If you are exhausted from trying to change your life, completely defeated because you keep making the same mistakes, and feeling deeply isolated in a struggle nobody else seems to talk about... this raw conversation is the honest, practical compass you have been waiting for.

When you grow up with behavior-focused, emotionally unintelligent parents or inside a high-control religious environment, you learn very early that your worth is tied to your performance. You were taught that following the rules perfectly kept you safe, while your true feelings, boundaries, and needs were treated like an inconvenience. Years later, you might not even realize you are carrying the invisible weight of Complex PTSD (CPTSD). You just know you are deeply tired, struggling with constant self-doubt, and trapped in an exhausting loop of trying to fix your life without ever feeling like you are actually thriving.

You are not broken, and you are not failing. You are navigating the terrifying reality of trying to unlearn a childhood script that taught you to abandon yourself. Most people make healing sound like a clean, 5-step formula, which leaves you feeling completely alone and defeated when your brain naturally freaks out over the unknown. You might find yourself secretly waiting for someone to rescue you or fix the pain, only to fall back into old patterns of self-protection and self-sabotage.

In this heartfelt, deeply vulnerable episode of In The Nude, Rachel Abi breaks down how love actually conquers fear when change feels uncomfortable and terrifying. Sharing raw personal memories of feeling excluded, unworthy, and invisible as a child, Rachel reveals how those early wounds silently create our adult patterns of self-doubt and relationship anxiety.

This is an honest, practical guide to true transformation. You will learn why beliefs are simply repeated actions, and why real healing does not happen through a massive overnight overhaul. Instead, it happens through tiny, consistent acts of daily care that slowly teach your nervous system a brand-new truth: that you are worthy, lovable, and capable of creating a life you actually enjoy.

What We Unpack in This Naked Conversation:

• Dismantling the Rescue Fantasy: Why waiting for someone else to complete or save you keeps you stuck in childhood patterns, and how to safely take your power back.

• The Science of Small Actions: How micro-habits like stretching, taking a short walk, showering, or practicing a quiet breath physically teach your brain that you are worthy of love.

• Unpacking the Exclusion Wound: How childhood memories of feeling left out or hyper-criticized by emotionally unavailable parents create your adult fear of change.

• Moving Beyond Toxic Formulas: Why healing from a hard childhood is messy, non-linear, and requires radical self-compassion rather than rigid rules.

• Choosing Love Over Fear: Practical somatic tools to help you show up for yourself when your nervous system is screaming at you to run back to what is familiar.

Finding access to this conversation can directly alter how you treat yourself on your darkest days. You do not have to navigate this difficulty alone anymore. Tune in to step out of survival mode and start building a life rooted in genuine self-worth.

If I asked you to name 3 things you hated about yourself you could likely without any time write that list: we have been taught to critique ourselves, shame our bodies, and all the while quietly take on loads that aren't ours.

This pattern we follow like those before us is digging our own grave: the grave of our souls, hearts bodies AND the ability to have a life we love. If we want to have a different life and feel differently we have to be willing to do, think and be different. Self worth and self acceptance IS that work.

Not a rest when you achieve. Not reward when you are productive enough. Not love when you are that size INSTEAD seeing the powerhouse you are in this exact moment and embracing this current version of you fully loving and accepting it, holding it's hand with the love you never received and SHOWING yourself that you are lovable by being the first person to do so.

Bringing that acceptance to the table and decompressing the beliefs that aren't working for us is the real magic to getting weight to drop off and achieving the joy and peace you desire.
Stop waiting to see yourself as loveable and worth it and start being it for yourself: listen to hear practical tools and steps to get you towards a life you love.

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What if you could really have a life you loved? One you woke up excited about. What if you could really take giant strides towards gaining yourself that life. What if I told you it was time travel? What if i told you the gateway to timetravel is gratitude?
After 3 years of healing and very little movement forward and loads of anger: i learned a lesson about acceptance, grace and love. A lesson about belief systems how they impact our lives AND how to shift them without feeling fake.
This episode I breakdown a simple shift you can do for yourself. It isn't a how to guide with three easy steps but it is a perspective that you can pull out and see each individual situation in your life and with that you can gain the personal weighted knowledge on what to do within your own power.
Let's change the story. Let's gain a life bigger than the dreams of our childhoodself. Let's really live.