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  • From Drops to Clients - how to effectively add value to build your relationships
    2025/12/10

    Join Neil Barrow, host of I Hope This Email Finds You Well, as he chats with Alissa Kolm, Relationship Manager and seasoned BD professional. Together, they dig into getting started in a new market, practical ways to add value when you have little to offer, and the activity-first approach that turns early outreach into long-term, six-figure client relationships.

    In this episode, you’ll hear about:

    • How to launch BD in a new market: cast a wide net, then refine to the referral partners that actually produce opportunities.
    • Practical, low-friction tactics that create doors: joint prospect calls, COI introductions, event invitations, and old-school drop-ins.
    • The systems and rhythms that make BD reliable: activity scorecards, calendaring, CRM/Excel tracking, and disciplined follow-up.
    • And the #1 tip: focus on the activities you can control — the meetings and connections, and let revenue follow.

    Whether you’re new to business development or a seasoned pro, this conversation offers practical strategies and real stories from the trenches.

    Strategies and tactics edition:

    • Target the referral sources that already feed your best clients (CPAs, bankers, other COIs).
    • Use joint outreach and event invites to add immediate value and open doors for your network.
    • Track inputs (meetings, outreach, follow-ups) not just outputs — then present that plan to leadership and execute.

    Takeaway: Business development is a long game built on repeatable activity. Plant the right seeds — targeted meetings, COI introductions, consistent follow-up — and use simple systems (calendar + CRM or spreadsheet) to turn those seeds into meaningful, multi-year client relationships.

    About your host, Neil Barrow: Neil Barrow is the founder of Enabled BD, a consultancy that helps businesses build no-fluff, repeatable business development systems. With over 15 years of experience in sales, business development, and consulting, Neil has guided firms and leadership teams through the challenges of building the machine that drives growth.

    Known for his straightforward approach and practical playbooks, Neil launched the I Hope This Email Finds You Well Podcast to share the conversations he wishes he’d heard earlier in his career, insights from people who’ve done the work, made the mistakes, and found better ways to win.

    When he’s not recording, you’ll find him dadding and working with firms on BD!

    About the guest, Alissa Kolm: Alissa Kolm is a seasoned corporate banking professional with deep roots in business development and relationship management. Originally from Nebraska, she relocated to Fort Worth in 2015 and began her BD career growing the Fort Worth market for NOW CFO, a national fractional CFO and accounting services firm. There she learned to cast a wide net—attending many events, refining what worked, and focusing on the referral partners (CPAs, bankers, other COIs) who actually generated opportunities.

    Alissa evolved her approach from broad outreach to highly practical tactics: joint prospect calls and drop-in days with COIs to make cold outreach less awkward, inviting prospects to events as a low-friction way to add value, and leaning on activity-based metrics to build a predictable pipeline. After moving into banking in 2018, she spent three years in dedicated BD roles before becoming a Relationship Manager serving middle-market clients—combining strategic growth thinking with hands-on client service. Alissa balances old-school tactics (cookies and drop-ins) with modern discipline (calendar, Salesforce, and spreadsheets), emphasizing that consistency and follow-up turn early interactions into long-term client wins.

    Connect with Neil:

    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/neilbarrowdfw

    Website: https://enabledbd.com

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    21 分
  • Strategies & Tactics Edition: Hittin’ Singles, Know Yourself, Your Firm, and Get Organized for Great Results
    2025/11/26

    Join Neil Barrow, host of I Hope This Email Finds You Well, after his podcast with Chad Corley, Senior Relationship Manager at Armanino.

    They discussed the internal and external components of business development, including tracking referral sources, building networks, and setting your firm up for success in private equity and accounting.

    Welcome to the Strategies and Tactics Edition, where Neil unpacks:

    • How to approach BD when you’re new to a firm
    • Building a 30/60/90 (or 60/120/180) day plan that works
    • Understanding your firm’s best clients and where they come from
    • Internal BD: meeting partners, understanding services, and analyzing the client base
    • External BD: identifying referral sources, setting meetings, and joining the right associations
    • Setting activity goals, like 10 meetings a week, to fill your calendar and grow your network
    • Organizing your plan and getting leadership buy-in before you “go attack”
    • Staying consistent with tools like CRMs or Monday.com to manage deal flow and activity

    Takeaway: Before you rush into networking and meetings, get organized. Know your firm, know your best clients, and know where your deals come from. Build a plan, get buy-in, and then attack, because consistency beats chaos every time.

