Have you ever walked away from church feeling confused and heavy — then immediately told yourself you're "just being too sensitive"? That tightness in your chest when certain teachings are mentioned. That knot in your stomach around certain people. You've felt it, but you've pushed it down because good Christian women don't question things like that. Right?

Episode Description

In this episode, Debra helps you finally name what you've been carrying. Because here's the truth: you can't heal what you can't name. This isn't about rejecting faith — it's about healing from harm done in the name of faith. If you've ever felt spiritual discomfort but didn't have words for it, this episode will give you the clarity you've been searching for.

In this episode, you'll discover:

→ What religious trauma actually is — and why it's so hard to recognize → Why faithful, loyal Christian women are the LEAST likely to see they're being hurt → The sacred parts of your soul that got trampled — and why it wasn't your fault → Eight common symptoms of religious trauma (and why they don't mean you're broken) → How to start paying attention to what your body is trying to tell you

Healing Truth

You didn't recognize religious trauma because you were BEING good. You were being faithful. You were being loyal. The problem wasn't your heart. These symptoms don't mean you're broken. They mean you've been hurt. And hurt people need healing, not more shame.

Key Quote: "You can't heal what you can't name. And now? You can name it. That's the first step toward healing."

Ready to go deeper?

Do you suffer from religious trauma? Find out! ReligiousTraumaQuiz.com

Read Debra's story and unravel your own. HeIsEnoughBook.com — a redemptive memoir and healing guide.

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About Debra

Debra Shafer is a spiritual healing coach for Christian women and creator of the Coming Home Journey. She helps women untangle religious trauma, rebuild trust in God, and find peace without walking away from their faith. Known for her voice of gentle clarity and truth, Debra walks women home to the God they always hoped was real.

Listener Love

If this episode helped you put words to what you've been experiencing, would you share it with someone who needs to hear this? A quick review on Apple Podcasts helps more women find their way here.

This is soul-level restoration for Christian women healing religious trauma who long for inner peace, spiritual healing, and true connection with God. Through addressing generational trauma and helping you trust God completely, we help you recognize what happened and finally discover God's love that was there all along.

You've had the breakthrough. You've glimpsed who you really are. But now what? How do you actually LIVE as this new woman — especially when life gets hard and the old patterns try to pull you back?

Episode Description

In this final episode of The Path Home series, Debra reveals why breakthroughs don't always stick — and what it actually takes to make transformation permanent. This is Phase Five: Growing Your Wings. The caterpillar has dissolved, but the butterfly's wings are still wet. It's time to develop the capacity to fly. If you've ever had a powerful moment of healing and then slipped back into old patterns, this episode will show you why — and how to finally break free for good.

In this episode, you'll discover:

→ Why breakthrough isn't the end — it's just the beginning

→ The difference between feeling different and actually living different

→ What "growth codes" are and why they make transformation permanent

→ How to navigate the uncomfortable liminal space between old and new

→ The promise of Philippians 1:6 — He who began a good work WILL complete it

Healing Truth

Transformation isn't a moment — it's a process. And you don't have to do it alone. The God who started this work in you is faithful to finish it. Your wings are growing. And one day soon, you're going to fly.

Scripture: Philippians 1:6 — "He who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion."

Ready to go deeper?

Discover your personal healing path: Take our free Religious Trauma Assessment at ReligiousTraumaQuiz.com and uncover which of the 12 hidden barriers might be shaping your relationship with God, yourself, and others. You'll receive a personalized report plus my complete Essentials Starter Kit—including my book He Is Enough, Truth Over Tradition mini-course, live reading circles, and access to our supportive community—all completely FREE.

Transform your story completely: Join the Coming Home Journey at TheComingHomeJourney.com—a six-month guided experience to unravel religious trauma, instill God's truth, and create your new story alongside women who truly understand. 50% Off Founder Pricing ends January 1st—this is your last month to join at half the investment. Prices double next year.

About Debra

Debra Shafer is a spiritual healing coach for Christian women and the creator of the Coming Home Journey—a gentle, soul-level pathway to help women untangle religious trauma, rebuild trust in God, and find peace without walking away from their faith. As the founder of the Healing Religious Trauma Circle, Debra brings together decades of experience in personal ministry, Biblical psychology, and trauma-informed mentoring. She knows what it's like to love God deeply while wrestling with fear, shame, and silence. Known for her voice of gentle clarity, healing, and truth, she now walks women home to the God they always hoped was real.

Listener Love

If The Path Home series has meant something to you, would you share it with a friend who needs this hope? And a quick review on Apple Podcasts helps more women discover that transformation is possible — not just as a moment, but as a way of life.

This isn't surface-level faith advice. It's soul-level restoration for Christian women healing from religious trauma who long for inner peace, spiritual healing, and true connection with God. Through addressing generational trauma and cultivating growth that lasts, we help you trust God completely and finally learn to fly.

Have you ever had a breakthrough that didn't stick? Tried affirmations, prayer, even counseling — and felt better for a while, but then ended up right back where you started? What if the problem isn't you... it's that real transformation happens at a level most approaches never reach?

Episode Description

In Phase Four of The Path Home series, Debra reveals why breakthroughs don't always last — and what actually creates permanent, irreversible transformation. This isn't about trying harder or having more faith. It's about the deeper, more accurate truth meeting the lie at the seed level and dissolving it with love. If you've been stuck in the same patterns no matter what you've tried, this episode will show you why — and what's actually possible when transformation happens at the root.

In this episode, you'll discover:

→ The difference between feeling better and actually being different — and why it matters

→ Why affirmations and "trying harder" don't create lasting change

→ How barriers actually dissolve — gently, not through force

→ The "deeper, more accurate truth" that's been waiting underneath the lies

→ What's actually true about you — according to God's original design, not religious trauma

Healing Truth

You're not broken. You've been brilliantly adaptive. The barriers you carry aren't proof that something is wrong with you — they're proof that you survived something difficult. And the deeper, more accurate truth about who you are? It's been waiting for you all along.

Scripture: Romans 12:2 — "Be transformed by the renewing of your mind."

Ready to go deeper?

Discover your personal healing path: Take our free Religious Trauma Assessment at ReligiousTraumaQuiz.com and uncover which of the 12 hidden barriers might be shaping your relationship with God, yourself, and others. You'll receive a personalized report plus my complete Essentials Starter Kit—including my book He Is Enough, Truth Over Tradition mini-course, live reading circles, and access to our supportive community—all completely FREE.

Transform your story completely: Join the Coming Home Journey at TheComingHomeJourney.com—a six-month guided experience to unravel religious trauma, instill God's truth, and create your new story alongside women who truly understand.

About Debra

Debra Shafer is a spiritual healing coach for Christian women and the creator of the Coming Home Journey—a gentle, soul-level pathway to help women untangle religious trauma, rebuild trust in God, and find peace without walking away from their faith. As the founder of the Healing Religious Trauma Circle, Debra brings together decades of experience in personal ministry, Biblical psychology, and trauma-informed mentoring. She knows what it's like to love God deeply while wrestling with fear, shame, and silence. Known for her voice of gentle clarity, healing, and truth, she now walks women home to the God they always hoped was real.

Listener Love

If this episode helped you understand why nothing has worked before — and what real transformation looks like — would you share it with someone who's been stuck in that same cycle? A quick review on Apple Podcasts helps more women discover that lasting change is possible.

This isn't surface-level faith advice. It's soul-level restoration for Christian women healing from religious trauma who long for inner peace, spiritual healing, and the ability to trust God completely. Through addressing generational trauma and cultivating the deeper truth, we help you experience God's love and transform your identity from the inside out.