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Local Female Entrepeneur November Spotlights:

1. Lifestyle & Female Business Owner Blog: Theresa at Kandidlybecomingher.com; IG:kandidlyteresa

2. Beauty Industry: Kiara Boston Nail Tech Located in Dorchester & Brighton; IG: prettyklawzby_K

3. Female Founders Networking Community: Speema; IG: speema_

Discussion Topic: Money talks, What does how we spend our money reflect? Where do our ideas of money come from? And what are Gods expectations on how to be a good steward of our money?

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In this episode my Fiance and I are sharing first hand what we've learned in pre- marital counseling that helped us better show up for the other person the way God intends. We are breaking down the incredible book called "Love and Respect" by Doctor Eggerichs and discussing various communication styles for relationships called "TIP" and "Listener/Speaker". Both of these communications styles drastically changed our love for one another and made us both feel heard and understood.

Love alone is not enough to sustain any relationship let alone the Godly covenant of marriage. Like any life transformation and life responsibility, there are practical tools you can learn to help you draw nearer to your spouse.

In this episode you will hear several acronyms we learned on how men and women both spell love differently. Men value respect and need it to stay in their relationships and most women value and prioritize needing to feel loved above all else. The way women spell love is through the acronym "COUPLE" and the way men spell love is through the acronym "CHAIRS". Once you learn that your partner hears and sees through an entirely different lens then you do; you will learn what they need.

Not only are the concepts we're sharing biblical, they are also psychological. God tells us in his word that there will be struggle in all marriages; he also says that marriage is the greatest depiction of his love and how Christ loves the Church. We are accountable to upholding this covenant even when its hard.

We pray that the lessons we learned the hard way, shows listeners they are not alone. You are seen and you can be encouraged that misery in your relationship is not what God intends. Tune in to hear how you can turn around a hopeless situation into the most loving fulfilling relationship that you've ever had!

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29 years of living and I only recently had the epiphany that the way I define "love" counteracts God's definition of "agape" love and what that truly looks like. I believe as life goes on, we all have varying seasons of what Spirit wants us to focus on. In my current season, God has me focusing on my soon to be marriage, attending pre marital counseling and learning what a God centered, God focused relationship should be.

In telling my pastor that I am doing my best to "check off the boxes" Raiem has regarding certain expectations and desires for a wife; he turned to me and said my definition of love seemed "transactional". I then realized that this is how I learned to navigate my walk with God as well. I learned that love had to be earned not freely given. I believed that my actions and obedience gained me God's love. I felt so unworthy of God's kindness and grace towards me, that all my life I subconsciously used my abilities and efforts to feel worthy.

Today and all my days moving forward, I am deciding to accept God's agape love for me and to show the same kind of unconditional love and respect to my fiance. Tune in to hear me breakdown how God defines his perfect love, and how we must actively go against what culture says dating should be.

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