What if you love each other, but you don’t feel it anymore?

Does it seem like the attraction has faded, affection feels forced, or the spark that used to be there naturally now seems impossible to find?

Yes, you’re still committed to your marriage, but over time, hurt, resentment, disconnection, disappointment, or simply years of life together have changed the way you see each other.

In this episode, we’re taking a deeper look at what may be happening underneath the lack of attraction and connection. Often, the missing spark isn’t the problem, it’s the symptom of something that has been building beneath the surface. Even if your marriage feels disconnected today doesn’t mean it's doomed to stay that way. There is a way forward and you can have hope for reconnection, healing, desire, and intimacy again.

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