No curated perfect lists of attachment in this video! This episode we are building from last weeks, what emergent qualities start to come through the more we work on the internal foundations of earned secure attachment?

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This week we talk what is earned secure attachment, how this additional label can help us when it comes to spiralling and five foundational tools that translate in secure relating skills such as healthier communication, noticing when we are emotionally flood and as always, take aways you guys can do today. #secureattachment #earnedsecureattachment #healthyrelaitonships #somaticrelationships

Have you ever found yourself replaying a conversation or moment, wondering: “Was I overreacting? Did I misread that? Is it them… or is it me?”When we’ve grown up without consistent emotional attunement, experienced relationships that made us second-guess our reality, or struggled with internal disconnection (like a weakened insula connection), it’s common to feel unsure about our own emotional experiences.In this episode, I unpack why this happens - and share tangible practices you can start using now, like emotional tracking, shifting perspective, building self-trust, reframing self-care into self-attunement, and even keeping a doubt diary. These aren’t just tools for personal healing; they’re foundational skills for creating more secure, authentic relationships with yourself and others.Because when we can trust our own emotions, we can show up with more clarity, confidence, and connection. #secureattachment #somaticrelationships #emotionalattunement #dating