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How Not To Suck At Divorce

How Not To Suck At Divorce

著者： Morgan Stogsdill and Andrea Rappaport
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Most people make expensive divorce mistakes before they even understand the process. Get expert divorce advice, practical divorce help, and cost-effective divorce strategies to avoid costly mistakes, reduce legal fees, and navigate divorce with clarity, confidence, and control. Most people spend thousands learning this the hard way. Don’t be one of them. The Divorce Crash Course (a $150 value, available for $50) shows you exactly how to prepare for divorce, avoid costly legal mistakes, and protect your finances before you even hire a lawyer. How Not to Suck at Divorce is the divorce podcast for people who want real answers, smart strategy, and emotional clarity during one of the most stressful times of life. This isn’t surface-level advice or generic legal talk. It’s honest, practical divorce guidance designed to help you make better decisions from the very beginning. Hosted by powerhouse family law attorney Morgan Stogsdill, head of family law at one of the largest firms in the country, and comedian-turned-marketing expert Andrea Rappaport, the show combines legal expertise with real-life experience. Together, they break down what actually matters in divorce and what too many people get wrong. Each episode focuses on the decisions that can cost you the most if you’re not prepared, from custody and co-parenting to negotiations, communication, and financial strategy. You’ll learn what to say to your lawyer, how to prepare for divorce before you file, and how to manage emotions without letting them derail your case. If you want a clear, step-by-step plan instead of figuring this out on your own, The Divorce Crash Course walks you through exactly what to do before, during, and after divorce so you can make smarter decisions with less stress. This podcast is built for every stage of the process. Whether you’re thinking about divorce, in the middle of it, or rebuilding your life after, you’ll find clear divorce planning strategies, practical tools, and real-world guidance you can actually use. It’s about protecting your kids, your finances, and your future while staying grounded through a process that can easily feel overwhelming. What makes this show different is the combination of expert insight, real-world scenarios, and a tone that doesn’t feel heavy or intimidating. You’ll hear conversations with leading experts in law, psychology, finance, and safety, alongside honest discussions about the emotional side of divorce, including stress, conflict, and starting over. 💡 WHAT YOU’LL LEARN How to avoid costly divorce mistakes and reduce legal fees Divorce strategy, planning, and decision-making frameworks How to prepare for divorce before hiring a lawyer (and avoid expensive legal missteps) Co-parenting strategies and managing high-conflict personalities Communication tools to protect your case and reduce stress Financial planning, asset protection, and negotiation strategies Mindset tools to stay clear, calm, and in control From high-conflict communication strategies like the BIFF method to understanding financial transparency, custody dynamics, and digital safety, each episode is designed to give you clarity on what matters most. You’ll also hear from experts like Bill Eddy on managing conflict, Steven Bradley on tech and digital safety, and Dr. Nadine Macaluso on trauma, healing, and emotional resilience. At its core, this podcast is about helping you make smarter decisions during one of the most important transitions of your life. It’s practical, strategic, and grounded in real experience. And if you’re ready for a more structured approach, The Divorce Crash Course is there to guide you every step of the way. You’ll get through this. And you’ll do it better than you think.Morgan L. Stogsdill and Andrea Rappaport 2021-2025 人間関係 個人的成功 心理学 心理学・心の健康 社会科学 自己啓発 衛生・健康的な生活
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  • Divorce Regrets: Celebrity Divorce Mistakes You Need to Learn From

    Divorce Regrets: Celebrity Divorce Mistakes You Need to Learn From
    2026/07/17
