you are? In episode 264 of Joy Found Here, Dr. Rebecca Hubbard, licensed clinical psychologist and TEDx speaker, brings her own hard-won burnout story to the table — from a thyroid diagnosis to burning out again despite doing all the "right" things — and reveals why the real fix isn't another self-care routine. It's an identity shift.

In This Episode, You Will Learn:

(03:15) How a basketball scholarship brought Rebecca from Berlin to the U.S. — and planted the seeds of burnout

(05:30) The thyroid diagnosis that forced her first real recalibration

(07:03) Why self-care alone wasn't enough — and burning out again during the pandemic

(08:46) The identity shift at the heart of burnout recovery

(10:48) How social, cultural, and professional identities intersect to fuel over-functioning

(13:15) Why slowing down is medicine — and what comedic yoga taught her about it

(22:32) Micro self-care in action: three practical strategies for overwhelmed moms

(26:00) The real definition of burnout — and why interrupting chronic stress is the key

(38:01) Why reading for pleasure (not self-improvement) is a radical act against hustle culture

(42:38) The shift from proving to choosing — and what that looks like in real life

Dr. Rebecca Hubbard is a licensed clinical psychologist, burnout prevention specialist, and TEDx speaker based in Chicago, Illinois. With over a decade of clinical practice, she works with high-responsibility professionals navigating chronic stress, identity pressure, and performance expectations, drawing on research in race and resilience and a mindfulness-integrated approach. She is also an award-winning comedic yoga instructor who offers individual therapy, virtual workshops, and small-group sessions to help people break burnout cycles for good.

In this episode, Dr. Rebecca Hubbard reframes burnout not as a self-care or time management problem, but as an identity issue rooted in the stories we've absorbed about our worth — from family, culture, and profession. Drawing on her own burnout journey (including a thyroid diagnosis and burning out again during the pandemic despite having all the "right" boundaries in place), she introduces the concept of micro self-care: mindful everyday tasks, maximizing actual breaks, and reducing stress in daily transitions. She and Stephanie also explore motherhood, perfectionism, and the systemic barriers that make rest harder to access — closing with a powerful reminder to move from proving to choosing who you want to become.

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What if the reason you can't stick to diets has nothing to do with willpower and everything to do with how your brain is wired? In episode 263 of Joy Found Here, Lizzie Merritt, bestselling author and certified weight loss coach, reveals how a daily 4:37 PM snack spiral became her wake-up call. From middle school science teacher to coach, Lizzie shows that weight loss isn't about food or willpower. It's about teaching your brain to feel safe enough to change. Through her books "You Are a Miracle" and "LIGHT: The New Psychology of Weight Loss," she cracks the code on why traditional diets fail and why her brain-based method actually works.

In This Episode, You Will Learn:

(5:31) How a daily 4:37 PM snack habit turned into a binge cycle, even though she knew exactly what to do

(7:07) The 2:33 AM moment in Guam when loneliness and overwhelm forced her to choose between the hamster wheel or finding the missing piece

(10:53) Why diets literally work against the way women's brains are wired, no matter how smart or capable they are

(15:20) How deleting tracking apps and asking "Am I hungry?" started to shift her relationship with food

(20:12) Why feeling safe around food and stress is the actual foundation, not discipline or willpower

(29:37) The L.I.G.H.T. Method: how teaching your body to feel safe makes change feel possible instead of threatening

(47:25) Why reframing food as a choice instead of a moral judgment changes the entire dynamic

(48:07) How the Confident Body Podcast became her platform for reaching women who are tired of starting over every Monday

Lizzie Merritt is a former middle school science teacher turned certified weight loss coach and bestselling author. She helps smart, capable women break free from rule-following diet cycles. Through her L.I.G.H.T. Method, she teaches a brain-based approach that works with your brain instead of against it. She reminds women that the life you want to lose weight for is waiting on the other side of safety, not suffering.

Lizzie takes you back to the 2:33 AM moment that changed everything. On a tiny island, she discovered through neuroscience that our brains seek comfort when they don't feel safe. Strict rules create a threat, nervous systems shut down, and shame becomes constant. As she learned to feel safe around food and change, mental real estate freed up. She opens up about why rule-following backfires in diets and how her podcast became an act of courage. By the end, Stephanie and Lizzie map out why Monday resets are symptoms, not solutions, and why breakthroughs happen when you stop waiting to lose weight and start living the life you want.

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You Are A Miracle : How to Lose Weight and Love Your Body Too

LIGHT: The New Psychology of Weight Loss

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What if the life you were always meant to live was hiding inside the one you were already living? In episode 262 of Joy Found Here, Katie DeBonville — writer, musician, and first-time memoirist at 53 — shares how a pandemic-era MFA, a lifelong love of music, and the quiet courage to finally call herself a writer converged into her debut memoir, Grace Notes: A Musical Memoir. For Katie, the story wasn't about starting over — it was about finally letting every part of herself show up on the page at once.

In This Episode, You Will Learn:

(04:54) How a blank book from her dad sparked a lifelong love of writing — and why flute nearly won

(07:17) The crisis of confidence that redirected Katie from music to arts fundraising

(10:01) Why the pandemic and a low-residency MFA at Lesley University changed everything

(11:28) The friend's book launch that led her to Sibylline Press — and an acceptance email in three days

(12:27) Getting the life-changing news on a bus in Scotland

(14:33) The three mentors who transformed a seven-page draft into a full memoir chapter

(24:38) Why she resisted the "memoir" label — and what finally made her embrace it

(36:50) Why the world's shrinking expectations became her greatest creative freedom

Katie DeBonville is a writer, musician, and arts fundraising professional whose debut memoir, Grace Notes: A Musical Memoir, is published by Sibylline Press — a house dedicated to women 50 and over. A lifelong flutist who once dreamed of the Boston Symphony Orchestra, she spent 30 years in arts development before the pandemic gave her the push she needed to pursue her MFA in creative writing at Lesley University, where her thesis became the memoir she was always meant to write.

In this episode, Katie DeBonville shares the winding road from childhood writer and aspiring musician to first-time published memoirist at 53 — a journey shaped by crises of confidence, a pandemic-era MFA, and mentors who refused to let her call a seven-page draft "done." She opens up about the writing community she found at Lesley, her composer grandfather whose work appears on a Nina Simone record, and why it took another woman calling her a writer before she could claim the title herself. She also drops a line Stephanie immediately flagged for a mug: "The world has fewer expectations of me, so I can have more expectations of myself."

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