Episode Summary

In this episode, we’re talking about what happens when you say yes to sex when you really mean no. I explain why you’re choosing to do this, why your partner’s feelings aren’t your responsibility, and how forcing yourself to have sex is turning sex into a chore.

What You’ll Learn

• Why you don’t have to have sex just because your partner wants to
• How to tell the difference between wanting to have sex and having sex because you think you should
• Why forcing yourself to have sex is making sex feel like a chore
• Why you’re not responsible for your partner’s feelings
• How trying to fix your partner’s feelings is causing arguments with your partner
• Why always saying yes to sex won’t prevent your partner from cheating on you
• How to stop feeling guilty when you say no and actually enjoy yourself when you say yes
• How to decide whether your relationship is actually one you want to fight for

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