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What if forgiveness isn’t about being ready, but about being honest with where you are right now?

In this heartfelt Girls Gone Gritty episode, Farley and Jen tackle one of the hardest human experiences: forgiveness. They break the myth that forgiveness has a deadline and remind listeners that it’s okay to pause relationships, conversations, and even apologies when something feels too close to home. Forgiveness, they explain, is not about forgetting, excusing, or instantly reconciling. It’s about freeing yourself from carrying resentment that drains your energy and shapes your life.

Through personal stories of broken friendships, weddings, family rifts, and reconnections decades later, the hosts show how forgiveness is often a long process. They walk through practical stages like recalling what happened, building empathy, deciding what you want, and letting go when you’re ready. The episode also highlights the importance of clear communication, especially avoiding reactionary texts, and considering the unseen struggles others may carry.

This conversation is a reminder that forgiveness is grit in action. It’s messy, personal, and powerful, and it can open the door to peace, healing, and healthier boundaries, especially during the holidays.

Episode Highlights:
(0:00) Intro
1:23) Holidays, Emotions, And Social Pressure
(6:27) Why Saying “I’m Sorry” Is So Hard
(7:30) What Forgiveness Really Means
(9:10) A Friendship Lost For 25 Years
(12:37) The Five Stages Of Forgiving
(14:31) Pausing Relationships Without Guilt
(19:16) Why Texting Makes Conflict Worse
(21:13) Owning Mistakes Without Defensiveness
(27:09) Understanding Neurodivergence And Behavior
(30:22) Grit In Action And Real-World Courage
(34:04) Mending Fences Starts With One Step
(34:31) Outro

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What if the people smiling hardest at your holiday party are actually barely holding it together? In this episode of Girls Gone Gritty, Farley and Jennifer get real about the hidden mental load of the holidays. They talk about how pressure to “be merry,” money stress, family drama, grief, and even the weather can quietly wear you down, even if you’ve never had a mental health diagnosis.

You’ll hear simple ways to spot when someone you love might be struggling, things like withdrawing from traditions, changing routines, or suddenly becoming “too busy” for everything. The girls also share practical ideas to protect your own mental health: setting boundaries with toxic events, managing expectations, watching alcohol use, finding sunlight and movement, and choosing relationships that actually refill your cup.

They close by spotlighting real mental health resources and a heartwarming story of an influencer who helped an elderly man finally retire, reminding us that small acts of kindness really can change a life.

Episode Highlights:
(0:00) Intro
(2:16) Seasonal weather and mood shifts
(3:24) Top three: Golden Globes, Disney, AI pricing
(5:05) Re-centering the holidays on joy and kindness
(7:07) “It’s okay to not be okay”
(9:02) Expectations, perfectionism, and money stress
(10:48) Grief, empty chairs, and checking on others
(11:54) Seasonal affective disorder and sunlight strategies
(13:15) Family dynamics, boundaries, and substance use
(16:23) Trauma triggers and rewriting old holiday stories
(17:46) Red flags someone may be struggling
(19:21) Managing expectations, self-care, and getting support
(19:57) Mental health resources and crisis hotlines
(23:38) Got Grit story: helping an 87-year-old retire
(25:00) Song of the day and final reminder to reach out
(26:41) Outro

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Ever wondered why our culture swings so hard between cocktails, cannabis, and “California sober” trends? This episode of Girls Gone Gritty unpacks the real conversations people are having, but rarely out loud, about alcohol, THC, CBD, responsibility, and how much of it is tied to stress, identity, and shifting generational norms.

Jen and Farley open up about post-holiday overwhelm, family emotional hangovers, and how alcohol intensifies everything, from anxiety to exhaustion. From there, they break down why drinking culture feels different today, why Gen Z is stepping away from booze, and how cannabis products have exploded into the mainstream. You’ll hear honest takes on safety, moderation, the emotional reasons people “take the edge off,” and the surprising ways THC helped a family member battling cancer.

The hosts don’t shy away from the hard stuff either, like packaging that appeals to kids, hidden potencies, SCROMEDY (yes, that’s real), and why both alcohol and cannabis require serious self-awareness.

They wrap with reminders to stay responsible, stay hydrated, and stay informed because knowing how these substances affect your mood, sleep, energy, and habits can change everything.

