Have you ever wondered why ADHD seems so easy to recognize in boys, but so many women don't receive a diagnosis until their 20s, 30s, or even later?
In this episode of In The Pink, I'm sharing my own experience of being diagnosed with ADHD at 30 and exploring the science behind why so many women spend years believing they're lazy, anxious, disorganized, or simply "not trying hard enough."
We'll dive into the history of women in medical research, why ADHD diagnostic criteria were originally based on young boys, and how symptoms often look different in girls and women. We'll also discuss the neuroscience of ADHD, executive functioning, dopamine, emotional regulation, masking, perfectionism, and why so many women are first diagnosed with anxiety or depression before discovering they have ADHD.
You'll also learn how hormonal changes—including puberty, the menstrual cycle, postpartum, and perimenopause—may influence ADHD symptoms, according to current research, and why so many women don't recognize their ADHD until major life transitions.
Whether you've recently been diagnosed with ADHD, suspect you may have it, or want to better understand the women in your life, this episode offers science-backed insights, practical coping strategies, and the reassurance that you're not alone.
• Why women have historically been overlooked in ADHD research
• The signs and symptoms of ADHD in women and girls
• How executive functioning affects everyday life
• The connection between ADHD, anxiety, perfectionism, and masking
• What current research says about hormones and ADHD
• Evidence-based strategies for managing ADHD as an adult
• How to replace self-blame with self-understanding
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