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Numbers aren’t just reports, they’re direction. Ari (virtual CFO, mom of two, mindset-and-metrics pro) shows you how to drop the money shame, raise your floor, and use cash and margins to steer—whether you manage a P&L or your own company.

We get specific about

• Shame → clarity: plan forward instead of living in last month’s report
• Raise your floor: the trigger that makes you act before cash gets tight
• Healthy scaling: why margins dip during growth (and how to know it’s working)
• Cash first: the weekly metric to watch (days cash on hand)
• Belief audit: breaking “I must produce to be worthy” so you can lead calmly

Quick action steps

• Set a new “emergency switch” balance so you move sooner, not in crisis
• Define success before you invest (ads, hires, projects) so you know when to stop
• Start building a cash cushion (begin where you are; compound weekly)

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Most high-performers are stuck in one of four modes without realizing it: to me, for me, through me, or as me. In this candid conversation, emotional self-mastery coach Alton Chislom and Patrick break down how to spot your default mode, set real boundaries (without building walls), and retrain your nervous system so you stop reacting and start leading.

You’ll learn:

• The four levels of perception and how they show up in business, parenting, and your body
• A simple boundary script that protects your energy (and your relationships)
• Fast nervous-system resets (breath + grounding) you can do anywhere
• How to reverse-engineer a 20-year vision into calm, doable daily actions

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If you’re doing “all the right things” (training, food, mobility, meditation) but still hitting a ceiling, this episode is your unlock. Patrick sits down with mentor and EMG pioneer David Lemke to expose what actually breaks performance and how to fix it fast.

We dig into what real-time surface EMG reveals about the body: why humans fail in predictable patterns, how fatigue shows up first (before pain), and why training in a flattened, symmetrical world keeps you stuck. You’ll learn why the extension chain (hamstrings → glutes → paraspinals + TVA) is the missing capacity engine for high performers and exactly how to wake it up.

In this episode you’ll learn:

• Why isolation training and mirror muscles cap your results
• The hamstring-first firing truth (and what it means for your core)
• How to correct the core twist and stop compensations
• The adductors/abductors mistake draining your glutes (and power)
• Simple upgrades: uneven surfaces, knees-out band work, laughter to activate TVA (yes, really)

If willpower worked, you’d be done by now. Upgrade the operating system.

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Guest: David Lemke founder, educator, and surface EMG specialist behind “Redefining the Core.”

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Celebrity trainer and biohacking Swiss-army-knife Josh Holland joins me to demystify the two lowest-effort, highest-return upgrades most high performers skip: true hydration and grounding then stacks on electrical muscle stimulation (EMS) to wake up stubborn muscle groups and fast-track strength. Expect simple protocols you can run today (no guru gear required) and the mindset shifts that keep them sticky.

In this episode you’ll learn:

• Hydration ≠ more water: Why your body needs minerals (electrolytes) to conduct, recover, and focus and a starter mix you can make at home.
• Grounding 101 (without the woo): What it does for inflammation, blood viscosity, and nervous system load and when to avoid overdoing it on BP meds.
• Are you actually grounded? Three ways to test: continuity tester (yes/no), a voltmeter (watch your body voltage drop), and a resistance meter for finer reads.
• Feet, fascia, and flow: Why intrinsic foot strength changes your whole-body “signal” during grounding and movement.
• EMS, explained: DC vs. AC current, waking up fast-twitch fibers, and pairing suits with smart movement so results translate off the mat.
• Belief > burnout: How pros sabotage by over-giving and the alignment fix that stops the “do more to prove more” spiral.

Tools & mentions: Baja Gold Ocean Minerals; baking soda + minerals + sparkling (CO₂) to form magnesium bicarbonate; grounding mats/sheets; continuity tester, voltmeter, “sure-ground” style meter; Vivobarefoot; EMS training suits.

About Josh:
Celebrity fitness & health optimization coach; host of Simply Walk the Talk; author of The Awareness Shift: Unearth the Five Pillars of Optimal Health & Wellness (quality awareness, rest, consumption, movement, environment). IG/X/YouTube: @JoshuaJHolland | Site: joshuajholland.com.

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Health note: If you’re on blood pressure medication, introduce grounding gradually and monitor how you feel. Too much baking soda = “disaster pants” (start small, titrate).

