Are you a single woman praying God will bring the right person? Or a mom watching your son or daughter date someone and thinking, "Please, Lord, don't let them marry that person"?

This episode is for BOTH of you.

In this powerful conversation, Rhonda Stoppe draws from 44 years of marriage, raising four married children, and mentoring countless couples to share the hard-won wisdom every single woman—and every worried mama—needs to hear about choosing a spouse.

For Singles: You've heard all the advice about "waiting on God" and "trusting His timing." But what does choosing wisely actually look like? How do you know if the guy you're dating is the man you should marry? And what red flags are you ignoring because you're tired of being alone?

For Moms: Your daughter is head-over-heels for a guy who gives you pause. Or your son is dating someone you're not sure about. How do you guide without controlling? When should you speak up? And how do you pray effectively when you see warning signs they don't?

In this episode, Rhonda tackles:

• The difference between godly attraction and settling out of loneliness
• Red flags that predict marital disaster (chemistry can't overcome these)
• Green flags that actually matter (hint: it's not how romantic he is)
• Why "equally yoked" means more than just both being Christians
• The questions that MUST be asked before engagement—about faith, finances, family, and the future
• What missionary dating is—and why it never works
• How moms can guide their adult children without pushing them away
• When to speak up about concerns—and how to do it with grace
• What to do when your child won't listen to your warnings

Whether you're praying for your own future spouse or interceding for your child's relationship, this episode will equip you with biblical wisdom, practical discernment, and the courage to have hard conversations.

Because the choice made at the altar shapes everything that follows. Choose wisely, friend—or help the ones you love choose wisely. Eternity hangs in the balance.

CALL TO ACTION

📖 Want to go deeper?

• Grab Rhonda's book Real Life Romance for more biblical wisdom on marriage
• Check out Moms of the Bible for encouragement in your motherhood journey

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Your marriage matters. Your child's marriage matters. Let's choose wisely—together.

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