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I Think I Can Be Happier

I Think I Can Be Happier

著者： Hannah Choi and Amy McDuffie
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This one's for the person who knows they could be happier but isn't quite sure how to get there. Join us, Hannah Choi and Amy McDuffie, as we embark on this adventure with you. We're two people who work as executive function coaches and care deeply about living well. We're still figuring this whole happiness thing out ourselves and want to share what we learn with you! I Think I Can Be Happier brings you the stories of people who are finding their own path toward happiness, the science behind why it's so hard, and tools and strategies that might make things a little easier. Stories and science for people in progress.Copyright 2026 Hannah Choi and Amy McDuffie 個人的成功 心理学 心理学・心の健康 自己啓発 衛生・健康的な生活
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  • Your Executive Function Skills Want You To Be Happier | Ep. 6

    Your Executive Function Skills Want You To Be Happier | Ep. 6
    2026/06/08
    In this episode, Hannah and Amy revisit the strategies from their conversation with Neha, Hannah's therapist and a psychotherapist with nearly a decade of experience, and put an executive function spin on them. If you haven't listened to Episode 3 — What Hannah's Therapist Wants You to Know About Happiness yet, start there first as this episode is a direct callback to it and builds on everything Neha shared.Executive function skills are the cognitive tools that get us through our days: attention, memory, task initiation, planning, prioritization, time management, cognitive flexibility, self-regulation, organization, metacognition, and goal-directed persistence. Hannah and Amy make the case that these skills don't just help us function, they help us be happier. And as it turns out, many of the strategies for building happiness are also, quietly, exercises in building executive function.We walk through frameworks for organizing and prioritizing your wellbeing, including the PERMA model and the Covey Quadrants, and then dig into the practical, in-the-trenches strategies: how to push through discomfort and why the research says it's worth it, how to tell the difference between being unhappy and just being uncomfortable, how to challenge the stories you're telling yourself with the Table Exercise, why naming your emotions actually moves you out of your emotional brain and into your thinking brain, and how to build a gratitude or mindfulness practice that actually fits your life rather than the one you think you're supposed to have.In this episode: the PERMA model through an EF lens, Covey Quadrants, Zones of Growth, pushing through discomfort, cognitive flexibility, the Table Exercise, name it to tame it, gratitude practice, mindfulness without the ohm, metacognition, and why you don't have to do any of this perfectly - you just have to take a step.MENTIONED IN THE EPISODEEpisode 3 — What Hannah's Therapist Wants You to Know About Happiness The episode this one builds on directly. Neha introduces the PERMA model, the RAIN framework, cognitive flexibility, flow states, and more. Start here if you haven't already.The PERMA Model: Developed by psychologist Martin Seligman, PERMA stands for Positive Emotions, Engagement, Relationships, Meaning, and Accomplishment. It's one of the most widely used frameworks in positive psychology for understanding and assessing wellbeing. Learn more here.Covey Quadrants / Eisenhower Matrix: A prioritization tool that organizes tasks by urgency and importance, helping you figure out where to focus your time and energy. Hannah and Amy suggest using it alongside the PERMA model to figure out which areas of your wellbeing need the most attention right now. See the matrix here.Zones of Growth Model: The comfort zone, fear zone, learning zone, and growth zone. A visual model that maps the journey from safety into discomfort and out the other side into actual growth. See it here.Moshe Bar research on pushing through discomfort: Hannah references research showing that pushing through discomfort supports mood, builds resilience, improves physical health, slows aging-related processes, and strengthens executive function skills. Learn more here.The Table Exercise: Neha's cognitive reframing tool, described in detail by Hannah in the episode. When you have a sticky negative thought, especially one with an absolute in it like "never" or "always," draw a table. Write the thought at the top. Under each leg, write a piece of your supporting evidence. Then reframe each leg, looking for opportunity within it. When all four legs are reframed, rewrite the thought at the top. It's a pause, a regulation tool, and a mindset shift all in one. Works best when you write it out.Name It to Tame It: Coined by Dr. Daniel Siegel. When you name an emotion out loud, you literally move from the emotional part of your brain into the language and thinking parts, which is why it works. It's not just a nice idea, it's neuroscience. Learn more about Dr. Siegel's work here.Dan Harris: Hannah references Dan Harris talking about meditation as a bicep curl for the brain and meditating in Times Square. His book 10% Happier and his 10% Happier podcast are both worth exploring if you're curious about meditation but skeptical - he's one of the most honest and accessible voices on the topic.Growth Mindset: Amy references this in the context of pushing through discomfort and building resilience. The concept was developed by psychologist Carol Dweck and is the foundation of her book Mindset: The New Psychology of Success. Worth knowing the research behind it.Hannah’s blog post on cognitive flexibility Read Hannah's blog post on her website about cognitive flexibility and how we can benefit from and practice it.Gratitude journaling research: It really is science-backed, not woo-woo. This overview from the Greater Good Science Center pulls together some of the best research on why gratitude practice works and how to do it ...
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    38 分
  • What Grief Taught Me About Happiness, with Jody LaVoie | Ep. 5

