Ever thought, “My husband is really the problem in this relationship”?

Maybe he’s passive, distant, defensive, controlling, or just not showing up the way you need him to. What if the problem on the surface is actually pointing to something deeper? And what if the opposite question is asked,“Is my wife the problem?”

In this episode, we talk through four questions that can help you look beneath the conflict and understand what’s really happening in your marriage. We're not here to blame husbands or wives, but to uncover the patterns, wounds, expectations, and other issues that may be hiding underneath the problems you face.

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