    About your host, Neil Barrow:

    Neil Barrow is the founder of Enabled BD, a consultancy that helps businesses build no-fluff, repeatable business development systems. With over 15 years of experience in sales, business development, and consulting, Neil has guided firms and leadership teams through the challenges of building the machine that drives growth.

    Known for his straightforward approach and practical playbooks, Neil launched the I Hope This Email Finds You Well Podcast to share the conversations he wishes he’d heard earlier in his career, insights from people who’ve done the work, made the mistakes, and found better ways to win.

    When he’s not recording, you’ll find him dadding and working with firms on BD!

    Connect with Neil:

    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/neilbarrowdfw

    Website: https://enabledbd.com

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    12 分
  • Strategies & Tactics Edition: Finding your Edge - being unapologetically authentic with Emily A.
    2025/11/12

    Join Neil Barrow, host of IHTEFYW, after his podcast with Emily Ackerman, Director of Business Development for the Southwest at Bennett Thrasher.

    They covered the qualities of a successful business development professional, including: having a high motor, LinkedIn tips, managing your referral networks, and the #1 tip for new BD folks.

    Welcome to the Strategies and Tactics edition where Neil unpacks:

    Authenticity

    Mindset

    • Professional vs friends
    • This is the best way to build authentic relationships
    • Takeaway - show your real personality to attract the right people into your orbit because not everyone is going to like you

    Orbit

    • Identifying referral relationships that can be friends - core nucleus - meet 1x quarter 1x1
    • Moving those relationships to friends through events and common interests - concerts, music, food
    • Driving referrals through friendship

    Winning new business

    • Qualifying through vibes
    • If they are a client of a friend, they will probably get along with you
    • Clients becoming long term relationships

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    10 分
  • Hittin’ Singles - Know Yourself, Your Firm, and Get Organized for Great Results
    2025/11/05

    Join Neil Barrow, host of I Hope This Email Finds You Well, as he chats with Chad Corley, Senior Relationship Manager at Armanino. They dig into the internal and external components of business development — from tracking and nurturing referral sources to building relationships that create lasting deal flow.

    In this episode, you’ll hear about:

    • How Chad approaches building and tracking referral sources to stay intentional about where deals come from.
    • The importance of caring about internal partners and setting them up for success before going to market.
    • His “go-giver” mindset and how giving referrals can generate even more inbound opportunities. And the #1 tip for new BDs: how to organize your week to add real value.

    Whether you’re new to business development or a seasoned pro, this conversation offers practical strategies and real stories from the trenches.

    Takeaway — Building a strong BD foundation isn’t about home runs. It’s about hitting singles consistently — knowing yourself, understanding your firm, and staying organized so you can generate results that compound over time.

    About your host, Neil Barrow:

    Neil Barrow is the founder of Enabled BD, a consultancy that helps businesses build no-fluff, repeatable business development systems. With over 15 years of experience in sales, business development, and consulting, Neil has guided firms and leadership teams through the challenges of building the machine that drives growth.

    Known for his straightforward approach and practical playbooks, Neil launched the I Hope This Email Finds You Well Podcast to share the conversations he wishes he’d heard earlier in his career — insights from people who’ve done the work, made the mistakes, and found better ways to win.

    When he’s not recording, you’ll find him dadding and working with firms on BD!

    About the guest, Chad Corley:

    Chad Corley leads the Southwest business development efforts for Armanino. With over a decade of experience in sales, he’s built his career on developing strong relationships across the finance and accounting industries. Chad has a proven record of understanding how Armanino’s services align with organizational needs — helping clients and partners succeed while expanding relationships that drive measurable growth.

    A connector at heart, Chad thrives on collaboration, curiosity, and consistency. He believes that great business development is rooted in genuine relationships and clear processes. His ability to balance both makes him a standout in the professional services space.

    Connect with our guest on:

