From People Pleasing to Setting Boundaries, Bad Dates with Good Men, and Going For What You Want
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In this episode of Last Date, I sit down with Dana, a self-described recovering people pleaser who went from losing herself completely in relationships to building a life so full that it's hard to find a partner who is a value add.
We get into how she went from boy crazy to briefly hating men — and why this mentality was holding her back, what she learned when she stopped morphing herself into whoever she thought a guy wanted her to be, and the moment she pushed a guy away mid-kiss and told him exactly why.
We discuss:
- Going on good dates with bad men vs bad dates with good men
- How a fancy resort trip fooled her into thinking there was real chemistry
- "I wasn't attracting the same type of man — I was accepting the same type of behavior"
- Setting boundaries to explain how she wants to be treated
- The thing many men are getting wrong on the first date.
Dana also shares the line that stuck with me: "I used to fear abandonment from men. Now I fear abandonment from myself."
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