Timestamps (quick scan):
00:00 Meet Josh & why “jack of all trades” is a superpower
06:30 Hydration that conducts (minerals > plain water)
15:50 Grounding benefits & the inflammation/blood-flow link
22:10 How to test grounding (continuity, voltmeter, resistance)
33:40 Feet + fascia: unlocking better signal and movement
38:20 EMS suits: DC vs AC, fast-twitch activation, real-world carryover
52:00 Belief, alignment, and avoiding the over-giving trap
58:30 Josh’s book & where to find him

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On paper, you’re winning; off-camera, you’re stalled. In this candid convo, Anya Smith (ex-Meta; host of Right Off Track) shares how a layoff became her launchpad, moving from stress symptoms and self-doubt to a clear voice, a simple plan, and momentum that fits parent life.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• How to flip “Who am I to do this?” → Why not me?
• A 20-minute starter plan to ship without overthinking
• Nervous-system guardrails so your results actually stick
• Guest-experience flywheel: turn great interviews into growth
• What to change first when stress is costing you

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Are you the Swan, calm on the surface, chaos underneath? You hit goals, then your energy, focus, or intimacy crashes. So you double down on strategy or run to healing, but rarely both. This episode is your Crossroad: how to blend coaching (forward execution) with therapy-style integration so results actually stick.

In this episode:

• Spot the loop: win → crash → grind → repeat
• Push vs. Pause framework (3 signs you should pause)
• The E-Brake Test: jaw/chest/gut tells + a 90-second reset
• Map the emotion under the behavior (not just the task list)
• Align goals to nervous system capacity, then execute with ease

Try this now:

• Am I pushing because it’s time, or because I’m avoiding a feeling?
• Where is my e-brake on (jaw, chest, gut)?
• What one feeling needs processing before I move?

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• ✅ Upgrade your language so you can change what you feel
• ✅ Release hidden scripts (“success = sacrifice”)
• ✅ Do more with less energy

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Hitting a ceiling even though you “know what to do”? Investor and advisor David Corsini joins Patrick to show why strategy stalls without awareness and how to use a simple values elicitation to unlock momentum in business, health, and home. We get real about compartmentalizing emotions, why ultra-logical leaders resist looking inward, and a wild truth: the belief “there isn’t enough time” can make you either frantic or frozen. You’ll leave with a clean, repeatable path: Awareness → Integration → Implementation plus a body-based “e-brake” check so your plan actually sticks.

In this episode:

• How to map your values stack (12–15 words) for any domain: business, health, finance
• Why compartmentalizing helps in the room but hurts after unless you process it
• Awareness first: the fastest way to see what’s really driving your decisions
• A live example: “no urgency” traced to the belief “there isn’t enough time”
• The E-Brake Test: use the body (not just the brain) to confirm your plan
• Turning desire into action: integrate what’s missing, then implement with ease

💥 Want a simple tool to start today? Grab the FREE High-Performer’s Cheat Sheet and learn how to:

• ✅ Spot Your Blind Spots Fast – Catch stress tells before they tank execution.
• ✅ Flip Stress Into Clarity – Downshift your nervous system in minutes.
• ✅ Upgrade Your Language – Name what you feel so you can change it.
• ✅ Release Hidden Scripts – Replace “success = sacrifice” with beliefs that scale work and home.
• ✅ Do More With Less Energy – Create momentum without white-knuckling.

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This one’s for the men who shoulder it all and still feel alone. ER-nurse-turned-coach Tah Whitty joins Patrick to talk about why so many high performers feel unsafe in their own bodies, and how safety isn’t given by others; it’s built from within and amplified by the environment. We get real about the difference between instinct (programming) and intuition (knowing), how “science as religion” can disconnect us from our inner signals, and why preparation + integration often matter more than any single breakthrough moment. If you’ve been overthinking and under feeling, this convo is your pattern interrupt.

In this episode:

• Safety is a practice, not a promise: how to create it for yourself and with your crew
• Loneliness, shame, and why so many men get stuck in silent struggle
• Instinct vs. Intuition and how to start trusting the right voice
• When data helps and when it blocks the body’s truth
• The Condor Approach: prep + integration for any transformational work
• Simple cues to know you’re safe enough to open up (and when you’re not)

💥 Want a simple tool to start today? Grab the FREE High-Performer’s Cheat Sheet and learn how to:

• ✅ Spot Your Blind Spots Fast – Catch stress signals before they turn into shutdown.
• ✅ Flip Stress Into Clarity – Downshift your nervous system in minutes.
• ✅ Upgrade Your Language – Name what you feel so you can change it.
• ✅ Release Hidden Scripts – Replace “success = silence/sacrifice” with beliefs that let you win at work and at home.
• ✅ Do More With Less Energy – Create momentum without white-knuckling.

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