We say we want peace, but what we really need is emotional safety—the ability to be with ourselves, feel any emotion, and know we can handle it.

This 18-minute episode dives into a truth that’s often overlooked in the self-help world. Peace isn’t about having a quiet life—it’s about having a strong inner world.

🧠 Timestamps & Key Takeaways:

00:00 – 01:45
📍 Why “peace” isn’t what you think it is
Amanda shares how this episode—originally recorded for private clients—turns into a universal message. The most common client request? “I just want peace.” But what does that really mean?

01:46 – 04:40
📍 Peace vs. Emotional Safety
Peace is a feeling, not a destination. It’s unique to everyone and often fleeting. Amanda explains how emotional safety—knowing you can handle any emotion—is what actually creates sustainable peace.

04:41 – 07:30
📍 What you're really asking for when you say “peace”
You’re probably trying to escape the overthinking, the mental tug-of-war. Amanda reframes this as a call for quieting the mind through emotional safety—not resisting your emotions, but allowing them.

07:31 – 10:30
📍 How to recognize and work with difficult emotions like loneliness
Using vivid metaphors (like the fluttering bird in your chest), Amanda explains how to stop resisting emotions like loneliness and instead become curious about what they’re telling you.

10:31 – 13:00
📍 Creating emotional safety starts with nervous system regulation
Peace isn’t found in a bubble bath—it’s in a plan. Amanda gets real about regulating your nervous system throughoutyour day, not just when it’s convenient.

13:01 – 15:00
📍 Allowing emotions in your body—not thinking your way out
Self-help often tries to logic away emotions. Amanda explains why feeling them in your body is more powerful, and shares what anxiety feels like for her—plus how she softens it.

15:01 – 16:30
📍 Rewriting the story in your mind
You don’t have to stay stuck in “I can’t” or “I’m too busy.” Amanda shows how to start shifting your inner dialogue to one that supports your growth.

16:31 – 18:00
📍 Nobody’s coming to save you—and that’s good news
You are your own hero. Amanda wraps up with a powerful message about self-responsibility, self-trust, and building the life you actually want.

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Burnout isn’t just being tired or overwhelmed—it’s what happens when your nervous system is totally tapped out. This episode is a wake-up call and a reframe. I break down what burnout really is, what it’s not, and how to start healing without adding more pressure to your already packed plate.

[00:00–01:25]
📍 Let's reframe burnout
I kick things off by calling out the biggest misunderstanding about burnout: we think it’s situational, but the truth is deeper. Burnout is when your nervous system says, “I’m done.” It's not weakness—it's a stress overload.

[01:26–03:20]
🔥 Burnout vs. "nervous breakdown"
I talk about how burnout used to be labeled a nervous breakdown, and why that language matters. It’s about capacity, not capability. Burnout is your body's way of saying something's not working.

[03:21–05:10]
🚫 People-pleasing & the cost of “playing nice”
If you’re saying yes when you want to say no, avoiding boundaries, and putting everyone else first, this is your burnout blueprint. I walk through how saying “yes” at the expense of yourself leads to emotional depletion.

[05:11–07:45]
🌪️ The real burnout trigger: a fried nervous system
What looks like anxiety, panic, and sleeplessness often comes down to nervous system dysregulation. I compare it to skipping flossing—eventually the buildup causes pain. We need daily emotional hygiene.

[07:46–09:35]
💡 How to start regulating your nervous system
This isn’t about meditating more or walking it off. I explain how real nervous system regulation is consistent, intentional, and doable. I share the first tool you can try today: my 5-minute reset (and how to get it).

[09:36–11:20]
⚖️ Capacity & emotion: how to hold more
Think about how you feel after vacation vs. after a sleepless night. Emotional capacity changes, and we can build it intentionally. This section is about how we make allowing emotion easier.

[11:21–13:00]
🧠 Thoughts, beliefs & the mental load
Burnout isn’t just emotional—there’s a mental component too. I talk about how the belief that you’re responsible for everything and everyone fuels burnout and why it’s time to challenge that.

[13:01–15:00]
💬 Where to start & how I can help
I wrap with two options for going deeper: book a discovery call with me at amandahess.ca or join my Love Yourself No Matter What membership for free at joinamanda.ca. Plus, how to reach me for the free 5-minute reset.

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This episode is more than a conversation—it’s a reclamation.

LT Dixon joins me to share a deeply personal, powerful journey of healing, self-discovery, and radical self-love. From surviving abuse to raising five kids as a single mom, LT didn't just rebuild her life—she reinvented her identity.

Together, we explore what it actually means to put yourself first without guilt, why so many women feel resistance to loving themselves, and how to start operating from a completely new paradigm—where self-love isn’t optional, it’s foundational.

You’ll walk away with tangible wisdom, loving truth bombs, and a fresh perspective on what it means to be love, lead with love, and build a life from the inside out.

Whether you’re at the start of your healing journey or deep in the process of remembering who you are—you’ll find resonance here.

0:00 – Welcome + introducing my first guest in this self-love series
2:15 – LT’s story: healing from abuse and rediscovering herself
6:45 – “It started with a cup of coffee”: the smallest act of self-love that changed everything
10:30 – The moment she said, “This can’t be my life”—and why that question matters
14:55 – How to ask, ‘Where am I?’ and why this is the most powerful place to begin
19:30 – Redefining love on your own terms: acceptance, appreciation, no judgment
24:10 – LT’s “me, we, them” framework and how it transformed her family
29:50 – What to do when you feel resistance to loving yourself
33:40 – Setting boundaries without guilt—and how it’s a form of love
37:20 – Why healing isn’t about being perfect—it’s about being honest
41:10 – Final takeaways + where to find LT online

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