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What happens when nothing about the way you look has changed, but everything about the way you function has?

In this episode of Rupture, Wendy Lurrie talks with Fallon Morey about invisible disability, the pressure to seem fine, and the exhausting labor of having to constantly explain, justify, and translate what others cannot see.

Fallon shares her experience with depression, anxiety, ADHD, and being diagnosed as autistic later in life, and how those ruptures reshaped her work, identity, relationships, and understanding of herself. Together, Wendy and Fallon unpack masking, the hidden cost of credibility, the failure of medical and workplace systems, and what it means to rebuild a life when the world was never designed for the way your brain works.

This is a powerful conversation about invisible disability, neurodivergence, grief, accommodation, and what happens when systems only trust what they can see.

In this episode:

• invisible disability and the burden of proof
• autism diagnosis in adulthood
• anxiety, depression, and ADHD
• masking and the cost of seeming “fine”
• workplace and medical systems failure
• identity after diagnosis
• motherhood, neurodivergence, and recognition
• why diagnosis can feel like relief
• what support and accommodation should actually look like

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