Grit, Growth and Goats

Bobby Scales II is one of those people you just can’t help but learn from. Former Major Leaguer, senior leader with the Los Angeles Angels and Pittsburgh Pirates, and now a broadcaster with the Detroit Tigers. But more importantly, someone who thinks deeply about people, development and what truly helps athletes thrive.

In this episode, we get into the human stuff. The stuff coaches don’t always talk about but absolutely need to hear.

Three big themes stand out:

1. The player resides within the human.

Bobby unpacks why coaches can’t separate performance from the person. If you want access to the athlete, you have to earn trust first.

2. Why part of Plan A should be Plan B.

We explore identity, transition and the dangers of narrowing a young athlete’s world too early.

3. Meeting every person where they are.

Bobby shares how he learned to coach beyond his own wiring, why players respond differently to the same message, and what it takes to see individuals clearly rather than forcing everyone through one lens.

And yes, we also talk about “putting it where the goats can get it.”

If you love sport, you’ll love Bobby. I always walk away from our conversations with something new and meaningful to think about.

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Today’s episode offers something unique. Not a typical interview, but a rare window into the thinking of John Hendry OAM, one of the most experienced educators and coaching minds in Australia.

John has spent more than five decades working with young people, coaches, teachers and schools, and has shaped how organisations think about relationships, wellbeing and performance.

In this conversation, John shares his philosophy with real generosity. He shows why skills, tactics and performance only emerge when young athletes feel safe, trusted, hopeful and understood - and why relationships aren’t just part of coaching, they are coaching.

In the conversation we explore:

1. Relationships Come First, Always: Coaching doesn’t begin with strategy or feedback. It begins with trust, safety and genuine care. Without this foundation, young people can’t take risks, learn or grow. When athletes feel valued as people, they become better players.

2. Mistakes Should Be Forgiven: The way coaches respond to errors shapes confidence, creativity and resilience. Punishment shuts down learning; forgiveness opens it up. When coaches “give for” the athlete, they create a culture where mistakes become opportunities, not threats.

3. Never Take Hope Away: Hope fuels engagement, effort and the ability to bounce back. A coach’s belief can restore hope after setbacks or destroy it. Protecting hope helps young people think clearly, regulate emotions, learn faster and make better decisions under pressure.

This episode is for anyone who works with young people and wants to help them thrive; not just in sport, but in life. Whether you’re a youth or community coach, a teacher or educator, or a parent supporting a young athlete, John’s philosophy offers practical wisdom on how to build trust, resilience and genuine growth.

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In this episode of the Game Plan Coaching Podcast, I am joined by Paul Bodin. Former Wales international, Swindon Town icon, and respected coach who made more than 450 senior appearances in his professional career spent more than a decade developing young talent for the Welsh national teams.

From scoring one of Wembley’s most high-pressure penalties to guiding future stars into international football, Paul brings a unique perspective on playing, coaching and developing people.

In the conversation we explore:

1. Simplicity Beats Complexity Paul shares how football is often overcomplicated and why even elite players learn best through simple, purposeful practices.

2. Coaching Environments that Help Players Thrive With Wales youth teams, Paul prioritised enjoyable, simple and motivating sessions, where players explore, express themselves and learn through doing.

3. Parents, Roles and Real Support Reflecting on raising a professional footballer, Paul shares why fairness, encouragement, and understanding your role are crucial for helping young players progress.

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In this episode of the Game Plan Coaching podcast, our guest is Professor Joe Baker, Tannenbaum Research Chair in Sport Science, Data Modelling and Sport Analytics at the University of Toronto and author of The Tyranny of Talent.

Together we explore why talent is much more complex than most systems assume, how early selection and deselection can shape the arc of a young person’s life, and what coaches can do to create environments that keep athletes engaged and developing over the long term.

In this episode, we explore:

• Cringey clichés and myths in talent ID - Why phrases like “natural talent” and “10,000 hours” can be unhelpful.
• Can we really identify talent early? - Joe’s take on why early prediction is so unreliable, and why the “messy middle” of a squad is where the hardest.
• Challenge, safety and ethics - How to balance high challenge with high support, why “feeling unsafe” is not the same as “being unsafe”.
• Long-term commitment and the training environment - Joe’s simple framework: long-term success needs extended commitment from the athlete and a high-quality learning environment.
• Selection, deselection and “not yet” - How language like “not yet” can soften the landing, keep doors open, and better reflect the error built into selection decisions.
• Parents as part of the ecosystem - Reframing parents from “problem” or “taxi and bank” to a crucial part of the developmental ecosystem, with a clear role around safety, security and support.