    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/chadcorley14/

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    42 分
  • Finding Your Edge - Being Unapologetically Authentic to Drive Relationships
    2025/10/15
    Join Neil Barrow, host of IHTEFYW, as he chats with Emily Ackerman, Director of Business Development for the Southwest at Bennett Thrasher. They talk through the qualities of a successful business development professional, including: having a high motor, LinkedIn tips, managing your referral networks, and the #1 tip for new BD folks. We focused on how having a high motor and competitive drive contributes to your success in business development. Strategies and tactics edition: Authenticity Mindset Professional vs friendsThis is the best way to build authentic relationshipsTakeaway - show your real personality to attract the right people into your orbit because not everyone is going to like you Orbit Identifying referral relationships that can be friends - core nucleus - meet 1x quarter 1x1Moving those relationships to friends through events and common interests - concerts, music, foodDriving referrals through friendship Winning new business Qualifying through vibesIf they are a client of a friend, they will probably get along with youClients becoming long term relationships About your host, Neil Barrow: Neil Barrow is the founder of Enabled BD, a consultancy that helps businesses build no-fluff, repeatable business development systems. With over 15 years of experience in sales, business development, and consulting, Neil has guided firms and leadership teams through the challenges of building the machine that drives growth. Known for his straightforward approach and practical playbooks, Neil launched the I Hope This Email Finds You Well Podcast to share the conversations he wishes he’d heard earlier in his career — insights from people who’ve done the work, made the mistakes, and found better ways to win. When he’s not recording, you’ll find him dadding and working with firms on BD! About Our Guest, Emily Ackerman: Emily Ackerman stands at the forefront of business development as the Director of Business Development for the Southwest Region at Bennett Thrasher, one of the nation’s largest and most respected CPA and advisory firms. With more than a decade of experience spanning accounting, finance, software, and media, Emily has built a reputation as one of the most influential connectors and strategists in the Dallas–Fort Worth business community. Known across the industry as a “business matchmaker,” Emily has mastered the art of turning introductions into lasting partnerships. She isn’t just networking — she’s shaping ecosystems. Colleagues, clients, and even competitors recognize her as the gold standard of business development, consistently looking to her as the example of how to authentically build trust, generate opportunity, and drive results. At Bennett Thrasher, Emily spearheads growth by aligning client needs with the firm’s full suite of tax, audit, transaction advisory, valuation, and family office services. Her approach is both strategic and personal — she digs deep into understanding what motivates clients, what challenges they face, and what success looks like for them. Then she brings in the right people and resources, creating a customized experience that often transforms into long-term relationships. Emily’s influence stretches beyond accounting. She has an extraordinary ability to bridge industries — from private equity and investment banking to real estate, construction, healthcare, and technology. She has curated trusted circles in M&A, launched networking groups, and built forums that bring together decision-makers who might otherwise never cross paths. This has earned her the reputation of being one of the most well-connected people in Dallas dealmaking — a reputation that directly fuels Bennett Thrasher’s continued growth in a competitive market. Her track record speaks volumes: Emily was named Emerging Leader of the Year at D CEO’s 2024 M&A Awards, solidifying her standing as a rising force in the industry. But beyond awards, her true success is measured in the countless introductions she’s made that led to closed deals, expanded opportunities, and life-long client relationships. Outside of work, Emily’s energy and passion continue to shine. When she’s not “Gigi’s mom” (her proudest role), you’ll find her working out, traveling, cooking, trying new restaurants, or on stage singing with her band. She also has a deep commitment to community service and philanthropy, serving on boards and supporting organizations that align with her values. Emily embodies the idea that business development is not just a job — it’s a way of life. Her peers often say that she “sets the bar” for what it means to be a connector, and her ability to blend professional excellence with personal authenticity makes her one of the most impactful business development leaders in the Southwest today. Connect with Emily LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/emilyackermandfw/
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    31 分
  • Clarity + Community - Why Business Development Pros Need Both
    2025/10/01

    Join Neil Barrow, host of I Hope This Email Finds You Well, as he kicks off the podcast with a deep dive into why BD professionals need both clarity in their role and community with peers.

    Neil shares lessons from 15+ years in sales and business development, explaining the difference between origination and enablement in BD, how leadership and culture shape your role, and why so many BD pros feel like they’re operating in a vacuum.

    This episode sets the foundation for the series — real conversations with professionals in the trenches, sharing strategies and stories that will help elevate the business development profession.

    Strategies and tactics edition:

    • Origination vs. Enablement — the two core BD paths
    • Clarity — understanding your role, responsibilities, and leadership’s expectations
    • Community — why BD pros need peers who “get it” and how to find them
    • Takeaway — BD isn’t about posturing; it’s about real conversations, shared stories, and building each other up

    About your host, Neil Barrow: Neil Barrow is the founder of Enabled BD, a consultancy that helps businesses build no-fluff, repeatable business development systems. With over 15 years of experience in sales, business development, and consulting, Neil has guided firms and leadership teams through the challenges of building the machine that drives growth.

    Known for his straightforward approach and practical playbooks, Neil launched the I Hope This Email Finds You Well Podcast to share the conversations he wishes he’d heard earlier in his career — insights from people who’ve done the work, made the mistakes, and found better ways to win.

    When he’s not recording, you’ll find him dadding and working with firms on BD!

    Connect with Neil: LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/neilbarrowdfw Website: https://enabledbd.com

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    8 分