What happens when the way we chase success starts to pull us away from ourselves? In this episode of the Get Styled podcast, Elsa sits down with dear friend and client, Amina AlTai to talk about just that! Together, they discuss the health scare that led Amina to rethink how she approaches goals, the idea of “letting someone down” that is so pervasive in society (especially as immigrants), and Amina shares how working with Elsa supports her stepping into the boldest version of herself (so far).
Whether you’ve been feeling the pull to redefine success or you’re ready to step into a style that matches who you are becoming, this episode may just be the encouragement you need!
Amina AITai (pronounced AH-MIN-UH) is an executive coach and leadership trainer, a proud immigrant, and a chronic illness advocate. A leading coach to notable leaders, executives, and founders—Amina's mastery is in connecting us to our brilliance and teaching us to live and lead from it each day. She is the bestselling author of The Ambition Trap: How to Stop Chasing and Start Living, with Penguin/The Open Field.
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SHOW NOTES
0:37 - Elsa introduces what we will be talking about today!
1:38 - Elsa welcomes Amina to the podcast
2:14 - Amina shares what her book “The Ambition Trap” is about, and what inspired her to write it
5:58 - Amina details “painful” vs “purposeful” ambition, and what it took for her to come out of the painful ambition fog
10:15 - Elsa and Amina discuss made up timelines and the “should” messaging around them
13:32 - Amina shares how publishing her book was like a birthing process x2 (and takes us through the five core wounds that drive painful ambition)
16:45 - Amina explains how she lovingly works through challenges and mental blocks while meeting deadlines to make big things happen
20:06 - Amina explains how she differentiates the thought of letting herself and others down as coming from the ambition trap vs. a human-centered place (through the lens of an immigrant)
22:24 - Amina describes her styling process with Elsa as she was stepping into such a visible season of her career
30:13 - Elsa reveals how she knew that Amina was ready to step into the limelight
33:59 - Amina walks through the work she had to do to transform from someone working in the background, to a spokesperson
40:07 - Elsa brings the episode to a close