There's nothing wrong with him. And there's nothing wrong with you.

You've spent years thinking he was broken. He isn't broken — he's male. He's spent years thinking you were broken. You aren't broken — you're female.

God designed you opposite each other on purpose, before sin ever entered the picture.

In Week 3 of our series, "It's Complicated," Brad talks directly to the women — and gives the men a picture of who they're called to love and lead.

When God said "I will make a helper," the Hebrew word is Ezer — a word God uses for Himself. "My help comes from the Lord."

Eve wasn't given to Adam because he was lonely. She was given because he was insufficient for the assignment.

And the word that follows, Kenegdo, means corresponding to him — face to face. Not above him. Not beneath him. Not behind him. Across from him.

Then sin distorted the design. Brad walks through the four mistakes Eve made in Genesis 3 that women still get pulled into today:

• The wrong voice
• The wrong focus
• The wrong desire
• The wrong order

"Did God really say?" is still the oldest question in the room.
But Jesus died to break the pattern and bring us back to the Garden. Brad closes with four practical marks of a godly wife:

• She gives respect
• She gives help
• She prioritizes her marriage over everything but Christ
• She builds her home

Stop demonizing God's design. Start walking in it.

You were never just the reward for the mission. You're part of how the mission gets done.

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