What does it actually look like when a man decides to stop performing and start being honest?Stan, founder of Outlandish Visuals, sat down with me for what turned into one of the most honest conversations I've had on this show. We lost power partway through. The conversation still didn't stop.In Part 1, Stan opens up about his journey through depression, the therapy that helped him find his footing, and what it really means to pursue your dreams when your mind has been working against you. He talks about the things most men don't take time to do — true accountability, the discipline of actually sitting with the Word, and what his faith has meant not just as a belief system but as a survival tool.He also unpacks something I want every man to hear. Submission isn't just a word handed to women. It's the posture a man takes before God. And when Stan finally understood that, it changed how he leads, how he shows up, and what he's building.He said something about leadership that's still with me. A great leader hears from God. He doesn't control. He doesn't command from a distance. He doesn't pile expectations on people while bringing nothing of himself to the table.And then he said this. Women multiply whatever you give them. Give them chaos, and that's what comes back to you... double portion.That one needs to sit.This is Part 1. The power cut us off mid-conversation. Part 2 is coming, and we go even deeper.Subscribe so you don't miss it. And if this lands for you, send it to a man in your life who needs somewhere to land.Find Stan at @outlandish_visuals on Instagram.When men break the silence, they break the cycle.On Disruptive Silence we’re committed to:Restoring Balance. Reclaiming Voice. Redefining Strength.Because Wholeness is Everyone’s Story.