Two years after our last episode, we're breaking the silence to share the unexpected twists and profound revelations from our journey abroad. What began as a strategic move to the Dominican Republic—seeking affordable living and family support as we welcomed our fifth child—evolved into something far more transformative than we ever anticipated.

When we left Florida in May 2023, we had a clear vision: find a beautiful home near the beach, hire household help to free us from domestic responsibilities, and create space for both parents to fully bond with our newborn. The military-to-civilian transition had been challenging, especially after Alex's abrupt discharge for refusing the COVID vaccine. Dominican Republic offered not just beautiful beaches and surf spots for our kids, but a financial breathing room that allowed us to reimagine family life entirely.

Just as we were settling into our routine, an unexpected notice from our landlord refusing to renew our lease became the catalyst for our greatest adventure yet. Rather than simply finding another apartment, we asked: "Why not travel the world?" Within weeks, we had sold nearly everything we owned, packed our lives into six suitcases, and embarked on a journey that would test and transform us in ways we couldn't have imagined.

Throughout this raw, unedited series, we'll share how living outside the American bubble has changed our perspective on everything—from healthcare (where we've received better care as veterans abroad than we ever did in the States) to the delicate balance between structure and freedom after military life. We'll tell the story of our travels, the communities we've discovered, and the heartbreaking loss of our son Liam that has deepened our commitment to living authentically and sharing our truth.

Join us as we explore what it means to challenge conventional wisdom, find purpose beyond borders, and create a life of meaning while holding space for both individual dreams and family vision. If you've ever wondered what lies beyond the familiar or how to navigate life's unexpected turns with both grace and determination, this series is for you.

Join hosts Jessyl and Alex Lange as they discuss conscious leadership tools that have transformed their lives, offering prompts and exercises that you can use in your own life. Through personal anecdotes and practical advice, Jessyl and Alex emphasize the importance of taking responsibility and approaching life with curiosity and a growth mindset instead of blame and victimhood. You'll learn how to break negative thought patterns, communicate effectively in relationships, and create win-win solutions. This podcast is a must-listen for anyone seeking growth and positivity!

[00:00:00] Challenges and Upcoming Plans Amidst a Move

[00:03:50] Conscious Leadership Tools and Mindset Shift
[00:07:43] Taking Responsibility and Building Conscious Connection
[00:11:11] Personal Growth Through Adversity
[00:14:50] The Power of Asking Questions
[00:18:18] Taking responsibility for personal problems
[00:22:11] Steps for Resolving Relationship Conflicts
[00:25:46] Changing Household Responsibilities in Relationships
[00:29:19] Creating a vision with your spouse
[00:32:26] Taking 100% Responsibility for Outcomes

Alex and Jessyl were excited to start a new business venture together in 2019. After a short 3 years it came to an end. On this podcast we discuss what this experience was like and what lessons we learned. Tune in to hear what’s next for us.

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In this episode we do a quick Introduction to The Conscious Leadership tools that have been the foundation of changing our communication. The tools have allowed us a “new language” of expression to begin to understand one another on a deeper level. These tools have been created by the Conscious Leadership group.

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Today we bring you a topic that while difficult to talk about, is the reality of many relationships. Infidelity, lies and lack of connection. We discuss how we began to slowly peel back the layers to deep seated trauma, and heal within our relationship. Rebuilding our foundation of what it means to be in relationship meant breaking down the one that was built before. Here, we tell you how we have done that.

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In this episodes we dive into the two early births we have experienced. We discussed the why, the impact, and how we have come closer together because of it.

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In this episode we dive into our first four pregnancies and births. We discuss how we went from a hospital birth to birthing at home in another country without medical assistance. Additionally, we discuss how these experiences have transformed us as a couple and deepened our trust within each other.

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In our recent episode we discuss how being together all the time has kept us from focusing on ourselves. Losing sight of our vision and individual aspirations gets us back on an old cycle. We discuss why we believe often times couples choose to separate and even divorce. Committed to turn things inwards and find the true issue is where this conversation stems from.

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