    What Grief Taught Me About Happiness, with Jody LaVoie | Ep. 5
    2026/05/25
    In this episode, Hannah and Amy sit down with Jody LaVoie, who became a grief coach after the most unimaginable of circumstances, the murder of her husband Steve eleven years ago. What began as survival mode, taking over her husband's business, raising three young daughters alone, became, over time, a profound journey of self-discovery, resilience, and a new, deeper understanding of what happiness actually means.Jody shared with us honesty about the non-linear messiness of grief, about the guilt of laughing too soon, about learning to trust yourself when there's no one to make decisions with, and about the slow, surprising ways that loss can add meaning to a life rather than only taking from it. This is one of the most important conversations we've had on the show, and it's worth listening to even if you haven't experienced loss like this, because as Jody says, grief isn't only about death. It's about any major life transition that changes who you are.We dig into the stages of grief and why the model is so often misunderstood. We talk about what people say to grieving people that actually doesn't help and what does. Jody talks her job as a grief coach and how she walks beside someone in their grief rather than taking it on, and about the moment she realized that helping other widows find their path forward was where her joy lived.In this episode: the non-linear nature of grief, the guilt of joy, what grieving people actually need from the people around them, how to find your people, the unexpected gifts of loss, grief as any major life transition, present-moment happiness, and the courage it takes to keep going.MENTIONED IN THE EPISODEJodie LaVoie works one-on-one with widows virtually to help them find their new path forward and rediscover their identity. She also offers corporate grief workshops to help employees and managers better support each other through major life transitions. If you're a widow, or know someone who is, Jody welcomes inquiries and consultations.Jody's Guide to Joy & blog posts can be found here: Free Resources | Widows in the WorkplaceThe five (and six) stages of grief: Originally developed by Elisabeth Kübler-Ross. A sixth stage, finding meaning, was later added by David Kessler. As Jody emphasizes, these stages are not linear, not sequential, and not a checklist. You can experience multiple stages in the same hour."American Pie" by Don McLean: Steve's song. Listen here.ADDITIONAL RESOURCESIt's OK That You're Not OK by Megan Devine: The book that doesn't try to fix grief or rush you through it. Deeply aligned with Jody's message that grieving people want to be heard, not fixed.Option B by Sheryl Sandberg & Adam Grant: About resilience and building a meaningful life after loss. Accessible and honest.The Year of Magical Thinking by Joan Didion: The classic memoir on grief. Raw, literary, and unlike anything else on the subject.What's Your Grief: One of the best grief education resources online. Articles, courses, and tools for people navigating loss of all kinds.Modern Loss: Essays and community around grief. Human, candid, and decidedly non-clinical.Open to Hope: A nonprofit resource for people coping with loss, founded by grief professionals.Reach out to us! Email us at icanbehappier@gmail.com or visit icanbehappier.com. This podcast is not a substitute for professional mental health support. Please reach out to a qualified licensed provider if you need help.As an Amazon affiliate, we get a small percentage of the sale of any books you purchase through our links. It's an easy way to support us! Thank you!
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    45 分
  • Ian Paynton Hasn't Arrived Yet, and That's Okay With Him | Ep. 4

    Ian Paynton Hasn't Arrived Yet, and That's Okay With Him | Ep. 4
    2026/05/11

    In this episode, Hannah and Amy sit down with Ian Paynton, an entrepreneur and content agency owner who built his dream life in Hanoi, Vietnam, and then found himself asking a question he wasn't prepared for: now what?

    Ian takes us back to a childhood shaped by anxiety, loss, and a fierce determination to take care of his family and how that became fuel for decades of relentless performance mode, chasing a ladder of success he'd defined as 10 million pounds. He built the business, moved to Vietnam, got married, and checked every box. And still, the feeling he was waiting for never quite arrived.

    Together we explore the arrival fallacy, the well-documented phenomenon where reaching a goal delivers far less happiness than we expected, and its close companion, hedonic adaptation, the brain's tendency to normalize new circumstances and quietly reset our baseline. Ian's story is one of the most honest and human illustrations of both.

    The conversation closes with a beautiful reframe: that happiness isn't a destination, it's a butterfly that lands on you and floats away. What lasts is contentment, and that lives in the middle ground.

    In this episode: the arrival fallacy, hedonic adaptation, anxiety as fuel, performance mode, contentment vs. happiness, discipline as grounding, the courage of hard conversations, and what it means to finally live in alignment with your values.

    Find Ian: We Create Content Ian is a brand director, podcast host, and former journalist and magazine editor based in Hanoi, Vietnam.

    Books recommended by Ian:

    THE TOOLS by Phil Stutz and Barry Michels

    Learning to Love Midlife: 12 Reasons Why Life Gets Better with Age by Chip Conley

    Reach out to us! Email us at hello@icanbehappier.com or visit icanbehappier.com. This podcast is not a substitute for professional mental health support. Please reach out to a qualified licensed provider if you need help.

    As an Amazon affiliate, we get a small percentage of the sale of any books you purchase through our links. It's an easy way to support us! Thank you!
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    49 分
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