After three miscarriages, my husband and I weren't looking for permission to just "try again" — we were looking for answers. In this episode, I'm sharing the one truth about pregnancy after loss that my doctor never mentioned: learning how to chart your cycle through a fertility awareness method.

Episode Highlights:

• Why simply tracking period days on an app isn't the same as truly charting your cycle
• How charting helped us confidently avoid pregnancy for six months without hormonal birth control
• How your cycle chart becomes a tool for prayer and decision-making with your husband
• The garden bed and gardener picture of partnering with God in your fertility journey
• The three pillars inside Fertility Framework: cycle charting, natural hormone support, and Bible study
• Our "triple rainbow baby" story — what waiting and healing made possible

Resources & Links:

✨ Tell me what my hormones are saying: bekahyawn.com/booklet

✨Join Fertility Framework: If you're ready for deeper support, personalized cycle guidance, and faith-filled encouragement, come join me inside Fertility Framework! This is a space where you AND your husband can learn about the science of your cycle while keeping God in the center of your fertility journey and growing towards Him together. Read the testimonies & enroll here: bekahyawn.com/course

✨If you would like personal support on your journey but are not sure how to get started, book a free 10-minute consult with me here: bekahyawn.com/consult

We're almost 200 episodes in, and this July we're finally giving our husbands some airtime. Today's episode I am talking straight to your husband, giving him three practical, biblical ways he can help you feel truly loved in the trying-to-conceive season. Share this one with your husband.

Episode Highlights

• Why Ephesians 5:25 reframes what sacrificial love looks like in your fertility journey
• Tip #1: Why undivided attention — eye contact, turned shoulders, held hands — means more to her than anything he could say
• What real pursuit looked like when they were dating, and how to reinvent it now
• Why intimacy can start to feel like a checkbox during your season of trying to conceive — and how to make it an outpouring of love again
• Tip #3: Why husbands should learn fertility awareness alongside their wives
• The surprising truth about DNA, lifestyle, and your future child's genetic code
• A prayer over your marriage in this season

Resources & Links:

✨ Tell me what my hormones are saying: bekahyawn.com/quiz

✨Join Fertility Framework: If you're ready for deeper support, personalized cycle guidance, and faith-filled encouragement, come join me inside Fertility Framework! This is a space where you AND your husband can learn about the science of your cycle while keeping God in the center of your fertility journey and growing towards Him together. Read the testimonies & enroll here: bekahyawn.com/course

✨If you would like personal support on your journey but are not sure how to get started, book a free 10-minute consult with me here: bekahyawn.com/consult

In this episode, the conversation continues with Nick and Haley of Thriving Kingdom Marriage. And the subject? Something we don’t discuss nearly enough on the fertility journey: your marriage.

Trying to conceive doesn't just test your body. It tests your communication, your patience, and it has a sneaky way of resurrecting wounds from your past you didn't even know were still there. Nick and Haley get vulnerable about their own story and they walk us through the practical, faith-filled tools they use in their own home and in their coaching practice.

• Why your past wounds, not your spouse, are often the real source of your triggers
• Core communication differences between men and women, and why they matter.
• The power of “prefacing” before a hard conversation
• The oil-and-vinegar picture for taking your emotions to God before you take them to your spouse
• How a simple weekly marriage rhythm can change your marriage

Resources & Links:

✨Nick and Haley’s Podcast - Thriving Kingdom Marriage Podcast

✨Nick and Haley’s Website - Thriving Kingdom Marriage

✨Join Fertility Framework: If you're ready for deeper support, personalized cycle guidance, and faith-filled encouragement, come join me inside Fertility Framework! This is a space where you AND your husband can learn about the science of your cycle while keeping God in the center of your fertility journey and growing towards Him together. Read the testimonies & enroll here: bekahyawn.com/course

✨If you would like personal support on your journey but are not sure how to get started, book a free 10-minute consult with me here: bekahyawn.com/consult

This week I'm handing the mic to someone who's been walking this journey right alongside me: my husband, Adam. After losing our daughter Hannah at 12 weeks, I've told my side of our story more times than I can count. But today, Adam shares his. If you're a wife wondering how to help your husband process, or a husband wondering how to show up for his grieving wife, this conversation is for you.

Episode highlights

• Adam and Bekah's story of losing their daughter Hannah at 12 weeks
• Why husbands often process grief on a slower timeline than their wives, and why that isn't a lack of love
• What it looked like for Adam to set his emotions aside to support Bekah, then process them later on his own
• Practical ways husbands can show up physically, emotionally, and spiritually
• Adam's encouragement for dads to find another dad who has walked this road
  

Resources & Links:

✨Join Fertility Framework: If you're ready for deeper support, personalized cycle guidance, and faith-filled encouragement, come join me inside Fertility Framework! This is a space where you AND your husband can learn about the science of your cycle while keeping God in the center of your fertility journey and growing towards Him together. Read the testimonies & enroll here: bekahyawn.com/course

✨If you would like personal support on your journey but are not sure how to get started, book a free 10-minute consult with me here: bekahyawn.com/consult

If you've ever felt the quiet weight of tracking every cycle, hoping this month is "the one," and wondering whether your husband really understands what you're carrying — this conversation is for you.

Today I'm joined by Nick and Haley, hosts of the Thriving Kingdom Marriage podcast, who are walking through their own season of trying to conceive their second child. We talk about what it looks like to surrender a timeline you can't control, why community and honest conversation with your spouse matters so much, and what it means for a husband to move from "it'll happen when it happens" into active, faith-filled partnership.

This one is for the wives carrying the mental load of the fertility journey, and for the husbands who want to know how to truly show up.

