What happens when a woman who has spent years “fixing” her kids suddenly realizes that the real change has to start with her own relationship to herself, her past, and her visibility in the world? In this episode of Women Getting Visible, host Christina Vidovich sits down with Mary Wilcox Smith, parenting coach, speaker, author of The Micro Step Method, and founder of a simple, neuroscience‑backed approach to raising resilient kids, to talk about how parenting, perfectionism, anxiety, and trauma show up in real‑time family life—and how they secretly shape a woman’s visibility in business and leadership.

Mary shares how she started life wanting to study psychology, then veered into a colorful decade of running a ski‑holiday company in Switzerland, living in France and Argentina, raising four daughters close in age, and navigating a child’s significant medical challenges while also carrying her own family history of depression and loss. As she tells it, early “win at all costs” parenting habits eventually crashed into tween and teen years, when she started to see her own anxiety, perfectionism, and depression mirrored in her daughters—and that became her wake‑up call to become a parent coach and create the Micro Step Method: tiny, doable shifts in language and response that, over time, rewire a child’s resilience and a parent’s sense of agency.

This episode is for you if you’re a woman founder, leader, or entrepreneur who secretly wonders how much of your people‑pleasing, perfectionism, or “push harder” pattern came from your own upbringing, if you’re rebuilding your business after parenting years and want to step into visibility without burning out, or if you’re a parent who feels stuck between “fixing” your kids and healing your own invisible wounds.

Memorable moments

– ✨ The moment Mary realized she was transmitting her own anxiety and perfectionism to her daughters, and decided to stop “fixing” them and start changing her own responses instead.

– ✨ The “accepting is not agreeing” micro‑step she gave a parent: learning to validate her daughter’s frustration (“mornings are no fun”) without agreeing with the behavior, which shifted the whole dynamic in four weeks.

– ✨ Mary describing her childhood as “big white house on the hill, horses, golden retrievers” and suddenly revealing the hidden layer of suicide, depression, and family trauma behind that picture‑perfect front.

– ✨ How she links neuroscience to parenting moments, explaining how a parent’s calm, regulated response wires a child’s brain for resilience and better mental health over time.

– ✨ The “learn one, do one, teach one” idea she embraces, showing how her coaching, keynote work, and book together create a feedback loop that deepens her own healing while helping other parents.

🔗 Connect & learn more

Website: https://www.womengettingvisible.com
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/womengettingvisible

LinkedIn Christina: https://www.linkedin.com/in/christinavidovich/

LinkedIn Guest: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mary-willcox-smith/Guest links: Mary Smith parent coach.com / Mary Wilcox Smith.com; book The Micro Step Method for the Overwhelmed Parent on Amazon

✨ Real stories. Real journeys. Real visibility.
Episode Number – Christina Vidovich & Mary
Women Getting Visible 2026©

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