What actually makes a wedding feel good — not just look good. Renee from Tobi Tobi joins me to talk about live ceremony music, why the aisle moment should be slow and intentional, and how choosing the right song can set the emotional temperature of a whole celebration.

In this episode of For Those Of You Who Don't Know Me, I chat with photographer Joshua Mikhaiel about how the wedding world is changing and what that means for couples and vendors alike.

We dive into the so-called “wedding tax,” whether AI has a real role in planning, and why personal touch always matters more than any tool. We talk about wedding photography as more than just pretty pictures—it’s about capturing real, human moments—and we look at how traditions can be both grounding and restrictive.

A big part of our chat is about communication: how couples often struggle to say what they want, and how vendors can listen and guide without pushing their own agenda. At the end of the day, I believe weddings aren’t about appearances—they’re about connection, authenticity, and creating memories that actually last.

• Here's a link to the Hollywood Reporter piece about Oasis.
• Joshua Mikhaeil's website

Sarah-Louise Anderson reveals how her $60,000 micro-wedding sparked family feuds, severed friendships, and taught her which relationships were worth keeping—all over ginger beer and missing guests.