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  • I Can’t Believe These Are Real: 15 Dating App Openers Men Actually Sent to Women

    I Can’t Believe These Are Real: 15 Dating App Openers Men Actually Sent to Women
    2026/02/02
    “I want to date you… you remind me of my mom.” Yep, a guy actually sent that as an opener. In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach Connell Barrett breaks down 15 real messages and sorts them into three categories: magnificent, meh, and mortifying. You’ll laugh, you’ll cringe, and you might even steal a line or two that actually works.

    EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS:

    01:47: The Insult Opener That Somehow Got a Reply

    02:43: Say This on the Apps—It’s Genius

    04:25: The One-word Christmas Message that She (Rightly) Hated

    08:50: A Line Only Hannibal Lecter Should Use

    13:43: The Most Painfully Boring First Message on Earth

    20:02: The Secret to Writing Charming Openers


    BOOK A FREE CONSULTATION WITH CONNELL TO LEARN WHY AUTHENTICITY IS THE SECRET WEAPON TO ATTRACT YOUR DREAM GIRLFRIEND:www.DatingTransformation.com
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    22 分
  • “I Thought I Wasn’t Enough… and Then I Met Rachel” (Live Coaching with Charlie)

    “I Thought I Wasn’t Enough… and Then I Met Rachel” (Live Coaching with Charlie)
    2026/01/27
    If you’re an introvert who freezes up around women, help is here. Dating coach Connell Barrett welcomes Charlie, a client who went from from doubting his romantic worth to meeting his dream girlfriend Rachel. Connell and Charlie cover the mindset shifts and real-world wins that worked—and they talk some baseball, too. If you want to find your person, this episode is your roadmap.

    Episode Highlights:

    11:38: The Two Toxic Thoughts that Kept Charlie Stuck

    17:23: The Weekend of Approaching that Changed Everything

    21:12: The Dating Lesson he Learned from MLB Baseball

    34:44: The Moment Rachel Saw Him Differently

    47:05: When He Destroyed His Fear of Rejection

    53:11: Charlie’s Advice to Introverts who Feel Left Behind

    BOOK A FREE CALL WITH BESTSELLING AUTHOR CONNELL BARRETT TO LEARN IF 1-ON-1 COACHING IS RIGHT FOR YOU: DatingTransformation.com

    EMAIL CONNELL TO GET A FREE COPY OF HIS BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”: connell@datingtransformation.com
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    53 分
  • Stop Freezing Up IRL: How to Confidently Talk to Women Anywhere Without Overthinking

    Stop Freezing Up IRL: How to Confidently Talk to Women Anywhere Without Overthinking
    2026/01/22
    You see women you want to meet IRL, but you freeze up, and you don’t know what to say. So you beat yourself up for missing another chance. In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach Connell Barrett shares his What-to-Say Method. You’ll learn three simple, authentic ways to confidently start conversations—no cheesy pickup lines required.

    Episode Highlights:

    01:40: Why You Freeze Up—and How to Break the Cycle

    04:45: How the What-to-Say Method Gets You Out of Your Head

    07:45: What to Say at a Coffeeshop09:49: What to Say at a Bar

    12:04: What to Say at the Gym

    25:03: Still Hesitating? Here’s the Real Reason You’re Not Approaching and How to Fix It

    BOOK A FREE CONSULTATION WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW HIS 1-ON-1 COACHING CAN HELP YOU APPROACH WOMEN IRL: www.DatingTransformation.com
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    30 分
  • ‘I Was Getting Ghosted on the Dating Apps, but Now Women Reply to My Openers’ (Live Coaching with Evan)

    ‘I Was Getting Ghosted on the Dating Apps, but Now Women Reply to My Openers’ (Live Coaching with Evan)
    2026/01/15
    You get matches, but then you’re not sure what to write for your opener. You don’t want to sound boring or try-hard, so you overthink it, and the conversation dies before it begins. In this live coaching session, dating coach Connell Barrett welcomes his client Evan, who got great at writing openers that women reply to. Plus, Evan gives some tips on how to meet women in coffee shops and get instant dates, just like he does.

    Episode Highlights

    03:20: From Shaking Hands to 80+ Confident Approaches—Evan’s Transformation]

    06:01: What to Say and Not Say When You Approach

    09:15: The Coffee Shop Icebreaker that Led Evan to a Make-Out in Just 30 Minutes!

    18:45: The Funny Hinge Opener that Gets Women Writing You Back

    1:01:02: The One Dating Tip Every Guy Needs to Hear

    BOOK A FREE CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW 1-ON-1 COACHING CAN HELP YOU MEET WOMEN AND FLIRT WITH CHARM:DatingTransformation.com
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    1 時間 5 分
  • Fix the Flirting Flaw that Creeps Women Out (the New Rules of Dating, Part 2)

    Fix the Flirting Flaw that Creeps Women Out (the New Rules of Dating, Part 2)
    2026/01/08
    Are you ready to flirt with women without coming off as “creepy”? In Part 2 of his 26 New Rules of Dating, bestselling author and dating coach Connell Barrett reveals the invisible blind spot that makes good guys accidentally seem creepy—and he helps you fix it. Learn how to flirt with confidence and authenticity, and make 2026 the year you meet your dream girlfriend.