Episode Highlights:
(0:00) Intro
(1:50) Post-holiday exhaustion, alcohol anxiety, and emotional hangovers
(3:02) New holiday traditions and consumption awareness
(4:59) This week’s “Top Three” headlines
(7:03) The rise of drinking culture and its impact
(7:56) Gen Z swapping alcohol for cannabis
(9:01) Cannabis stereotypes and early life experiences
(10:14) Legalization, stigma, and shifting norms
(12:10) Why adults use THC vs. alcohol
(13:49) How low-dose THC beverages affect mood
(15:10) Driving, safety, and the Uber reminder
(16:01) CBD vs THC explained simply
(17:17) Personal experiences with medical cannabis
(18:39) Alcohol highs vs. THC highs
(19:53) Potency, edibles, seltzers, and hidden risks
(21:00) Keeping THC away from kids and teens
(22:02) Trend shifts post-COVID
(23:33) Economics, health, and generational shifts
(24:47) Alcoholism, addiction, and SCROMEDY
(26:07) Pros and cons of THC, CBD, and alcohol
(33:00) Big alcohol vs. cannabis industry changes
(34:04) Moderation, health benefits, and medical approvals
(35:27) Gratitude for listeners + Got Grit award
(37:35) Song of the week + hydration reminder
(38:20) Outro

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It’s amazing how fast the holidays shift from gratitude to chaos, and this episode captures that wild balance perfectly. Jen and Farley sit down for a warm, witty, and honest Thanksgiving conversation that blends humor, heartfelt tradition, shocking headlines, and real talk about how we shop and celebrate today.

They open with the rise of Cyber Everything, from $10.8B spent online last year to how Black Friday has quietly turned into a week-long digital hunt. The ladies unpack why deals are harder to find, how AI is shaping our shopping habits, and why promo codes have become the new “thrill of the chase.”

The episode moves into meaningful territory with the “empty chair” tradition, honoring loved ones who aren’t with us and reminding listeners to slow down and savor who is at the table. From Thanksgiving routines and Blackout Wednesday reflections to family movies, holiday overwhelm, and music that becomes the soundtrack of our lives, this conversation feels cozy, relatable, and real.

Whether you’re shopping, cooking, traveling, or resting, this episode brings humor, heart, and gratitude to your Thanksgiving week.

Episode Highlights:
(0:00) Intro
(1:02) Thanksgiving kickoff, gratitude, and growing community
(1:53) Top 3 headlines of the week
(3:53) Starbucks labor issues and “Red Cup Rebellion”
(4:59) Why AI can’t replace human heart
(7:16) How online deals and algorithms changed shopping
(12:13) Promo codes, sold-out items, and shopping frustrations
(13:02) Where people are finding the best deals today
(13:32) Kids’ Christmas lists and Giftful
(15:08) Why malls disappearing changed holiday shopping
(17:03) Blackout Wednesday and healthy boundaries
(18:05) Thanksgiving morning traditions
(19:18) Overscheduled holiday week
(19:39) Family movie recommendations
(22:35) The Empty Chair movement and honoring loved ones
(25:07) Music, memories, and why certain songs stay with us
(27:10) Closing reminders on gratitude, joy, and respect
(27:24) Outro

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Ever notice how the best holiday moments aren’t the loud ones, but the quiet ones where everyone slows down and actually talks? In this episode of Girls Gone Gritty, Farley and Jennifer bring humor, heart, and real-life grit to the true meaning of connection during the holidays. From navigating travel chaos and digital overload to creating meaningful conversations at your Thanksgiving table, this episode is packed with stories and reminders that ground you back into what matters most.

The hosts share the importance of asking deeper questions, slowing down long enough to listen, and using family gatherings as a rare chance to collect stories, memories, and details you’ll wish you had later in life. They also explore fun conversation starters for all ages, how to avoid anxiety-triggering topics, and why pausing before responding can deepen your relationships instantly.

You’ll also hear a powerful Got Grit story about a boy who built clean water wells worldwide, plus a wild look at AI-generated music topping the charts.

This episode is your invitation to bring gratitude, curiosity, and true connection into every seat at your table this season.

Episode Highlights:
(0:00) Intro
(1:04) Travel stories, gratitude, and coming home
(2:22) Holiday driving, patience, and manners
(3:13) The Top Three: social media bans, pennies disappearing, digital IDs
(6:29) How to handle holiday conversations with grace
(7:55) The importance of asking family for stories while you still can
(9:55) Avoiding anxiety-triggering topics at the table
(10:16) Fun conversation starters for all ages
(12:01) How to deepen connection with better questions
(14:20) Joy, gratitude, and meaningful reflection
(15:18) Using car time as intentional connection time
(16:07) Slowing down and savoring long meals together
(17:23) Got Grit Award: Ryan’s Well Foundation
(20:27) AI-generated music and what it means for the future
(22:16) Final message: create real conversation and connection this season
(22:52) Outro

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Ever had a week that shook you, grounded you, and reminded you what actually matters? This episode of Girls Gone Gritty brings a powerful blend of gratitude, real-life reflection, and practical travel wisdom that every listener can use. Farley and Jen open their hearts about honoring veterans, losing parents, and learning to appreciate the people who have shaped our lives. Their reminder is simple but profound: ask your loved ones questions while you still can and capture the stories that make your family who they are.

