Betrayal cuts deep, and if you've ever been through it, you know it leaves more than just hurt; it lingers with shame, grief, and trust that feels broken. When we shared our story last episode, so many of you reached out and said, "I've been there too." That broke our hearts, but it also reminded us we're not alone in this. And that's why we wanted to do this episode, because your stories, your messages, and your honesty showed us how much this conversation is needed.

Today, we're sitting down to talk honestly about the healing process and the steps that helped us move forward. Healing isn't something that just happens one day; it's something you walk out of, sometimes slowly, sometimes painfully. We talk about the hard parts, like shame, isolation, and feeling stuck, and what helped us push through without pretending everything was fine. From naming what hurts to leaning into wise counsel and letting God reshape our hearts, we share the messy, real side of healing. If you've ever wondered, "How do I even begin to move past this?" you'll find some encouragement here.

What looks like the end of your story may actually be the start of a new one. We've seen how God can use even betrayal to grow us, stretch us, and lead us into something better than we imagined. So, if you're still in the middle of the grief, still struggling to forgive, or just trying to take the next step, pull up a chair, you're not alone.

Key Timestamps:
[00:00:00] Introduction
[00:01:53] Why betrayal wounds run so deep
[00:02:22] What keeps us stuck in betrayal?
[00:03:01] Shame, Guilt, & Victimhood
[00:04:34] Naming the Hurt: Why clarity starts the healing
[00:05:54] Isolation: The hidden danger that blocks trust
[00:07:23] Mindset & Faith: Shaping the path to healing
[00:15:03] Forgiveness: Why it starts now and never stops
[00:18:05] Surrender: What does it really mean to give it to God?
[00:22:01] Grieving: How to do it with intention
[00:24:07] Rebuilding Trust: Finding safety in community
[00:26:00] Betrayal Before Promotion: Why does God allow it first?
[00:28:01] How to turn pain into purpose
[00:30:36] Why your story still matters

Memorable Quotes:

"Betrayal does not get the final word. Always remember that God does; he will use your pain and your betrayal for a greater purpose. His word is always restoration, healing, and promotion." [00:32:45] – Melissa Edmiston

"Grieving is the hallway, not the home. You may feel like you're at the end, but the end could just be the doorway to your next season of life." [00:32:05] – Jonathan Edmiston

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