You’ll know Bob the Drag Queen as a comedian, actor, writer, drag superstar, and now self-proclaimed sex tourist. Bob joins Anna to discuss Grindr bios, drinking days, and the stories that led to sobriety. There’s also sausage chat, jokes about the British, and a serious debate about whose pi**ing flow is louder.

Keep us wet when we’re dry by donating to our Collectiv pot. All proceeds will go toward making season two. Thank you!

Produced by Ollie Peart at Rethink Audio

Video production and marketing from Podcast Discovery

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Alcoholics Anonymous 0800 917 7650

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Campaign Against Living Miserably (CALM) 0800 58 58 58 (5pm-midnight)

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Sex educator, sex worker, and co-host of Come Curious podcast, Reed Amber has made her love for sex not just her passion, but her profession. In this episode, Reed opens up about navigating sexuality in sobriety, unpacking the complex world of kink and fetish, and what it means to actually feel okay in your own skin and own your sexual quirks.

Amidst the talk of kink and self-love, Anna can’t stop fixating on whether or not people fart at Reed’s tickle parties.

Keep us wet when we’re dry by donating to our Collectiv pot. All proceeds will go toward making season two. Thank you!

Produced by Ollie Peart at Rethink Audio

Video production and marketing from Podcast Discovery

CALM Stay Tuned Campaign

This September, we’re taking part in Stay Tuned, a month-long event for the suicide prevention charity Campaign Against Living Miserably. We’re raising money for CALM’s life-saving services, needed now more than ever, to help people find ways to Stay. If you can, chuck in £12.20 - that’s the cost of answering a potentially life-saving call. You can donate to the Stay Tuned campaign ⁠here⁠.

A fellow podcast supporting this campaign is Mum! Dad’s Got Another Tattoo: their mission is to build a community of men who are all trying to navigate the ups, downs and ridiculousness of middle age. You can hear their trailer at the end of this episode.

Looking for support?

Alcoholics Anonymous 0800 917 7650

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Campaign Against Living Miserably (CALM) 0800 58 58 58 (5pm-midnight)

BEAT eating disorders

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Seye Adelekan is the bassist for Gorillaz and singer-songwriter who previously worked with Lana Del Rey, Emeli Sandé and Paloma Faith.

In this episode, Anna and Seye chat about how his addiction affected his relationship, how liquid courage did them dirty while dating, and the hat to ego ratio.

They’ll cover how his lifestyle of endless touring, parties, drugs and booze took its toll and ultimately how a life of excess led to recovery. Prepare to be inspired. Seye is serene AF and basically a walking quote.

Expect: rebuilding relationships in recovery, post eating disorder recovery, Sober sex and intimacy. And other things. Lots of other things.

Content warning: Strong detail of drug and alcohol addiction and eating disorders.

CALM: Stay Tuned

This September, we’re taking part in Stay Tuned, a month-long event for the suicide prevention charity Campaign Against Living Miserably. We’re raising money for CALM’s life-saving services, needed now more than ever, to help people find ways to Stay. If you can, chuck in £12.20 - that’s the cost of answering a potentially life-saving call. You can donate to the Stay Tuned campaign ⁠here⁠.

Support us

Keep us wet when we’re dry by donating to our Collectiv pot. All proceeds will go toward making season two. Thank you!

Produced by Ollie Peart at ⁠Rethink Audio⁠

Video production and marketing from ⁠Podcast Discovery

Looking for support?

Alcoholics Anonymous 0800 917 7650

Narcotics Anonymous

Campaign Against Living Miserably (CALM) 0800 58 58 58 (5pm-midnight)

BEAT eating disorders

The Mix

Mind UK

Text SHOUT to 85258

Al-Anon - support for families and friends

She “blows sh** up”, she’s an entrepreneurial mastermind, she owns the most fabulous pair of fluffy Birkenstocks, she’s Cindy Gallop. While working in an illustrious and award-winning advertising career, Cindy set up MakeLoveNotPorn, a platform for people to share their real-world sex videos.

In this episode, Cindy speaks frankly about everything from dating younger men to how to communicate in bed without accidentally devastating the other person.

Expect: Intimacy without alcohol, recovery and self-discovery, the joys of knowing what you want. And other things. Lots of other things.

Keep us wet when we’re dry by donating to our Collectiv pot. All proceeds will go toward making season two. Thank you!

Produced by ⁠Ollie Peart⁠ at ⁠Rethink Audio⁠

Video production and marketing from ⁠Podcast Discovery⁠

Looking for support?

Alcoholics Anonymous 0800 917 7650

Narcotics Anonymous

Campaign Against Living Miserably (CALM) 0800 58 58 58 (5pm-midnight)

BEAT eating disorders

The Mix

Mind UK

Text SHOUT to 85258

Al-Anon - support for families and friends

Con man boyfriends, shagging forever and pants shitting. Variety is the spice of life after all.

Stand-up comedian, actress, musician and Queen of Everything, Margaret Cho talks about her childhood, eating disorders and sobriety in this debut episode of How To Get Wet When You’re Dry.

Content warning: This episode contains references to drug and alcohol addiction, sexual abuse and eating disorders.

Keep us wet when we’re dry by donating to our Collectiv pot. All proceeds will go toward making season two.

Produced by Ollie Peart at ⁠Rethink Audio⁠Video production and marketing from ⁠Podcast Discovery

Looking for support?

Alcoholics Anonymous 0800 917 7650

⁠BEAT eating disorders ⁠

Campaign Against Living Miserably (CALM) 0800 58 58 58 (5pm-midnight)

The Mix

Mind UK

Text SHOUT to 85258

Al-Anon - support for families and friends

Love and lust without the liquor. Conversations with brilliant guests exploring where sex, sobriety, and dating collide.

Journalist, lover, and several years into recovery from both alcohol and an eating disorder, Anna Wolfe brings personal experience to discussions about relationships and recovery. She's not a therapist, a guru, or an expert - just a woman who thought it would be nice to share these things and now deeply regrets it.