    Divorce Crash CourseThinking about divorce or already in the middle of one? Don't make expensive mistakes before you understand your rights.Our Divorce Crash Course gives you practical guidance on attorneys, finances, custody, parenting agreements, and the biggest mistakes people make during divorce.Typically priced at $150, available now for just $50 thanks to our angel underwriters, Our Family Wizard and Soberlink.👉 https://www.hownottosuckatdivorce.com/divorce-crash-course🎙️ Episode DescriptionWhat can Brad Pitt, Angelina Jolie, Johnny Depp, Amber Heard, Kevin Costner, Kim Kardashian, Britney Spears, Jeff Bezos, and Alec Baldwin teach us about divorce?A lot more than you might think.In this episode of How Not to Suck at Divorce, Andrea Rappaport and top family law attorney Morgan L. Stogsdill break down some of Hollywood's most famous divorces—not for the celebrity gossip, but for the real-life legal and emotional lessons that apply to everyday people.From prenups and child support to co-parenting, high-conflict custody battles, social media mistakes, and negotiating outside of court, these celebrity cases reveal common divorce pitfalls that can cost people time, money, and peace of mind.Whether you're considering divorce, currently navigating one, or helping someone through the process, this episode is packed with practical advice you can actually use.⭐ In This EpisodeWhy Kevin Costner's divorce proves prenups aren't magicWhat Johnny Depp and Amber Heard teach about text messages and digital evidenceThe expensive lesson behind Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie's years-long legal battleKim Kardashian and Kanye West's co-parenting challengesAlec Baldwin's custody mistakes and what every parent should learnBritney Spears, Kevin Federline, and when child support can actually be modifiedJeff Bezos' divorce strategy and why settling outside of court often saves everyoneHow to identify your true "must-haves" during divorce negotiationsWhy protecting your integrity is often your greatest victory🔑 Key Takeaways✔️ Not every battle is worth fighting.✔️ Every text, email, voicemail, and social media post could become evidence.✔️ Prenups reduce uncertainty—but they don't eliminate conflict.✔️ Child support modifications require a significant change in circumstances.✔️ The best divorce outcomes often happen through thoughtful negotiation—not courtroom battles.✔️ Focus on your true priorities instead of trying to "win" every issue.🎧 More Divorce Resources🌐 Website:https://www.hownottosuckatdivorce.com🎙️ Listen to more episodes:https://www.hownottosuckatdivorce.com/podcastOur Family Wizard: You guys, please check them out. They are the most court respected coparenting app. And we are the only podcast that can offer you 20% off your first year of the essential's package.www.ourfamilywizard.com/notsuck About How Not to Suck at DivorceHosted by Andrea Rappaport and Morgan L. Stogsdill, Head of the Family Law Group at Beermann LLP, How Not to Suck at Divorce provides practical legal, financial, and emotional guidance for people navigating divorce.Our mission is simple: help you make smarter decisions, avoid costly mistakes, and build a better life on the other side of divorce.Because divorce is a marathon—not a sprint.You've got this.And we've got you.📚 Resources MentionedPrenuptial AgreementsChild Support ModificationsCustody & Parenting TimeMediation vs. LitigationHigh-Net-Worth DivorceDigital Evidence in Divorce Cases📱 Connect With UsInstagram: @HowNotToSuckAtDivorceFacebook Community: https://www.facebook.com/share/g/1EQe3x7zCR/Website: https://www.hownottosuckatdivorce.comHashtags#Divorce #CelebrityDivorce #FamilyLaw #Prenup #ChildCustody #ChildSupport #CoParenting #DivorceAdvice #DivorcePodcast #HowNotToSuckAtDivorceSEO Keywordscelebrity divorce lessons, Brad Pitt divorce, Angelina Jolie custody battle, Kevin Costner prenup, Johnny Depp Amber Heard divorce, Kim Kardashian Kanye West custody, Britney Spears child support, Jeff Bezos divorce, Alec Baldwin custody, divorce advice, family law, divorce mistakes, divorce attorney, co-parenting, high-conflict divorce.Mentioned in this episode:Smarter Way to Sell Your Jewelry After my divorce was finalized, I sold my old engagement ring to a jeweler — and honestly, I was stunned by how little I got for it compared to what it originally cost. If I could do it all over again — which is kind of the theme of this podcast — I would have sold it through Worthy. Worthy is a modern, smarter way to sell your jewelry online. Their process is incredibly easy: they cover shipping and insurance, professionally clean and photograph your jewelry, and have it graded by experts to help maximize its value. What makes Worthy different is that they create a competitive auction environment where buyers bid against each other for your piece — meaning they are motivated to help you get the highest price possible. It’s ...
