Have you ever tried to find yourself in someone or something else but it failed? That's because true happiness will never come from outside of yourself. No one can tell you who you are or what you enjoy but most enjoyment comes from creative endeavors. Writing, singing, dancing, skating, drawing, painting, designing, directing, any possible way you could express yourself can help you find true happiness. Using your talents and gifts to express your voice, your story, your ideas, and put them into action will help bring you the harmony and happiness you look for. If you look for unconditional love in someone else but you hate yourself, you will only create trust issues and a fear based connection. If you found someone to love you unconditionally but you're too insecure to actually be vulnerable, that connection will fail. If you don't love yourself but you expect someone else to love you, you may end up begging someone for love but accepting the bare minimum. You may tolerate toxic connections because you feel that is the best you deserve. You deserve to express yourself and deserve love but you need to give yourself that unconditional love and freedom of expression above all else. No one can give you what you won't give yourself.