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Episode Eleven: Release

Less than one per cent of cases end this way. This was one of them.

The final hearing. The judge. The report. Two years of fighting distilled into a single room and a decision that will define the rest of their lives.

Episode Eleven is the end of the legal battle — and the beginning of everything else.

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The story of the verdict, the tears, and the solicitor who said: do you know how rare this is?

The law on no contact orders — what they are, how rare they were, and what it took to get one.

Vanessa's reflection on what winning actually feels like — grief and relief arriving together.

The stage — free, and what that word means when you have spent years not believing it was possible.

Triumph is cleaner in the imagining than in the reality. But it is real. And it was hers.

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Episode Ten: Dr Rob

She handed her daughters to a stranger and waited. The hardest thing she had ever done.

The court has appointed a child psychologist. His name is Dr Robert Radcliffe. He is kind, patient, and experienced. He is also about to hear things from two small girls that no child should have to say.

Episode Ten follows the assessment process — the box exercises, the waiting rooms, the fear of being accused of coaching, and the moment Molly ran out of the house and up the road rather than speak about her father.

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The story of the sessions, the boxes, and the body that spoke when words failed.

The law on expert witnesses, psychological assessment, and the limits of a clinical snapshot.

Vanessa's reflection on the cruelest paradox — the more you have survived, the more you must conceal what surviving cost.

The stage — seeking evidence, and the fear that nobody will believe the children.

Her body could not stay in the room while someone tried to talk about her father. That flight was testimony. The system did not know how to hear it.

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Episode Nine: In Court

Her friend suggested she hire a male escort to take to court. She did it.

Episode Nine is the court hearing everything has been building toward. Vanessa faces the judge, faces Clive across the table, and argues her case with research from three countries.

But first — the escort. Because sometimes survival requires performance, and the whole system is theatre anyway.

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The story of the courthouse, the research, and the unexpected kindness of a stranger.

The law on the adversarial family court and why abusers so often present well.

Vanessa’s reflection on what it means to perform composure for years and what it costs.

The stage — performance under pressure, and how to prepare for the worst.

She had survived the man. She had survived the fire. She was not going to be defeated by a courtroom.

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Episode Eight: The Push

She stood up in front of a judge and told him what was best for her children. She wasn't a lawyer. This was her life.

Clive has been released from prison. He is riding his bike along Kings Lane. Vanessa is documenting every sighting, every date, every time.

Episode Eight follows Vanessa to a legal conference where she speaks in front of judges and academics — and a welfare officer who has already made up her mind.

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The story of watching, waiting, and refusing to be passive.

The law on research, campaigns, and the slow shift toward recognising coercive control.

Vanessa's reflection on composure as a strategy — and what it costs.

The stage — strategic, and the discovery that your voice matters beyond your own case.

Composed is not the same as unafraid. Composure is a strategy. It does not mean you are not frightened.

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Episode Seven: Fighting Fire

She had been fighting for herself. Now she was fighting for all of them.

Episode Seven takes Vanessa to London, to a park, and to a woman called Dawn Austin— an activist whose story has already changed the way Vanessa moves through the world.

This episode is where personal survival becomes collective action. Vanessa joins AMICA — a grassroots movement fighting to change the family court system from the inside.

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The story of meeting Dawn, going on camera, and Charlotte's five words that said everything.

The law on the fathers' rights movement, parental alienation, and the battle for judicial reform.

Vanessa's reflection on activism as a place for anger to go.

The stage — finding purpose, and the moment survival becomes something bigger than yourself.

I don't care where Daddy is. Because when he's gone, Mummy doesn't get hurt.

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Episode Six: Locked Up and Set Free

He went to prison. She was still not free.

Clive is in prison. The welfare officer arrives with letters from him for the children. Charlotte tears hers into pieces without reading it.

Episode Six follows Vanessa as she changes her solicitor, begins divorce proceedings, and finds a new home and a new job — all while the system continues to reach in.

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The story of a house on Kings Lane, a job worth having, and a life beginning again.

The law on welfare officers, the court welfare service, and parental alienation syndrome.

Vanessa's reflection on what home really means — and why she spent thirty years working in housing.

The stage — building, and the discovery that professional help works best when you direct it.

Home is not where you keep your things. It is where your nervous system stops bracing for impact.

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Episode Five: Gayle

She had been fighting alone. Then she met the women who had mapped the system before her.

Episode Five is where the story widens. Vanessa meets Gayle — a woman who has been through the same battles, who knows the same dangers, and who carries knowledge that the official system never offered.

This episode introduces the underground network of women sharing intelligence, warning, and survival strategies. It also introduces the case of Dawn Austin — the mother whose story changed everything for Vanessa.

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The story of finding your tribe when the system has let you down.

The law on Women's Aid, legal aid, and the Dawn Austin case of 1996.

Authors reflection on class, privilege, and the women whose voices were never heard.

The stage — the moment you realise you are not alone, and what that changes.

They shared intelligence. Not gossip. Intelligence. The kind that keeps women alive.

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Episode Four: The Phoenix

A cat woke her up. A cat saved their lives.

In the middle of the night, something woke Vanessa. By the time she understood what was happening, the house was on fire.

Episode Four covers the night everything was lost — and the morning something new began. It also contains the moment Vanessa sat across a kitchen table and heard the truth about the fire from the man who started it.

Four voices this episode:

The story of the fire, the escape, and what Clive said afterwards.

The law on criminal conduct, domestic abuse, and the limits of the evidence standard.

Author''s reflection on Max the cat, Charlotte's gladiator speech, and what rebuilding actually looks like.

The stage — breathing space, and what it means to finally feel safe enough to sleep.

Her five-year-old daughter thought she could be a gladiator. She was going to be all right.

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