If "screens off" turns your child into a tiny lawyer with raccoon-level regulation, you're not alone. In this episode, Dr. Amy explains why tablets feel stickier than TV, what dopamine is actually doing in the brain, and how to build a predictable off-ramp so transitions don't blow up your whole day.

• Why stopping screens is a stack of skills, not just "listening"
• Why tablets can be harder than TV (interactive, fast feedback, lots of control)
• What to expect when you tighten a boundary (yes, it can get louder at first)
• How to build an off-ramp that reduces battles without giving up your whole life

• Off-ramp script
  "When the timer goes off, it's time to save, plug in, and move on. You can be mad and we're still doing it."
• Choice within a boundary
  "It's time to be done. Do you want to turn it off now, or do you want me to help you?"
• Preview plus empathy
  "In five minutes, we're turning it off. I know stopping is hard. I'll help you."
• Neutral follow-through line
  "I'm not arguing about it. We can talk when your body is calmer. Right now it's plug in time."

• Pick one tricky tech window (after school or weekend mornings). Consistency in one window beats chaos in five
• Use the same off-ramp steps every time: timer, finish, save, plug in, next step (snack, movement, dinner)
• Create a device home base in a common area (charging spot outside bedrooms if you can)
• Try one Phone Down micro-window for you (10 minutes a day: dinner, car line, bedtime)
• Follow through cleanly once: no lecture, no debate, calm and done

Pick one. One is enough.

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