Episode Highlights

• Nick & Haley's calling to help couples heal from the inside out — heart wounds, communication, and God-designed differences
• Haley's honest journey from carrying the weight of ovulation tracking alone to fully surrendering the outcome to God
• Nick's perspective: steady faith, active investigation, and why he pursued bloodwork alongside prayer
• A powerful word for husbands on finances, provision, and trusting God as the true Provider over their family size

Resources & Links:

✨Nick and Haley’s Podcast - Thriving Kingdom Marriage Podcast

✨Join Fertility Framework: If you're ready for deeper support, personalized cycle guidance, and faith-filled encouragement, come join me inside Fertility Framework! This is a space where you AND your husband can learn about the science of your cycle while keeping God in the center of your fertility journey and growing towards Him together. Read the testimonies & enroll here: bekahyawn.com/course

✨If you would like personal support on your journey but are not sure how to get started, book a free 10-minute consult with me here: bekahyawn.com/consult

This is a heavy one — and I mean that in the holiest way.

I recorded this episode with a dear friend on my heart. She just walked through a miscarriage, and I've been right there with her — sitting on her doorstep, going to the memorial, feeling every layer of it. And if you've ever been in that place where everyone around you is still pregnant and you're not, I made this for you.

Because that feeling — of watching someone keep the gift that was taken from you — is one of the hardest parts of loss that no one talks about. The jealousy. The resentment. The way a baby bump across the room can undo you. It's real, and it's okay, and I want to sit with you in it today.

In this episode:

• Why seeing other pregnancies after loss feels so unjust — and why that feeling is valid
• A perspective on suffering that reframes your loss as a different kind of gift, not a lesser one
• How your grief can draw you closer to Christ than almost anything else could
• Why I think social media is making your healing harder — and what to do about it
• How to genuinely bless others in their pregnancy while honoring your own sorrow
• A prayer for the woman whose womb feels empty and whose heart is heavy

Resources & Links:

✨75k Downloads = A Big Giveaway for YOU! Information can be found in this podcast episode or on Facebook in the group Hormone & Conception Health for Christian Women: https://www.facebook.com/groups/802419477419221

✨Join Fertility Framework: If you're ready for deeper support, personalized cycle guidance, and faith-filled encouragement, come join me inside Fertility Framework! This is a space where you AND your husband can learn about the science of your cycle while keeping God in the centre of your fertility journey and growing towards Him together. Read the testimonies & enroll here: bekahyawn.com/course

✨If you would like personal support on your journey but are not sure how to get started, book a free 10-minute consult with me here: bekahyawn.com/consult

After a loss, one of the most tender questions a woman can ask is: Is my body ready to try again? In this episode, I'm walking you through the three signs I look for — the ones I wish someone had walked me through after my own three miscarriages.

We open in Isaiah 43:19 — "Behold, I am doing a new thing" — and let that promise anchor everything we dig into. Because this episode isn't just about physical readiness. It's about what it looks like to partner with the Lord in this process, lean into wise counsel, and discern his timing alongside your body's signals.

Episode Highlights:

• Why I always encourage waiting 2–3 cycles after miscarriage before trying to conceive again
• Sign #1: Have you discovered and addressed your root causes? (Thyroid, adrenals, gut, inflammation — and how grief impacts your stress hormones)
• Sign #2: What your luteal phase is telling you — and why progesterone health is mission critical before conception
• How cycle charting with an evidence-based method gives you real, accurate data on your hormonal health
• Sign #3: The peace of the Holy Spirit and the role of wise counsel in discerning when it's time
• What it looks like inside the Fertility Framework program to get feedback on your charts and support through this journey

Resources & Links:

✨Get my Faith Driven Fertility Booklet: bekahyawn.com/booklet

✨Join Fertility Framework: If you're ready for deeper support, personalized cycle guidance, and faith-filled encouragement, come join me inside Fertility Framework! This is a space where you AND your husband can learn about the science of your cycle while keeping God in the centre of your fertility journey and growing towards Him together. Read the testimonies & enroll here: bekahyawn.com/course

✨If you would like personal support on your journey but are not sure how to get started, book a free 10-minute consult with me here: bekahyawn.com/consult

If you've ever walked out of your doctor's office after a miscarriage feeling dismissed, unheard, or like there just had to be more you could do — this episode is for you.

After three of my own losses, I went looking for better answers. And I found them. Today I'm sharing the three things that 97% of doctors are not going to walk you through before you try to get pregnant again — and why doing this work before conception matters more than anything you'll do after that positive test.

We also spend time in Mark 5 with the woman who suffered under the care of many doctors — and found her healing in one touch of Jesus' cloak. Her story is our story.

Episode Highlights:

• The powerful parallel between the bleeding woman in Mark 5 and your fertility journey today
• Why "we'll put you on progesterone when you get pregnant again" is too little, too late
• How to chart your fertility cycle and why it's the single most powerful health data you can collect
• Root causes (thyroid, gut, liver, adrenals, inflammation) that most doctors never connect to miscarriage
• What your uterine lining is actually doing between cycles — and why womb health before pregnancy is everything
• The prayer framework for holding your healing journey with open hands

Resources & Links:

✨Get my Faith Driven Fertility Booklet: bekahyawn.com/booklet

✨Join Fertility Framework: If you're ready for deeper support, personalized cycle guidance, and faith-filled encouragement, come join me inside Fertility Framework! This is a space where you AND your husband can learn about the science of your cycle while keeping God in the centre of your fertility journey and growing towards Him together. Read the testimonies & enroll here: bekahyawn.com/course

✨If you would like personal support on your journey but are not sure how to get started, book a free 10-minute consult with me here: bekahyawn.com/consult