Furniture flips, a hair fix, a work wobble, and the future-self systems that pull you back on track

Episode 46 is a real-life reset story with receipts. Jax walks through a week that felt like chaos with a megaphone, then shows the exact pivots that brought relief: a full office rearrange, a simple hair solution, and a practical work system that turns “I forgot” into “I handled it.”

This episode ties straight back to Episode 1 energy: finding the CAN inside the “I can’t” moments, then building tiny supports that keep you steady.

• The reset trigger: Jax reorganizes the office after a repeat cat situation and turns the mess into a purposeful purge + fresh workflow.

• The hair win: Overtone becomes the budget-friendly fix that restores confidence fast.

• The work wobble: A rough week at work becomes a systems upgrade: eight alarms, future-self support, and less self-attack.

• The relationship lens: A powerful breakdown of “title vs human” (dad, mom, boss, etc.) and how inner-child reactions show up as a cry for help.

• Boundaries as protection: Jax reframes boundaries as calm, clean protection for the tender part of you.

• A reset can be a strategy, not a spiral.

• Future-you thrives when present-you builds simple systems.

• The adult version of you gets to lead, even when the younger part feels loud.

• Boundaries can be gentle, calm, and firm.

“There are four people happening at this experience right now with this phone conversation.”
Context: Jax explains past-self emotion, current adult-self power, the other person, and the human behind the title — then shows how that awareness changes everything.

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