Summary:

In this episode of the Caretakers Journey podcast, Carole Leathem and Jane Daly discuss the complexities of caregiving for aging parents, emphasizing the importance of grace, understanding, and self-care.

They explore the emotional challenges faced by caregivers, the dynamics of sibling relationships, and the long grief that accompanies the decline of loved ones.

Through personal stories and insights, they highlight the need for compassion and support in the caregiving journey, reminding listeners that they are not alone in their struggles.

Takeaways:

• Grace isn't just something we extend to others.
• You are not alone. Grace meets you right where you are.
• Caring for aging parents is like caring for a toddler.
• God doesn't waste anything that we go through.
• The long grief starts before the final goodbye.
• Sometimes we just have to love them and let them make choices.
• You won't have regrets when she dies.
• I need to give myself a pedicure.
• Our journey as caregivers can be really hard.

Chapters:

00:00 Introduction and Overcoming Distractions

04:42 Jane Daly's Journey and Living in a Motorhome

07:43 Choosing the Motorhome Lifestyle

09:29 Writing 'The Caregiving Season'

11:41 The Need for Caregiving Resources

13:27 Navigating Changing Roles in Caregiving

20:01 The Challenges of Dealing with Siblings in Caregiving

22:15 Caring for Aging Parents and Building Better Relationships

25:44 The Long Grief of Watching Parents Decline

28:12 Dealing with Crankiness and Showing Grace

31:35 Personal Growth and Empathy Through Caregiving

38:05 Connecting with Other Caregivers and Self-Care

Connect with Jane:

https://bit.ly/4f093Mg Link to website

https://amzn.to/3yHyamM Link to the book

https://www.amazon.com/author/janedaly Link to Amazon Author Page

Connect with Carole:

Website - https://www.thecaretakersjourney.com/

Social Media -

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/carolesjourney/

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/carolesjourney

Book - https://www.carolesjourney.com/book