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  • Divorce: What to Do When the Outcome Doesn't Feel Fair

    Divorce: What to Do When the Outcome Doesn't Feel Fair
    2026/07/15
    Divorce Isn't Fair: How to Stop the Negative Spiral and Move Forward🎧 Divorce Crash Course – Just $50 (Limited Time)Before you spend thousands on avoidable divorce mistakes, invest in yourself.Our Divorce Crash Course walks you through the biggest legal, financial, and emotional mistakes people make before, during, and after divorce. Typically priced at $150, it's available now for just $50, thanks to our angel underwriters, Our Family Wizard and SoberLink.Learn more here!Episode SummaryOne of the hardest truths about divorce is also one of the most important:It's not fair.Whether it's a custody decision, financial settlement, or something you genuinely believed you deserved, getting stuck on what isn't fair can keep you emotionally trapped long after your divorce moves forward.In this mini episode of How Not to Suck at Divorce, Andrea Rappaport and family law attorney Morgan L. Stogsdill explain why obsessing over fairness often leads to costly legal decisions, emotional exhaustion, and unnecessary conflict. They also share a practical mindset shift that can help you regain momentum and make smarter choices throughout your divorce.If you're struggling to let go of something that feels unfair, this episode offers both legal perspective and emotional guidance to help you move forward.In This EpisodeWhy divorce often feels deeply unfair—and why that's normalHow focusing on fairness can keep you emotionally stuckThe hidden financial cost of fighting every issueWhy friends and family can unintentionally make the situation worseHow to know whether an issue is worth continuing to fightThe powerful question every client should ask their divorce attorneyHow acceptance can help you heal without approving of what happenedWhy letting go isn't giving up—it's moving forwardKey TakeawayYou don't have to like what happened.You don't even have to think it's fair.But staying trapped in resentment won't change the outcome—it only keeps you from building what's next. Sometimes the healthiest decision is accepting what you cannot change so you can focus your energy on creating a better future.Resources MentionedDivorce Crash CourseOur Family WizardSoberLinkJoin our free private Facebook communityUpcoming Divorce Meditation SeriesSubscribe & ReviewIf How Not to Suck at Divorce has helped you navigate divorce with more confidence, we'd be incredibly grateful if you'd subscribe, leave a rating, and write a review. Your support helps more people find trustworthy divorce guidance when they need it most.www.ratethispodcast.com/notsuckConnect With UsWebsite: www.hownottosuckatdivorce.comFacebook Community: https://www.facebook.com/share/g/1HNN44whZq/InstagramYouTube Check out Our Family Wizard- the most court respected coparenting app. We are the only podcast that can offer you 20% of your first year!www.ourfamilywizard.com/notsuck20Keywordsdivorce advice, divorce podcast, divorce lawyer, divorce settlement, divorce mindset, divorce emotional healing, divorce mediation, child custody, divorce strategy, unfair divorce settlement, accepting divorce, co-parenting, family law, healing after divorce, divorce supportMentioned in this episode:Smarter Way to Sell Your Jewelry After my divorce was finalized, I sold my old engagement ring to a jeweler — and honestly, I was stunned by how little I got for it compared to what it originally cost. If I could do it all over again — which is kind of the theme of this podcast — I would have sold it through Worthy. Worthy is a modern, smarter way to sell your jewelry online. Their process is incredibly easy: they cover shipping and insurance, professionally clean and photograph your jewelry, and have it graded by experts to help maximize its value. What makes Worthy different is that they create a competitive auction environment where buyers bid against each other for your piece — meaning they are motivated to help you get the highest price possible. It’s completely risk-free and honestly something I wish I had known about sooner. Get started today by heading to worthy.com/divorcepod and lock in an extra $100 when your jewelry sells for more than $1,500.
