What if everything you thought you knew about bottoming… was wrong?

In this raw and eye-opening episode of Coming Inside OUT, we sit down with renowned surgeon Dr. Evan Goldstein to break down the truth about anal health, pleasure, and the realities gay men were never taught—especially those coming out later in life.

From navigating shame and internalized stigma… to understanding your body, avoiding pain, and actually enjoying sex—this conversation goes where most never do.

Whether you're new to bottoming, struggled with discomfort, or just want to feel more confident in your body, this episode delivers real answers without judgment.

💥 In This Episode: • The 3 types of assholes (and why it matters for sex) • Why “just relax” is terrible advice • How to avoid pain, tears, and common mistakes • The mental block most men don’t realize they have • Douching myths (and what actually works) • Why so many men feel like they’re “doing it wrong” • How to build confidence—at any age This is the conversation many of us wish we had years ago.

Coming Inside OUT is a safe space where listeners can find solidarity, inspiration, and the courage to embrace their true selves. Whether you're a gay father, a parent, someone exploring your identity, or an ally seeking to better understand the LGBTQ+ experience, this podcast is for you. Tune in for heartfelt conversations, meaningful insight, and the sense of belonging we all crave.

Join your hosts, Brian and Mark, as they candidly share their own journeys out of the closet while navigating the joys and challenges of parenthood as openly gay fathers. In each episode, they connect with fellow gay dads—sharing real stories of resilience, growth, victories, and struggle. Together, they explore the complexities of sexuality across every stage of life—from teens to husbands to fathers—while building a supportive community for those still in the closet and reminding them they are not alone. Join us on this journey of love, acceptance, and authenticity.

📩 Contact: cominginsideout@gmail.com

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