From there, they shift into humor and headlines with their weekly Top 3, from the accidental fame of “Fedora Man” to the truth about Social Security, and the big news for women’s health as the hormone replacement therapy warning finally expires. The second half of the episode gives you a traveler’s survival guide for dealing with shutdowns, TSA chaos, Clear, Global Entry, Real IDs, flight strategy, and the real people working behind the scenes to keep America moving.

The episode ends with a heartfelt tribute to Navy SEAL Chris Kyle and a soul-lifting song recommendation for anyone feeling overwhelmed. It’s gritty, real, and full of heart.

Episode Highlights:
(0:00) Intro
(1:01) Losing parents and honoring family stories
(3:47) The Top 3 headlines of the week
(4:10) The rise of “Fedora Man”
(5:46) Social Security timing and retirement insight
(7:02) HRT myths and updated medical guidance
(8:05) Travel delays, shutdown impact, and mindset
(14:13) TSA PreCheck, Global Entry, and KTN tips
(19:16) Clear, fast lanes, and travel strategy
(22:07) Real ID rules and passport card tips
(23:47) Best times to fly and rebooking secrets
(27:05) Why shutdowns hit regular people hardest
(28:02) Got Grit Award: Navy SEAL Chris Kyle
(30:01) Song inspiration for hard weeks
(31:28) Outro

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What happens when gratitude meets grit? In this warm, witty, and real episode of Girls Gone Gritty, Farley and Jennifer kick off the season of giving with laughter, love, and purpose. From hilarious mustache debates and holiday décor fails to powerful stories of generosity, this episode celebrates what it truly means to “pay it forward.”

They highlight two inspiring movements: Dermer’s Dreams, a grassroots food donation initiative started with a single yellow bag that’s now feeding thousands, and Movember, the global mustache movement raising awareness for men’s health and mental wellness. They also honor Jon Bon Jovi’s Soul Kitchen, a community restaurant serving dignity with every meal.

Listeners walk away reminded that gratitude isn’t just a feeling, it’s an action. Whether it’s giving your time, sharing a meal, or simply smiling at a stranger, small acts can make big change.

Episode Highlights:
(0:00) Intro
(1:21) Pay it forward and welcoming family home
(2:23) Holiday décor, nostalgia, and mom life moments
(5:00) Top three stories of the week
(9:03) Hope in Alzheimer’s research and brain health
(11:10) November awareness causes and how to give back
(13:35) Dermer’s Dreams and ending food insecurity
(17:04) Movember: Men’s health and mental wellness
(23:22) Got Grit spotlight: Jon Bon Jovi’s Soul Kitchen
(25:19) DoorDash SNAP initiatives and helping others
(26:40) Song of the week & gratitude challenge
(26:50) Outro

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Ever fallen for a scam that seemed too real to be fake? In this gripping episode of Girls Gone Gritty, hosts Farley and Jennifer pull back the curtain on the world of modern-day fraud, from phishing texts to cloned Chase Bank calls, and share their own near-misses and lessons learned. With humor and honesty, they reveal how scammers prey on emotion, urgency, and trust, and how even the most skeptical among us can get caught off guard.

Listeners will learn how to recognize red flags in texts and calls, the truth behind “pig butchering” scams, and how digital wallets and fake authentication codes make fraud easier than ever. They also share heartwarming and gritty moments, from helping aging parents to celebrating resilience and creativity through their “Got Grit” award.

This episode isn’t just about fear, it’s about empowerment. Learn to protect your money, your identity, and your peace of mind.

Episode Highlights:
(0:00) Intro
(3:02) Polka-dot zebra and the beauty of different
(5:00) The Nonna movie and real-life Italian grandmas
(6:23) NBA betting scandal and greed in sports
(10:14) E-ZPass and digital wallet scams
(17:12) How much scammers steal every year
(27:10) Fake police calls targeting parents
(31:09) Scam-proof habits and emotional awareness
(33:00) Got Grit Award: The Fairy Godfather of Halloween
(35:08) Song of the week: “Shape of My Heart” by Sting
(36:48) Outro

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