Episode 7 of The RK Podcast is for the man who has been carrying a version of himself so long he has mistaken it for who he is.

The anger.
The fear.
The shame.
The addiction.
The voice that says you are broken, too far gone, or not enough.

What if those things are not your identity?

In this episode, Mike exposes the difference between who you are… and what happened to you. He unpacks why so many men build their lives around survival patterns, old labels, and false stories — and why God never called you to live trapped inside them.

You’ll hear why:

• Survival is not the same thing as identity
• The strongest prison is believing you belong inside the cage
• Shame says, “This is who you are,” but truth says, “This is what happened to you”
• God is not calling the version of you built out of fear, pain, and proving
• The real you is still underneath the armor — waiting to be uncovered

This episode is a call back to the man underneath the lies. The man God created. The man He never stopped seeing.

Anchored in Bible and the truth that transformation is not becoming someone else — it is uncovering who you were all along.

If you have ever asked yourself, “What is wrong with me?” this episode invites a different question:

“What if this isn’t who I am?”

Because you are not the lie.
You are not the pattern.
You are not what happened to you.

You are the man underneath it.

You don’t keep ending up in the same place because you’re lazy, weak, or missing discipline.

You keep ending up there because somewhere underneath it all… there is still a lie you believe.

In this episode of the Resurrection Kings podcast, Mike exposes the hidden agreements that quietly shape a man’s life.

The ones that sound like:

• “I’m not enough.”
• “I have to do this alone.”
• “I always screw things up.”
• “If people really knew me… they’d leave.”
• “I should be further ahead by now.”

The deepest lies do not sound like lies.

They sound like you.

You’ll discover:

• Why the beliefs running your life often started years ago
• How old pain becomes an agreement you stop questioning
• Why familiar lies can feel safer than uncomfortable truth
• How the story you believe about yourself changes the way you see God
• Why you can want something deeply… and still keep moving away from it
• The one question that begins to break the pattern

Because the lie is not just affecting your thoughts.

It is affecting your marriage. Your work. Your money. Your peace. Your connection to God. And the longer you believe it… the more normal it feels.

But there is good news:

A lie only has power until you see it.

And once you see it… really see it… you can stop agreeing with it.

If you have been quietly carrying the feeling that something is wrong with you… this episode may help you realize the problem was never who you are.

It was the lie you learned to believe.