Gratitude is not a holiday mood; it’s a way of seeing that rewires what we value and how we give. We open with 2 Corinthians 9 to reframe resources as seeds, not trophies, and walk through the simple pattern that Jesus models again and again: give thanks, then act. That single move challenges the myth of scarcity and turns generosity into a predictable harvest. Along the way, we talk frankly about prayer—what it means to trust that the Father hears—and how the Spirit intercedes when words fail.

From there we turn to the work of a renewed mind. Too often we carry the gifts of the Spirit like an old VCR blinking 12:00—present but unused. We explore how to learn the controls, practice new habits, and “robe” ourselves with mercy, humility, patience, and forgiveness until they feel natural. We name love as the true mark of maturity and describe how unity in Christ dismantles hierarchies built on status, nationality, education, or wealth. The measure is simple and searching: how we treat the least among us.

The stories are the heart of this conversation. A grandmother thanking God for a car she’d just locked her keys inside reframes inconvenience into safety and faith for the children watching. A home that pulls doors off their hinges to make more tables becomes a living parable of abundance: when love is the host, there’s always room. We connect those moments to practical steps—setting aside resources to give, holding thankful thoughts long enough to change the brain, and building homes and churches that welcome without fear.

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Pastors Dennis and Heather Drake

What if love isn’t just a feeling but a frequency you can choose? We dive into a Spirit-led way of living where mercy displaces judgment, forgiveness breaks cycles of harm, and courage sets wise boundaries. Grounded in 1 John’s claim that God is love and Jesus’ teaching in Luke 6, we rethink what it means to be “blessed,” moving beyond applause and accumulation toward a life that is lighter, freer, and truer.

We talk about consent to the Holy Spirit as the turning point—Mary’s yes as the pattern for our yes. From there, the hard commands of Jesus stop sounding impossible and start sounding like the only sane way to live: love your enemies, pray for those who mistreat you, give without keeping score, and refuse tit for tat. We share raw stories—the phone-drop flash of anger, the zipper-merge awakening, the parent on edge with a bored child—to show how the Golden Rule becomes real in the pressure of daily life. Mercy for all isn’t naivety; it’s spiritual maturity that protects dignity and refuses to weaponize strength against the vulnerable.

Forgiveness here is not permission for abuse. We name the difference between releasing a debt and remaining in danger, and we explore how trauma lingers until we hand it to God and choose freedom. Along the way, simple graces steady us: rest, a meal, and the reminder that we’re not alone. The communion table holds that promise—there is enough, your sins are forgiven, and you can live a different story. If you’re hungry for a faith that heals, a community that includes, and a practice that actually changes people, this conversation will help you re-tune your life to love’s frequency.

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Pastors Dennis and Heather Drake

What if the prayer God always answers is the simplest one: “Be merciful to me”? We take a fresh look at Luke 18’s Pharisee and tax collector and discover a bigger, braver reading of mercy—one that refuses the lie of spiritual scorekeeping and invites us to live free from the need to earn love.

We start by slowing down. As the season turns toward longer nights, we trade the tyranny of the clock for the attentiveness of the Spirit. That shift reframes everything: fasting and tithing become practices of humility, not proof of superiority; prayer becomes communion, not performance. From there, we press into the scandal of grace. The Pharisee’s devotion is real. The tax collector’s harm is real. And yet mercy meets both, not because they’ve balanced the ledger, but because love moves first. It’s the same shock in the story of the prodigal and the older brother—offensive generosity that pulls us into a party we didn’t plan.

Forgiveness, though, is not denial. We name harm clearly, leave unsafe spaces, and get help when trauma sticks. A simple practice—letting some memories pass like white lines on the road—teaches us to stop feeding what doesn’t need to define us. When deeper wounds surface, therapy and the Holy Spirit work well together. Throughout, we return to surrender: choosing release over resentment, mercy over contempt, presence over hurry. And we ground it in action—stopping for the small needs in front of us, practicing interruptible love, and training our hearts to be ready to forgive.

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Pastors Dennis and Heather Drake