In Part Two of our journey with Jin, we move from the harrowing escape routes of the 1970s to the vibrant, complex grid of 1980s San Francisco Chinatown. This episode explores the different timelines of the Chinese diaspora—where four-generation American families collided with a new wave of Southeast Asian refugees. We trace a crazy meet-cute that involves a blind date gone wrong, the high costs of long-distance longing, and a relentless pursuit involving 150-pound bags of rice.

In This Episode, We Explore:

• Chinatown’s Linguistic Map: Why 1980s San Francisco was a complex grid of mutually unintelligible dialects, from the Toisanese "Old Guard" to the prestige of Hong Kong Cantonese.
• The "Linguistic Chameleon": The double-silence faced by Teochew, Hokkien, and Hakka refugees who had to mask their origins to find work in garment factories and kitchens.
• The Logic of Lineage: A deep dive into the Confucian family structure and the strategic practice of child transfer (ti) to preserve family altars.
• The Gaokao Ceiling: How China’s high-stakes national exam served as a 5% gateway to social mobility—and how missing the cutoff changed the trajectory of Jin's mother’s life.

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Historical References & Context

To maintain the integrity of our storytelling, we utilize peer-reviewed historical data and archival records. Key context for this episode includes:

• The Siyi Network: Documentation on the Toisanese (Taishanese) pioneers and their century-long influence on San Francisco property and commerce.
• Post-1965 Immigration: Records on the shift of Cantonese as the "prestige language" of business and media following the Hong Kong wave.
• The Gaokao System: Historical data on the 1977 reinstatement of the National College Entrance Exam and its role in defining the professional class.
• Confucian Hierarchy: Research on Filial Piety and the roles of the Da Xi Fu (Eldest Daughter-in-Law) within Teochew merchant family structures.

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Episode Credits

Host, Producer, Research & Sound Design: Jess Lin

Advising and Production Support: Ruben Gnanaruban

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