There comes a point where you have to stop asking, “Why are they doing this to me?” and start asking, “Why do I keep allowing it?”

In this episode of You’re Probably Right, MCM speaks straight to the ones who have given more to one person than they ever have to anyone else – more money, more time, more patience, more emotional support – and got the least in return. You showed up as the best version of yourself, and they responded with crumbs, confusion, and bare minimum effort.

This is not about calling you weak. It is about understanding why you overgive, why you accept disrespect, and why you keep fighting for people who would never fight for you in the same way. We break down what is really going on when you become the permanent giver, and why the real pattern is not just about “takers” – it is about how you see yourself.

In this episode, MCM talks about:

• What an unbalanced relationship actually feels like in your body

• How childhood roles and people pleasing turn into overgiving in adult relationships

• The quiet “deal” you make in your mind when you hope effort will buy loyalty

• The emotional cost of overgiving: exhaustion, resentment, and losing yourself

• Why respect matters even more than “I love you” in male and female relationships

• How takers learn your limits by watching what you allow

• Why you have to stop trying to earn love through suffering and sacrifice

• Practical steps to rebuild self worth, set real boundaries, and stop trying to fix people with effort

• How to start loving yourself without turning cold or bitter

If you have ever wondered, “Would they still be here if I stopped doing everything?” this episode is for you. It is not about blaming you for their behaviour, it is about giving you your power back so your love and your self respect can finally walk together.