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  • Divorce Cyberstalking: How to Prevent it and What to do If You Think Your Ex is Watching You Online

    Divorce Cyberstalking: How to Prevent it and What to do If You Think Your Ex is Watching You Online
    2026/07/10
    Divorce Cyberstalking: What to Do If You Think Your Ex Is Watching You OnlineDivorce Crash Course: Don’t make expensive divorce mistakes.Our Divorce Crash Course walks you through the biggest legal, financial, emotional, and co-parenting mistakes people make during divorce — and how to avoid them.Typically priced at $150, available now for just $50, thanks to our angel underwriters, Our Family Wizard and Soberlink.Start the course here: https://www.hownottosuckatdivorce.com/divorce-crash-courseCyberstalking during divorce can make you feel unsafe, paranoid, unsteady, and completely overwhelmed.But here’s the thing: sometimes what feels “crazy” is actually a real digital safety issue.In this episode of How Not to Suck at Divorce, Andrea Rappaport and Morgan L. Stogsdill are joined by Steven Bradley, a former FBI task force leader, cybersecurity expert, domestic violence specialist, and cyberstalking educator, to talk about what to do if you think your ex is watching, tracking, monitoring, or digitally harassing you during divorce.And yes — this episode is scary.But more importantly, it is actionable.Steven explains that cyberstalking is often easier than people realize because many exes already know your passwords, security question answers, shared devices, family routines, Wi-Fi setup, smart home devices, and personal information. Cyberstalking is not always some dramatic hacker-in-a-hoodie situation. Sometimes it is access to your Amazon Alexa, Ring doorbell, Nest thermostat, pet camera, cloud account, location sharing, shared passwords, or old devices.In other words: your ex may not need to “hack” you if they already have access.Terrifying? Yes. Useful to know? Also yes.In this episode, we cover:How cyberstalking can show up during divorceWhy many people dismiss early warning signs as “coincidences”How smart home devices can be used to monitor or harass someoneWhy shared passwords and security questions are a major riskWhat to do if you think your ex has access to your phone, email, cloud, or devicesWhy you should not delete suspicious messages or evidenceHow to create a timeline of cyberstalking concernsWhen to tell your divorce attorneyWhy co-parenting apps can help protect communicationHow VPNs, multi-factor authentication, and anti-malware tools can helpWhy public Wi-Fi can be riskyWhat parents should know about children’s apps, gaming, and DiscordWhy taking action can lower paranoia and help you feel saferFirst signs of cyberstalking during divorceCyberstalking can start small.You may notice:strange text messagesanonymous calls or emailsyour ex showing up where you aresmart home devices acting strangelylights, thermostats, or cameras changing unexpectedlyunfamiliar apps on your phonelogin alertsodd account activitysomeone seeming to know things they should not knowSteven explains that many offenders start with small behaviors and escalate when they feel they can get away with it. That is why it is important not to dismiss everything as coincidence, especially during a high-conflict divorce or custody battle.What to do if you think you are being cyberstalkedSteven’s first action step is simple:Do not delete anything.Preserve texts, emails, screenshots, suspicious messages, device alerts, app changes, login warnings, and anything that feels off. Create a timeline. Write down what happened, when it happened, where you were, and what evidence you have.Digital evidence can be time-sensitive, and some data may disappear or overwrite itself. The sooner you document, the better.Tell your divorce attorney earlyIf you believe you may be dealing with cyberstalking, do not wait until it becomes unbearable.Tell your attorney.Morgan explains that divorce lawyers may need outside experts to help connect the dots, preserve evidence, and explain what is happening in a way the court can understand. Cyberstalking can be technical, and many attorneys and judges are not cybersecurity experts.This is not about panicking.It is about protecting yourself, documenting what is happening, and getting the right people involved early.Secure your digital lifeSteven recommends assuming your passwords may be compromised and taking steps to secure your digital life.That may include:changing passwordschanging security questionsturning on multi-factor authenticationreviewing location sharingchecking Life360, Find My, Snap Maps, and similar appsauditing old accountsclosing accounts you no longer useusing anti-malware tools on phones and computersavoiding public Wi-Fi when possibleusing a reputable VPNchecking shared smart home devicesreviewing cloud accessremoving your ex from shared accounts and devicesAnd yes, this includes the things people forget about: Alexa, pet cameras, thermostats, doorbells, old apps, children’s devices, shared family accounts, and even old platforms you forgot existed.Friendster, we are looking at you.Why co-parenting apps matterIf communication with your ex feels unsafe, chaotic...
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