What happens when you feel attracted to another woman… but you’re in a committed relationship with a man?

For a lot of women, this curiosity brings a mix of excitement, confusion, and uncertainty. You might wonder what it means, whether it’s worth exploring, or how to even begin without creating problems in your current relationship.

In this episode, I’m joined by Genevieve LeJeune, founder of Skirt Club—a global community for bicurious and bisexual women—to talk about what this experience is actually like in real life.

We get into the most common obstacles women face when exploring attraction to other women, why this can feel so hard to navigate, and what helps women feel safe enough to be honest with themselves and try something new.

We also talk about:

1. Why so many women discover this curiosity later in life
2. The difference between performance and genuine desire
3. What makes exploration feel safe (and what doesn’t)
4. How women navigate this while staying in a relationship with a man
5. What it’s actually like to connect with another woman for the first time

This is a grounded, real conversation about curiosity, identity, and creating space for parts of yourself that may have been pushed aside.

Chapters

00:00 -Overview of the community for bicurious women.

01:30 - Genevieve LeJeune's journey from personal experience to creating a global movement.

02:14 - The importance of removing men to foster genuine expression.

04:27 - Tips and advice for women beginning their journey.

13:50 -Navigating monogamy and non-monogamy in women's exploration.

16:42 -How diverse age ranges influence openness to exploring sexuality.

19:42 - Workshops and resources for building sexual confidence.

22:17 - The impact of media portrayal on perceptions and expectations.

33:30 - The role of shared vulnerability in healing and confidence.

41:00 - Encouragement to explore sexuality with courage and authenticity.

Links

Check out Skirt Club: https://skirtclub.co.uk/

Schedule a free consult with Heather for the Pathway to Passion coaching program: Unlock Your Passion - Consultation Call https://HeatherShannon.co

Take the Why You're Stuck In A Sex Rut quiz: https://TheBetterBedroom.com