And so much more!

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This episode of the Game Plan Coaching Podcast features someone who’s lived the full racing dream: Mark Blundell. From a council estate and motocross, to Formula One, IndyCar, World Rally and a Le Mans 24 Hours victory, Mark’s story is anything but ordinary.

After nearly 20 years at the top of global motorsport, a BAFTA-winning stint as an F1 pundit, and now CEO of MBP, he brings a rare inside view of what real performance looks like, and what it costs.

Mark takes us into life at 200+ mph - from the iconic Corkscrew at Laguna Seca to threading an IndyCar around an oval at 253 miles an hour - and why the ultimate difference-maker isn’t horsepower, it’s processing power. He shares lessons learned alongside teammates like Martin Brundle and Ayrton Senna and explains why the most important tuning tool for any athlete sits right between their ears.

We talk about motorsport as a team sport disguised as an individual one, with his Le Mans win as the perfect example of elite preparation, clear roles and total accountability. And from 20+ years managing top drivers, Mark is honest about what keeps people at the sharp end: integrity, transparency, respect, humility and trust, plus the confidence to say “no” when the fit isn’t right.

Whether you coach racing drivers, footballers or any athlete trying to reach their best, this conversation is full of gold: handling pressure, placing risk wisely, embracing mistakes, and holding onto self-belief when the road gets bumpy.

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This week, we’re joined by Dan Lycett, Head of PE & Sport at St David’s College in Llandudno. A coach who describes his current practice in three words: energised, confused, focused. Energised by the challenge of doing things differently, confused by the expectations that still cling to youth sport, and focused on making movement joyful and meaningful for every child.

Dan has built a coaching environment grounded in curiosity and intentionality, always asking why behaviours show up and how to best meet the needs of the young people in front of him. We explore his work with neurodivergent athletes and why strategies designed for inclusion often end up helping everyone play, learn and belong.

He introduces practical tools like the right to disengage, pauses and replays. Simple ideas that give children agency, confidence and a sense of safety within the session. We dig into the myth of “coachability,” the bravery of coaching as your authentic self, and why winning is a pretty unhelpful metric if it’s the only one that matters.

We delve in to why long-term development beats short-term results every single time, and much more.

Connect with us: • Tom on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tomhartleycoaching/

• Dan on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/daniel-lycett-647773179/

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In this episode, I’m joined by Nicky Harverson a brilliant child-first coach who helps young riders build confidence, connection and joy through cycling.

At Cheltenham Town Wheelers, play, curiosity and voice are at the centre of every session.

We talk about what it really means to coach the child, not the drill. How stepping back can help young people step forward. And how Nicky’s SOUL approach - Silently Observing, Understanding and Learning - can help coaches stay present to the person in front of them.

Whether you coach in a club, a school or a park on a Saturday morning, there’s something here you can use straight away.

You’ll Take Away:

• How to step back so children can take ownership of learning
• How to use voice, choice and small wins to build confidence
• How SOUL can help you see more and say less

Connect with us: • Tom on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tomhartleycoaching/

• Nicky on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/nickyharverson/

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In this episode of the Game Plan Coaching Podcast, I’m joined by Liam Gilbert, a coach who’s spent over a decade developing high-performing teams in the women’s game.

Liam’s coached at every level - from grassroots to the Women’s Championship - with roles at Eastleigh, Oxford United, Reading, and Burnley as well as leading football at Oxford High School.

Across every environment, he’s built a reputation for creating strong team cultures, shared identity, and clear, purposeful coaching.

In this conversation, we explore:

• What Liam learned from coaching and managing in senior women’s football.
• The power of process, structure, and adaptability in practice design.
• Why accountability and humility drive stronger teams.
• And how to create a golden thread that runs through your sessions - connecting every activity with a shared purpose.

👉 Connect with us:

• Tom Hartley on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tomhartleycoaching/
• Liam Gilbert on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/liam-gilbert-8975486a/

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