    Episode Highlights:

    01:47: The Classy Approaching Move that Women Find Fascinating

    06:58: Do This to Get Girls Texting You Back

    13:13: The Right and Wrong Way to Use A.I. on the Apps

    16:34: The Flirting Flaw that Makes Decent Men Seem Creepy

    20:37: The Question to Ask on Every First Date


    BOOK A FREE CALL WITH DATING COACH CONNELL BARRETT TO LEARN IF 1-ON-1 COACHING IS RIGHT FOR YOU:DatingTransformation.com

    EMAIL CONNELL TO GET A FREE COPY OF HIS BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”:connell@datingtransformation.com
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    24 分
  • Bad Dating Advice Has Failed Decent Men: Here Are 26 New Rules for 2026 That Actually Work (Part 1)

    Bad Dating Advice Has Failed Decent Men: Here Are 26 New Rules for 2026 That Actually Work (Part 1)
    2026/01/06
    Be mysterious. Don’t double-text. Use “tricks” to make her chase you. Yuck! Most dating advice is as outdated as flip phones and Fax machines. The old playbook just doesn’t work. In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach Connell Barrett unveils his 26 New Dating Rules for 2026. In part 1, he shares how to be kind and confident, why texting “like a girl” is a good thing (seriously!), and reveals the playful dating app opener that women love.

    Episode Highlights:

    02:05: Why Women Want You to Talk to Them IRL (and How to Do It)

    07:05: How to Channel Your First Date Nerves to Spark a Connection

    09:14: The Dating App Opener You Must Try

    20:50: The Dreaded Mistake to Stop Making on Dates

    24:51: Talk about This to NEVER Run Out of Things to Say


    BOOK A FREE CALL WITH DATING COACH CONNELL BARRETT TO LEARN IF 1-ON-1 COACHING IS RIGHT FOR YOU:DatingTransformation.com

    EMAIL CONNELL TO GET A FREE COPY OF HIS BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”:connell@datingtransformation.com
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    28 分
  • Stop Freezing Up! What to Say to Meet Women in Real Life (No Weird Pickup Lines Needed)

    Stop Freezing Up! What to Say to Meet Women in Real Life (No Weird Pickup Lines Needed)
    2025/12/26
    You see women you’d love to meet IRL, but you just don’t know what to say. So you freeze up. In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett shares his What-to-Say Method, a simple, rejection-proof framework that makes it easy to meet women in bars, coffee-shops, or the gym. Learn how to start light, flirty conversations without memorized scripts or awkward pickup lines—and finally feel confident talking to women anywhere.

    Episode Highlights:

    02:17: The What to Say Method: 3 Simple Ways to Break the Ice Anywhere

    05:52: Option A: The Charming Compliment

    07:15: Option B: The Insightful Question

    10:39: Option C: The Playful Observation

    17:15: Client Win: How Robbie Went from Anxiety to Instant Coffee Dates

    20:45: What to Do if You STILL Freeze When You Want to Talk to Women

    BOOK A FREE CONSULTATION CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO APPLY HIS WHAT-TO-SAY METHOD AND MEET WOMEN IRL:www.DatingTransformation.com
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    25 分
  • “I Approached a Woman and 2 Strangers Literally Applauded Me” (Live Coaching with Andrew)

    “I Approached a Woman and 2 Strangers Literally Applauded Me” (Live Coaching with Andrew)
    2025/12/23
    Andrew was the dateless, anxious guy who never approached women. Now, he gets numbers and dates—and after one especially bold effort, two strangers literally applauded him. In this live coaching session with dating coach Connell Barrett, Andrew breaks down the simple, practical strategies that changed everything. Andrew isn’t a natural extrovert. He just did the work. And if he can do this, you can too.

    EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS

    02:10: From Anxious to Approaching Women Anywhere

    35:55: The Daily Confidence Ritual that Changed Everything

    38:25: Exactly What Andrew Said to Her that Sparked an Instant Make-out

    43:47: The Exact Moment Andrew’s Fear of Approaching Vanished

    46:42: What to Say When A Woman You’re Dating Asks, “Are We Exclusive?”


    BOOK A FREE CALL WITH BESTSELLING AUTHOR CONNELL BARRETT TO LEARN IF 1-ON-1 COACHING IS RIGHT FOR YOU: DatingTransformation.com

    EMAIL CONNELL TO GET A FREE COPY OF HIS BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”: connell@datingtransformation.com
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    1 時間 1 分